Hey guys! Another video from mamas! If you's a mama
this one's for you!
hello momma's and welcome back if this is your first time at my channel welcome
here and if it's your second or more welcome back today I want to talk about
mommies and losing ourselves I don't mean losing your mind that might happen
too I mean losing yourself so it is all too common that we mommies spend our
lives thinking about mommy hood and becoming a mommy and what that looks
like and then we spend so long some of us a lot of times I'm a foots not very
long getting pregnant or trying to get pregnant and all that time during
pregnancy thinking about our dream of having a baby and then we have our baby
or babies and that might be one baby or babies consistently and consecutively
your baby's far apart but something happens to us a lot of times once we
have those babies is we can very easily slowly but surely lose ourselves our
whole identity has been wrapped around babies having babies and what that will
look like and as babies start to grow and babies start to loot leave the house
we start to question Who am I I got lost I got lost in the diapers I got lost in
the puke I got lost in the cries I got lost in the sleep and no sleep I got
lost in the temperatures and the coughs got lost in the school round out the
daycare the sports
I'm not quite sure who I am and so mommies I don't care what phase you're
at if you are thinking about getting pregnant if you're pregnant if you have
one baby two babies eight babies if you're done having kids or if you're
still thinking about it please please please do some stuff so you don't lose
yourself if you've lost yourself you're in the right place too but when your
babies are little and your babies are tiny and the guilt is so high to make a
playdate with a friend or the guilt is so high to go to dinner with the girls
you haven't seen in months or the guilt is so high about going to
that weekend getaway please don't lose yourself the road is so much harder to
travel and the snow is so much deeper the further out we go so for those
mommies who are feeling guilty about leaving the house please remind yourself
this is you continuing to find yourself this is you keeping you intact and not
losing yourself during these precious years it'll do two things it will save
you in the future from having to go backwards and do this work but it will
also make you more content happy and intact when you are at home with those
babies and so for those mommies who are farther down the road and who have found
themselves in that hustle and bustle and who are there like saying yeap lost
myself today is a new day today is the day to
start you are not alone you are in no way alone there are lots and lots and
lots of people who are in that same position of wondering who in the world
am i I'm no longer changing diapers I'm no longer running kids to school I'm no
longer running kids to sports I just have time to do why today's the day
start exploring you are amazing you are phenomenal you have raised babies you've
given life you have encouraged life you have amazing talents and abilities start
finding out what they are explore it's gonna feel weird awkward and probably
like a lot of work but you don't know what you like anymore so try it find a
friend and go bowling read a book go online watch some YouTube videos about
what other Mamas are doing try that new art class that you've been looking at go
try some yoga go to the gym mingle with other women it's going to feel
exhausting but start digging deep and find out who you are who are you as a
person you get to be a mommy you get to be fabulous but you're also more than
that you're person that has likes desires and interests so don't lose
yourself don't live in that that I've lost my purpose no honey you still have
a purpose those babies need you they'll need you forever the life is different
now so find who you are explore let me know
below some of the things that you found about yourself that you didn't know
after you started exploring good luck have a great week bye bye
you
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