hello and welcome to big life big dreams this is Sheryl Gipson I'm here I'm your
coach on your consultant I am your girl that's here to help you have a better
life to live a big life in a big dream that's right the name of my company is
called big life big dreams and the reason why is because I want you to have
that big life that you could possibly be dreaming of you can actually make it a
reality and I'm here to tell you exactly how to do that so welcome to our podcast
so today what we're going to be discussing is a topic that's really near
and dear to my heart and of course being a woman it's going to be women and you
know how they have that me too movement going on right now I want to take the
time to give a shout out at an appreciation to all the women that had
the courage to stand up despite what was going on and actually speak your truth
so congratulations to you hey I got your back girl I understand there has been so
many of us women that have dealt wood harassment for so long and have been
quiet about it and a lot of situations has been where we actually believe you
know what it's just been something that I've been dealing with all my life is
just a part of life you know what it really is something that should not be a
part of life it shouldn't be something that we're quiet about and I know after
speaking to a lot of men that seem to have a really different opinion about
this situation now don't get me wrong there's some men that are right there
cheering us on and they're rooting for us and they want us to be strong in what
we're doing and they actually have our backs and they are for us however there
are some guys that are actually looking at the me2 movement as a situation
that's against men man I'm here to tell you we love you
we need you we need your help we need your support if you're a legit man then
if you see a wrong being done to someone else male or female you're gonna speak
up and you're going to speak out about it man
men we're asking that you continue to back us up have our back speak up speak
out for us support us talk to other men let them know that that behavior is
unacceptable that it is not okay to put your hands on a woman unless she gives
you permission to do that you do not have the right to put your hands on a
woman and you don't have the right to speak to a woman any type of way just as
a woman doesn't have a right to speak to you any type of way so it's really about
respect honoring one another having care compassion and love for one another but
I don't want to get off off topic and what's off topic for me or rather what
should be on topic for me is about trying to help one that women big life
big dreams is all about trying to help women and to empower them giving them
the tools that they need so that they can succeed in life that they can turn
their victim hoods in some cases to victorious that you actually do and can
be whatever it is that you truly want to be and can have in this life what's
going on and what's actually was one thing that was important to me about
getting into the self development field and actually speaking up and on behalf
of women was that there's such a concern going on with our ladies with our young
girls that self-esteem they have poor self-esteem and with social media that
has basically taken control and over a lot of our lives and especially our
young people's life so many of them they go straight to social media to actually
validate them and that is so sad when you think about getting validation and
that you have to get it from social media so that means I have to make sure
them part of all the different social media things
which are Facebook Instagram I think they have snapchat as well there's many
different uses of social media however just as it can be used for good it can
be used for harm also and unfortunately a lot of our young girls are being
harmed I heard a statistic recently and that's what moved me to actually go
ahead and do this podcast is that I actually heard recently that 75% it's up
75% suicide for women suicide for young girls and that's so sad and the reason
why is because of social media I want you to think especially those that are
around my age if you're anywhere 35 and up and I'm far removed from 35 you guys
I'm just using that trying to become but if you're anywhere 35 and up then you
know that back in the day we didn't have use of all the different social media
channels so and women still girls still had a hard time with self-esteem just
from the different images we look at magazines and know that these magazines
are airbrushed however we don't know that when we're young so we're looking
at these images of these perfect bodies these perfect skin perfect hair perfect
everything and we're wanting to be like that we're longing to be like that and
we're comparing ourselves to these images that actually are not even real
they're not real images they've airbrushed these images but like I said
we have no idea that they're airbrushed these images and then when you look at
these things and we're comparing ourselves we want to look like that and
especially when you're a teenager and your hormones are going crazy a part of
being a teenager and your hormones and growing in everything is sometimes you
get acne so then you're dealing with skin issues and all type of things but
yet they're showing you all these perfect images of people and it's just
not true it's not real but when you don't know any better you suffer
and it's so sad that social media has taken on this part as far as young
ladies are they're looking for the validation I'm understanding that what's
going on is that they will post a picture or something of themselves and
then wait to get a like can you imagine waiting to see if somebody actually
likes something that you just posted that you're waiting for that approval
and god forbid if somebody disapproves of it and how that's really taken a hit
on the self-esteem of our young girls so what I wanted to do was to first bring
it to the attention that this was actually going on in the first place cuz
I was actually shocked but I always knew that self-esteem was an issue I had poor
self-esteem as a young girl and because of help when you have poor self-esteem
you make poor choices and I definitely made some poor choices I learned from
those choices now but I had to go through it what I'm hoping to do is to
help those not have to have such a hard life you don't have to go through some
trouble because of having poor self-esteem and so I want to give you
some tools and one tool that I know is very beneficial to helping your
self-esteem is actually just looking at all the wonderful beautiful qualities
that you actually do have the type of person that you are the type of person
that you want to be and then you can actually carve out and create that
person and become that person that's the beauty about self development I really
wish that I had found self development a lot younger when I was in my teenage
years because lord knows I certainly could have used it because I use it
right now and many many others use self development and what self development
does it just helps you have a better understanding of you you who believe me
you are the most important person not other people you are the most important
person the way that you think the way that you
feel and so it's really important that we learn to think properly that we learn
to utilize this beautiful beautiful tool that we have right here and it's a
wonderful tool but when you don't know how to operate it then it's just like
having the keys to the cup to a car and you don't know how to operate it you
don't know how to go forward you don't know how to go backward you don't know
what gears work how to shift this or that well
self development shows you how to actually gain control over your emotions
so that you do make better decisions and so that you can have a better happier
fulfilled life that you're not looking outward for approval from others that
you can actually look inward create and become and do what you want to do and be
that person that you want to be you can actually create that person knowing that
you have those tools and those abilities should actually warm your heart make you
happy make you optimistic give you hope let you know that there that the world
is open to you that there is so much in front of you that you can do and you can
do it right now so what I want you to do is actually do just that I want you to
write out that perfect person who's that person that you look up to what are the
characteristics that that person has write them down something about the
power of writing things down actually gives it energy and that energy attracts
like energy and try it it's gonna work for you we want to use the power of
Attraction we want to attract the good things in life and know that although
there might be others out there they're struggling just like you are that are
having issues with self-esteem but they're too quiet they don't want to say
anything me this is one of those things that people don't like to talk about I
know I didn't want to talk about it when I was young that's for sure sometimes I
still don't want to talk about it but I do talk about it because you know
what it's empowering I know who I was and now I know who I am and I know where
I'm going and so what you have to do is actually create a map you have to create
a goal for your life of what you want and then you set out and you actually
make a plan to achieve them and then you just do it and you get the support of
people that have your back they want to see you succeed that want the best for
you that's what you do so once again what I wanted to talk about today was
about how social media how it could be positive but how it could actually be
negative and how unfortunately a lot of our young ladies are are having poor
self-esteem however the bad thing about having poor self-esteem is that Elise
too poor choices and sometimes when you feel as if you're hopeless and that
there's nowhere to go to a know where to turn sometimes people go that extra
length and they go to suicide and I'm here to tell you suicide should not be
an option I want you to choose life I want you to choose love I want you to
choose hope I want you to choose the life that you want and that you desire
to have but I'm here to help you get that and the way that you do that is
that you just take control you take charge over your situation you take
charge over your emotions so I will be hosting some more classes that I will be
hosting here on YouTube I have hosted some other classes I welcome you to take
a look at some of my other podcasts that I do have and that I will be airing that
actually goes into our 14 emotions we have 14 emotions seven positive and
seven negative and if we can learn how to get a handle over our emotions then
we can learn how to get a handle over our life so I want you to know that life
is yours you can have a wonderful life you have beautiful choices in front of
you I want you to choose correctly I want you to get in front of people that
got your back that want to see you succeed that want the best for you I
want you to choose out and actually begin to carve out the type of life that
you want to have that's right this my podcast is for people that are
teenagers that are not even teenagers that are preteens because you know what
knowledge is power when you use it so I'm going to give you
the knowledge so that you can then actually activate the power that you
have within yourself so that you can put it into action and then become and do
and have things that you want to have be it you want more money you want better
relationships you want more love in the situation you want better health better
fitness these are tools that can actually help you and what we have to do
is learn about the things that God is there in the first place and one of
those things that gets us there you guys is the way that we're wired the way that
we think about things our paradigm a paradigm is a collection of habits that
we have gotten from heredity customs religion peers it ends up being a
collection of habits that sometimes they serve you well and sometimes they don't
serve you at all and what we have to do is look at the things that are not
serving us get rid of those things and then replace them with actions
activities and habits that are actually good for us and will actually help us
achieve the goals that we are after and that will actually lead to a happier
harmonious life so I like I said I just wanted to go over what was holding down
my girls and let you know that there is hope for you I want you to start
businesses I want you to start writing down your goals I want you to write down
exactly what it is that you want I want you to look at yourself I want you to
see the beautiful person that you are our self-image means a lot you guys what
we think about ourselves means a whole lot if you think poorly of yourself then
you're going to end up making a lot of poor choices but if you begin to think
about the powerful person that you are and I'm here to tell you you are
powerful you and the human the thing that's different that sets us apart from
other animals the four-legged animal that walk the earth the thing that makes
us so superior is that we have the ability to decide we have the ability to
make decisions and choices that can actually benefit us you guys so I'm
asking you to actually make the choice of writing down goals that can actually
set you on the path so that you can get the things that you want to have and
once you actually set those goals then you will be able to develop a plan don't
worry about the plan yet just set the goals and I want you to set the goals
and the way that if money was not an option money and resources was not an
option what goals is it that you would want to achieve what is the person that
you want to be and I want you to write those goals for the next month I want
you to write them for six months I want you to write them for 12 months then I
want you to write them for three years and then five years we all need to have
the goals that are written that way so I want you to write them down and know
that they are obtainable and I'm going to show you how to get them what you
need to know when you get ready to set a goal and go after your goal is that
first thing is that you have to be willing and able to go after it so let's
get ready let's get able and let's go after our goals and if you feel like
you're ready willing and able to change your life I'm going to give you the
tools that you need so that you can do that and it starts right here so by all
means start writing down those goals please know that yes our paradigms have
messed with us in the past we're going to learn how to utilize our paradigms
with repetition the more you do something the better you get at it and
you actually become a master and an expert so it was repetition that got us
into this how we develop that habit and it is repetition that is going to change
that habit so that's what you have to do you have to change that habit you have
to change that behavior so I told you about goal-setting and I told you about
paradigms and I told you how you can actually
change your paradigm with repetition you have to do it over and over again I want
you to write it out I want you to see it it's the power of writing actually
brings like attraction and remember I'm not thinking it's a results coach I do
believe in the law of attraction I do believe in the laws of the universe and
there's more than one law and I'm here to teach you about them all so by all
means have a wonderful day please make sure that you subscribe like share this
information with others I plan on having more things for young ladies and you
know what I want to help young ladies actually start businesses the name of my
business is actually called big life big dreams and big life big dreams is about
turning your passions into profits so my girls I want you to figure out your
passion what is it that lights you up what makes you happy what turns you on
and how can you spread that joy and then message to others and then what we're
going to do is we're actually going to monetize it that's right we're going to
monetize it so that you can make money at it you can profit at it what we're
gonna do is actually set goals and set your life on the path of joy and
happiness so that you not only help yourself you help others so get with big
life big dreams once again I want you to think about your passion so we can turn
that into profit and know that we can actually turn your dreams into reality
it all starts with the way that you actually see yourself it is your
self-image I want you to see yourself in charge I want you to see yourself as as
victorious and that you are in control of your situation because you know what
we all make choices and it's our choices that actually got us to where we are
right here today and it's our choices which is going to dictate our future so
let's make some good choices going forward have wonderful day make sure to
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information for you and if you need a coach I'm here for you also
have a great day you guys
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