the three reasons why people fail in almost any area of their life today I'm
going to break down each one of these three reasons tell you what why they are
a problem and how to systematically go about changing them solving them to a
point where your success is almost guaranteed there are many reasons why
people fail in any area of their life but it's probably because of these three
reasons why when you break it down people actually Finn I want you to think
about each one of these three reasons what are the areas of your life that
they are affecting and how you can go about transforming them to create
solutions for yourself and actually accomplish things through experience
success itself Alper the three problems that we typically associate with failure
today I am going to talk to you about them the three reasons why people get
stopped in their tracks why they are not able to overcome a problem and
ultimately accomplish what they want for themselves that is coming up so when we
look at these problems remember that there is a solution for them you just
need to go about creating that solution going about implementing it and actually
accomplishing what you want for yourself here it is problem number one the reason
why people typically fail typically why you may have experienced failure at some
point of time in your life is because of people because certain people prevent
you put the wrong thoughts into your head put you in a position to say hey
I am not going to be able to do this I can't accomplish this this is too hard I
am bound to fail it's not possible this is coming from other people other people
preventing you from going about what you want for yourself for the longest time I
had to experience this while playing table tennis where a lot of people to me
that hey you're not good enough you can't do this you'll never win because I
am here to even listen to these guys listen to the things that they are
trying to put into my head and actually get me to believe what they are saying
to a point where not only are they better than me to actually play the
sport better to actually have the skills required I also put myself in a position
to start believing the things that they say not only are they preventing me from
actually transforming or doing something about it
but I am putting myself in a position by believing them and that is problem
number two the second reason why people fail is because of their thoughts the
way you think transitions into the kind of action you take transition into the
belief system that is developed and determines what kind of success you see
in your life if any at all the reality of the matter is the connection between
these two is so strong so deeply interconnected that it really determines
how far you are going to get in life what are the people that you are hanging
out with what are they doing what are they thinking and how are they behaving
and how are you thinking acting and feeling
about yourself based on this because what you are is basically the average of
these five people the five people that you hang out with the most show me your
friends and I'll show you your future it's pretty much that sense of thinking
now you may be hanging out with the best in your sport you may be hanging out
with the best people in business but if you are being taken for a ride you're
being made to believe things that aren't good for you where you don't have your
own belief system and tell yourself hey this is what is going on around me
that sense of awareness self-awareness if you do not have it you can never
overcome these two problems the problem of having the wrong people around you
telling you the wrong things you believe in those things and ultimately taking no
action you're stuck not only do you not fail you may fail if you take some kind
of action but also when you do fail it puts you in a position to tell yourself
hey I am not capable of this I don't have the potential I am not good enough
your self-talk those tend to reflect how you think and feel about yourself your
self-esteem gets affected your self-worth gets affected the kind of
action you take also gets affected and systematically creates the belief that
is reinforced by these people around you so what are you going to do about it
that's my question to you comment down below I want to know if these two
reasons have led to some kind of failure in your life and what did you do about
that particular situation did you actually keep these people away did you
find new friends did you start to believe and adopt some
of those things that they said about you I want to know because this is such a
critical thing that we fail to recognize that the people around us can directly
affect what we think and feel about ourselves because of our social nature
we interact with people on a daily basis one small incident one small comment
from someone who we deem important they don't even have to be important
sometimes they say something and we believe it we adopt it and we believe
that that is who we are that's why it's so powerful that is why having your own
belief system how you think and feel about yourself is so important your
values your self-esteem should come from you my self-worth is determined by me if
you haven't watched the video that I put out on self-worth click this I button to
watch it it's really valuable it's going to transform how you see yourself and
actually go about creating success in any area of your life because that is
the foundation of it self-esteem is the foundation of all success and if you
want to develop it it the eye button go watch that video or check out the
description box below for the link the reality of the matter is this once you
cancel out this you stop hanging out with the people who directly effect
whether you succeed or not you're not getting the training that you need go to
another place where the training that you demand or the training you require
to get successful that is available you are hanging out with a crowd of business
people that aren't really looking to take your growth to the next level find
your business people hang out with go to networking events find out who that one
client is that if you got that person you get all of them
one will come to you become the person whom these people envy that's step
number one solution number one get rid of the bad people get rid of the people
who are of no significance to your future of success get in those people
who are going to encourage you when motivate you're going to push those
ideas into your head that are going to help you evolve and become the person
whom you want to be you are the determinants of your own success and as
much as you attach that locus of control to yourself the stronger you feel the
more conviction you have to actually go about transitioning into a state where
hey I can do this I can accomplish this because I believe it and that's where it
comes from transforming your self-talk what do I think about myself what do I
feel about myself how confident am I in my abilities how hard am i training
this is the center because the center of all of this your success is you how
quickly can you get up once you are thrown down because often it's not the
people around us there are constantly a number of people who are going to tell
you you can't do something or will even try and stop you from getting to what
you want for yourself the so called crab mentality where because I can't get it
hey let me try and pull this guy down and prevent him from getting it too you
will encounter these people but what I am talking about here is you your
mindset your thought process because when we deal with failure what happens
one failure two failures three failures it starts to affect well how we think
about it can we really do this can I actually accomplish this is it really
possible my self-talk continually reflects what I think and feel about
myself and how much action I take against what I want
how much achievement can I see my life determined by this particular
concept of self-talk because it is so important the biggest battle that you
will ever fight in your life is your own inner voice what are you telling
yourself because even though we may be getting overwhelmed by other people what
they may be saying what they may be saying about us when we aren't there the
biggest voice in your life is your own what other people say what other people
think about you what they feel about you what do you feel about yourself that is
the most important thing your own inner voice your own inner demons how are you
dealing with them are you able to overcome your own mind that is
preventing you from experiencing success that is blocking you from taking
sufficient action to actually look past these failures to looking at them and
saying hey either I need to change my strategy I need to do things differently
or whether I'm going to give up I'm going to you know stay where I am I'm
comfortable looks like I don't have the potential remember that if you don't
take enough action you don't tell yourself the right things you don't
experience enough success how are you going to develop the belief system that
is going to allow you to continually experience the self-talk that is
required to experience that kind of success and avoid as much failure as
possible how are you going to go about doing this
when you fail to recognize that you and how you are talking to yourself is the
biggest problem here it's like that so transform this very important problem
step number two or problem number two reason number two that you are currently
failing and transitioning now into this new person change how you think and feel
about yourself that is the most important the most significant change
that you can make for yourself create this change and I promise you that how
you view your future how you your successes and your failures will
change permanently but we aren't done yet
there is still reason number three why you fail in your life in any particular
area it's because of this opportunities a lot of us aren't given the chance to
succeed and even if we have a chance at success we have an opportunity that will
take us to the success that we want we failed to grab it can you relate to this
and tell me down in the comment section below
any particular incident in your life where you had the opportunity in your
hand you ponder it up and you thought yourself hey I am NOT going to get
another chance later in my life and sometimes that's how it is sports
business school performance life performance we only get one shot that's
the sad truth in some situations we get only one
opportunity to completely change our situation what do some people do with it
some people grab it they grab that Google golden opportunity and then they
go about achieving what they want for themselves other people believe that
that golden opportunity was the only one that they will ever receive in their
life and that's the end of it look at the mindset that this person has
look at the people that that person may be surrounding himself or herself with
to actually achieving the success that they want for themselves versus the
person who has failed and said hey I give up now that's where the what you
say to yourself yourself talk your self-esteem yourself one that comes into
play as well as the people that you surround yourself with so if you got
these two areas covered typically the chance that you will get another
opportunity pretty high remember that you also have to put in your best effort
each and every day each and every time at the area that you are trying to
currently improve upon if you want to see those opportunities increase
opportunities are all around you today opportunities keep coming and remember
one opportunity can lead to the second and then the third and then ultimately
to that one opportunity that you thought would never come your way again that's
how it is people fail because they lack the opportunities you're born into a
poor family you have already taken one step into failure you've taken one step
into the pool of failure that hey now I am stuck here I am never going to get
out that's how it is when you look at opportunities the key is to hold on to
them and realize that hey I have this chance in front of me now it's up to me
to actually ease into this think about what I have done to actually get here
use that opportunity to the fullest by actually relying on the people around
you the mindset that you have now created for yourself to a point where
hey I'm going to make the best use of this chance
I possibly can look at some of the successful people around you what did
they do they stack upon their success they use one opportunity they use one
opportunity so effectively that it just leads to more and more successes what
are you doing when you get an opportunity there are multiple
opportunities in multiple areas of your life but what is the area that you are
holding back on that's the question that you need to answer you need to write
this down and tell yourself hey which one of these areas am I currently
lacking in is it the people whom I surround myself with is it my own
mindset or do I lack the opportunities in my life at this point of time it is
typically usage of all three of these combined that allows you to experience
the most amount of success because people lead to opportunities
opportunities create the mindset and so on and so forth each one has a symbiotic
relationship with the other but it's up to you to start with yourself that's why
the mindset the self-esteem that you have for yourself is the foundation for
any success because if you don't love yourself you don't appreciate yourself
you aren't confident about about yourself how are you going to use other
people how are you going to make best use of the opportunities that are given
to you so start with yourself and then systematically shift out of the roles
that you're currently playing and shift into the roles of a winner that's how
you overcome failure you shift into the role of someone who is successful by
shifting out of this mindset the self-talk that you have about yourself
change it start looking at yourself differently if you haven't watched my
playlist on self-talk at the I button go watch that it's going to transform how
you think about yourself now that I have listed out all three of these the
reasons why you fail now you've come to realize that hey
these aren't so overwhelming these aren't so challenging
once you transform or transition out of this and become the successful person
that you want to be stack upon your success build that belief system that
failure is a part of the game and then you will experience more and more
success failure is maybe a roadblock that can come a few times multiple times
and may appear so many times in your life that I work so hard to experience
just one success it's up to you how much success do you want to see because
there's a lot of competition out there there are a lot of challenges that you
are going to face how are you going to do this how are you going to actually
deal with each one of these hurdles that's up to you I want to know aside
from these three reasons that I have listed is there any other reason why you
have failed in any particular instant of your life any instance where you have
dealt with a problem other than these three comment down below I want to know
and let's discuss it I want to see if we can solve it together if you have a
question regarding what you want to see in future videos anything at all that
can get you performing better feeling empowered and motivated to become the
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others to make them successful as well that's the beauty of it that's the kind
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