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Hi,

I'm Lee Wind from the Independent Book Publishers Association.

I'm the Director of marketing and programming.

And

conferences are a place where you can actually connect with your community.

Being a writer can be a super isolating experience.

I'm a writer myself.

I joke that I have a "Clark Kent" identity and a superhero identity:

My "Clark Kent" identity is working and doing

book promotions and marketing and talking about

the cool programs that IBPA offers to our publisher members.

And my superhero job is to be a writer.

We're on this journey together,

because your success just brings success closer to me

and my success just brings success closer to you.

It's not a competition.

We are all in this together.

We need more voices to be heard.

Indie voices are very very important right now

and like BookBaby says,

"Where writers become authors."

So I hope that's part of your journey ahead.

Thank you so much and

have a great day

For more infomation >> BookBaby Indie Author Self-Publishing Conference 2017 with Lee Wind - Duration: 1:12.

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Books That Changed My Life | Top 3 Personal Development Books | Best Self-Help Books - Duration: 17:50.

hi guys welcome to my channel today I'm going to be talking to you about top

three personal development books that changed my life and when I stay changed

my life I mean it totally changed my perspective about how I see Life let me

just make things clear I am NOT a big reader at all I can count probably in

all my fingers the number of books I've read in my life from beginning to end

most of the time I'll start a book and not finish it mainly because it doesn't

interest me. In particularly I don't like fictional books. I have a big interested in

entrepreneurship I want to have my own business I don't like the idea of being

an employee and I just want to have a positive outlook on life so when I come

across a book that I start and I actually finish in a number of days or

even a day a 24-hour 48-hour period I know that it's good okay and you have to

know that that book has to be good for me to do that and even read some of them

two, three, four times during the space of time that I've had them. if you're new

here then consider subscribing because self-improvement is one of my favorite

topics so you might want to stick around to see

what else I bring out and don't forget to press that Bell button so you're

notified every time I bring out a new video the first book I want to talk

about is a book called the secret I first heard about this book from my

boyfriend now he read the book and he loved it he couldn't get enough of it so

he went online and saw what you could find about the secret and it turns out

that the secret is cons of reforms there is a physical paper book the movie and

the audible book it is all about how to change your mindset and look at life in

a positive way is a lot to do with a lot of Attraction but it goes way way deeper

than anything you've seen out there law of attraction is says that positives

attract positives if you look at anything in a negative way all you're

doing is attracting more negativity and if you're looking at anything in a

positive way you are attracting you so don't think about what you don't want

always think about what you do want and you can manifest it in your own life

that is all it's all about but the secret goes so deep into it that you

will just be blown away like it just blew my mind when I watched that movie

with my partner and this was at the beginning of our relationship and I am

so so grateful that he shared that movie with me in the beginning of our

relationship because it has changed so much but our relationship in the way we

look at things in our lives so every now and then we would remind each other but

certain situations difficult situations you know they don't have to be the way

they are it's just because of the way we look at them the secret is something

that I really really really cherish I told everyone about it I can't even

explain how amazing the the actual movie is because I watched the movie now if

you want to get the book you can get the book and I basically have the movie I

can watch as many times as I want the movies available in Amazon Prime video

if you have Amazon Prime is included you don't have to pay any extra for it

and with Prime I get like free next day delivery for anything I buy from Amazon

and I get like videos that I can watch what I'll do is I will put a link in the

description box so that you know where to get it from if you had Amazon Prime

or and you can just go ahead and search for the secret and you can watch it

straight away if you have audible already you can get the secret book and

listen to it it's absolutely amazing the stories are just so inspiring and

actually it makes me think back to situations that I've had and the

different outlooks that I've had on certain situations and made me realize

that you know there are times that I've looked at things in such positive ways

and I visualized having a certain thing and I'm actually you know I've actually

been able to manifest it but I just didn't know that it was called the law

of attraction until I watched a secret so you might be doing things like that

in your own life but you just need to be conscious about it in order to manifest

all the things that you want and more of it if there is one book that you must

read this is the book the second book I want

to talk about is one that I absolutely love I have read this book three to four

times I would say because maybe the last time I read it I didn't read it

beginning to end but I've read it at least three times this is the first

self-help book I have ever ever read like bought it in about 2011 and I'll

show you what it is now as this book Rich Dad Poor Dad by Robert Kiyosaki

okay so this book is the number one personal finance book of all time it's

only about 180 jumping pages which is really good if you're not a big reader

that's how your story about this book right when I first met my boyfriend I

found this book in his house and so we had we have two copies well we had two

copies of this book in the house but isn't it funny that he's not a big

reader like he hasn't picked up a book in ages yeah he probably we'd like one

or two books a year if that okay and for me used to be the same I'm trying to

read a bit more so for him not to be that much of a big reader and to have

this book in his house in his possession says something journaling and and also

his opinions about it at like the same as mine so this book is all about

personal finance okay and it says my so it's titled Rich Dad Poor Dad what the

rich teach their kids about money that the poor and middle class do not doubt

he breaks it down okay this guy here is a self-made like millionaire he breaks

it down how the poor and middle class how their attitudes towards money differ

to the rich it's just a way like we see money and when we're growing up what

we're taught about money we're taught to you know work hard at school go to

university or whatever I get a good job earn money then we're working basically

all our lives 40 50 years - in the end retire and get a pension like most of us

have the state pension and maybe a little bit of a private pension but it's

never comfortable it's never comfortable and he just says that that's not the way

to do it and he takes you through his path

now Rich Dad Poor Dad with that actually where that bit of the title actually

comes from is that he basically had two father figures in his life that taught

him about finance okay one is biological father who he calls Poor Dad

and then he's rich dad is is actually is his best friend's father who was a

successful business lender so he decided to basically listen to his Rich Dad and

go that path and obviously it's like proved so successful to him I took away

so much from that book a bit of the things I knew already but I feel like it

just cemented like what I thought I knew and what I was like I'm gonna airing

about and I learnt so many new things you read the book and you want to read

it again and again and again just to make sure you embed that information in

your head after I read it I told my sister about it she asked me for it I

just gave it to her because I just thought you know what I gained so much

from it I just want you to read it like if I could force somebody to look at a

book with their eyes and really I would force the person to read it but I just

basically couldn't do that if you wanna know learn about entrepreneurship this

is the starting point for you which that poor that is the book to read and if you

haven't read it that I don't know what you are reading at the moment because

like you need to read this book this is the holy grail of like entrepreneurship

like the beginning of finances everyone was talking about this book online

everywhere I went basically cuz I'm interested in entrepreneurship have been

the whole of my life and so when I was looking around you know like I can just

some advice I mean I wanted to read I want it's no more so this book just kept

coming up over and over and over again and I thought you know what let me just

get it so I went to Amazon ordered a copy for myself and I haven't regretted

it me on boyfriend we cherish our books like a vase book like I don't know like

it's a baby or something we do not want to lose this book or if we ever did lose

it who would buy another one the third and final book I'm going to talk about

is a book by how called the miracle morning now I got

this book on audible so it's an audiobook I'm listening to

but it's also available on paper the miracle morning like the way I came

about it so basically three weeks ago I wanted to

make the most of my day because I realized I really want to be serious

about this youtube thing at the same time I'm a mom of three boys at the same

time I'm a girlfriend and you know that big baby needs attention as well so how

am I gonna squeeze all this in and produce regular videos at the same time

like not just regular videos for quality regular videos so I came across this

video and a current remember the guys name but it was a TEDTalk name will pop

up on the screen right now so as a TED talk about this guy talking about how he

spent 21 days waking up early in the morning at 4:30 and how those 21 days

went and obviously he had a really positive result out of the whole thing

he posted it on Facebook and his social medias and everything everyone started

talking about it and they started sharing their experiences with the 21

early days it's actually hashtag guys if you want to research it it's hashtag 21

early days right and the reason why 21 days is because apparently takes 21 days

for a habit to develop so he decided to do 21 days and see what would happen and

his life totally totally turn around after I saw his video I thought you know

what I'm gonna try and wake up at 4:30 in the morning suggested it to my

partner because he at the moment is working full-time and he's also studying

like some IT kind of thing cuz he wants to get into the IT field so I suggested

it to him thinking that you know he would just pass spots on it and just let

me do on my own but he actually like embrace the whole thing and the next day

after I suggested it suggested it we you know that's a night we went to bed at 10

o'clock and I'm working for 4:30 in the morning and it was just amazing amazing

feeling getting in the shower at that time having so much extra time like by

10 o'clock but 10:30 we had been awake for six hours of the day

and like I who's a stay-at-home mom right now I had done so much in that

first day now what I was missing is some structure and some routine to my morning

because it's such a new thing for me to wake up at 4:30 in the morning I wanted

some kind of routine so I started like planning my day the night before I said

before like when I went to bed I was getting like a notepad and writing down

what I needed to get done the next morning you know in terms of my youtube

videos in terms of like mummy stove appointment and blah blah blah but I've

still found that I didn't have a step Rutina didn't know how to really come up

with something that actually worked you know that for the first couple of hours

I found that if I didn't do the first couple of hours right then the rest of

my day didn't really go productive but when I did get it right it was

absolutely amazing amazing right the first hour is the rudder of the day I

absolutely believe in that and I'm sure you do as well because if you think

about it if you have a really bad morning then you have a bad rest of the

day if you have an amazing morning you have an amazing rest of the day and

that's mostly to do with the law of attraction you know like if you're

feeling bad you attract bad if you're feeling good you attract good you know

if you have good thoughts or check good thoughts and I really want to make this

about me waking up early in the morning I want to really go through the book

with you so I'll tell you what the book is about right first of all how he

discovered the miracle morning is he was going through a really really bad time

in his life he was going through like a financial struggles and even depression

he just didn't know what to do with himself he was keeping to himself and

just needed to basically better his life and so he tells you how he discovered

the this you know miracle morning an American morning is a daily routine of

how to spend the first hour of your day and also part of that is obviously

getting up one or two hours earlier than what you normally would now the reason

for that is obviously to maximize your day to have the most energy so that you

can do the most with your day that you want

I love this saying like how you live your days is how you live your life so

that is really what the whole book is about it's about how you spend your

morning and how it affects the rest of the day

so he goes through what he calls it your life savers okay and it's all in the

save as part every letter in the word savers is one of the six life savers is

so valuable now one thing I would say about this book is at the beginning how

Elrod before the first chapter he does say grab a pen and a notebook cuz you're

gonna want to jot things down now the mistake I made I listened to this book

while I was in the shower I listened to this book while I was walking to where

around walking to I listened to this book while I was washing up while I was

cooking before bed I listen to it every opportunity I got because it is just so

good right it offers you practical steps to actually achieving your miracle

morning so that you can just get the most out of your day get the most energy

out get the most potential out of your day but there is a lot of information to

take in so you need to sit down with that pen and paper or that pen and

notebook to take all the information in and be able to go back to the main

points and revisit them so I'm going to put that book on replay from beginning

to end and replay all over again for myself and also for my partner and I

started a miracle morning challenge although we are still getting up early

I'm not doing it Hal Elrod's way yet but I plan to because I think he's got a

methodical way of doing each step and each step is very important from what I

remember him explaining about each of the you know life savers so that is the

next task that I'm going to have in the next couple of days but I love the book

so much I wanted to tell you guys about it it is available inaudible I got it

for free because I assigned it for that 30-day free trial subscription of

audible and I'm going to keep my subscription because I have one of my

new year's resolutions is to read more whether it is an audio book

or a paper book and for me to read it myself I do want to read more because I

want to become a better person with more knowledge and more wisdom so um you know

with my subscription I get three free books obviously because I get UK

subscription I get three free books lucky me um and you guys in the u.s. you

can get two free books with your subscription obviously if you've already

got audible and you can just buy the book or use your credits to buy the book

I highly recommend how Elrod's miracle morning I think it is a life changer

especially if you're not an early riser like I love my sleep I have always loved

my sleep back my mother will tell you my sisters will tell you I love my sleep

from like far back as when I was a child but I still feel energized waking early

in the morning I still feel energized and I want to sometimes even wake up

earlier I hope you enjoyed this video I hope you'll enjoy being in the video

wasn't too distracting but you know what this is laughs this is real Elijah is a

type of baby that knows his mother's smell you know I do sleep with him so as

soon as I wake up he wakes up very shortly after me yes thank you very much

for stopping by guys and I hope you enjoyed this video if your gonna get any

of these books please let me know in the comment section remember I have links to

all of the books that I talked about down below books movies audio books

whatever I have them all down below so you can go click on them and purchase

your books if you've already read the any of these books that I've talked

about please let me know what you think about them I love talking about these

books because as I said I don't read much but the ones that I have read and

these are the three of my favorite books in my whole like reading career these

are three of our favorite books so any opportunity to talk about them I will

talk about them if you like this video hit the thumbs up button that would help

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For more infomation >> Books That Changed My Life | Top 3 Personal Development Books | Best Self-Help Books - Duration: 17:50.

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How to Think Independently and Boost Self Esteem - Australia 365 - Duration: 7:34.

How to Think Independently and Boost Self Esteem

Ive wasted a lot of time thinking about appearances and what others think.

 How will I look with this outfit I have on?  Will the neighbors notice that Ive been fighting with my partner?  Its time to think independently and worry less about what other think.

On more occasions than we realize, we are depending on others to tell us how to live our lives.  This can be  something that is too egocentric.

Shouldnt people have to worry about their own lives and think independently?.

Yes, people do need to worry about their own lives.

  However,  the principal objectives of some people seems to be to maintain an impeccable appearance so that everyone likes them.

A person needs to feel good inside.

It doesnt do us any good to worry about appearances if passing through the threshold of our own home brings us down.

Suddenly, were not a perfect couple, but a marriage on the verge of falling apart.

  Now we dont have a job to boast about, but a boss who we always complain about, doesnt respect us, and doesnt pay us what we are worth.

Nevertheless, in spite of all of this, we  go around with a smile.

  We lie professing things no more than how we would like them to be in reality.

What are we afraid of? What will they say?  This is an enormous waste of energy.  Everyone has problems.

We are imperfect!  We make mistakes, and to learn from them, we have to accept them.

However, instead of this, we try to hide them, living a life full of frustration and unhappiness.

  Do we really want to sacrifice our well being to keep up appearances?.

It doesnt matter if a neighbor judges us or if a member of our family judges us.

  Everyone tends to criticize what they dont know.

  Maybe its because they are seeing reflections of themselves that they dont actually recognize.

Looking for our happiness is what is really important and doing what makes us feel good.  Even though that implies confronting our different fears, value judgements and criticism that have no value.

And, the first step is to think independently.

Let old thoughts go.

Like many things in this life, we are surrounded by beliefs that we cling to and we resist letting them go.

It seems that we are, in fact, what we believe.

Basically, our beliefs define us.  Also, we think that if we dont live up to our beliefs, we are committing a terrible mistake.

We have to begin to prioritize what we want, look out for our well being, and not do what pleases others.

  How can we do all of this? Well, we have to think independently.

Let go of your own demands.

There are certain things that we have learned since we were little children and they have left an important impression on us.

  For example, if we have been reprimanded for talking too much, we probably dont talk much and listen instead.

What did they tell us that we should do in our childhood?  How did we have to present ourselves?  How did we have to be?  Dont laugh too much.

Dont jump around.  Keep your clothes clean.  We had to go places that we didnt want to go.

Why do you have to continue doing all of that?  Before you were under the responsibility of your parents and they told you what to do, but not now.

You can change all of that!.

  Accept what you would like to do in life and they will accept you.

Before getting depressed because everyone judges us or because everyone tries to keep up an impeccable appearance, we have to ask ourselves if we accept what we would like to do or are we limiting ourselves.

For example, I want to get divorced but I dont do it because of what they would say.

  However, its what I want!  I am limiting myself.

  I dont accept my own decision.

  In addition, I dont put what I want in first place.

We have to begin to prioritize our decisions.

  This way we will notice that people dont judge us as much as what we think.

  Who cares if they do!.

Lets start to think independently.

  Give priority to what we want, not to what we should do.

  After all, we are in the drivers seat of our lives.

We cant lead our lives by our beliefs and fears, and much less by those of others.

For more infomation >> How to Think Independently and Boost Self Esteem - Australia 365 - Duration: 7:34.

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Self-Directed IRA's - Establishing A Self-Directed or Checkbook IRA LLC - Duration: 5:15.

David: How do you do a basic self-directed IRA?

Well, I'll tell you.

We're not a custodian.

The reason I'm not a custodian, is the custodian we use has been doing it for 30 years, and

they charge most of my clients about $180 a year to be the custodian.

When we're doing a basic account, I'll tell people, I'll say, "Look, you know, you can

pay me a couple hundred dollars to do this thing, or just go online, IRA Services Trust

Company is the custodian we use."

They charge a base quarterly custodial fee of $25 and upcharge per investment.

I think it's $20 for a membership in a checkbook IRA LLC.

Obviously, they can't survive on that.

So, if you just have a base account and you had 10 different investments at $20 per investment,

it starts adding up.

And with the checkbook IRA, there's one investment they make, the membership interest in that

checkbook IRA LLC, and that takes care of them.

To set up a basic account, all we're doing is establishing a custodial account with an

IRA that will allow you to make those investments.

What are some names of those custodians?

IRA Services Trust Company, Pensco Trust, Equity Trust, Entrust, Sterling Trust, Sunwest

Trust.

These are all trust companies that do these things.

There's probably a dozen that are the major ones that do these transactions.

They will allow you to do this stuff.

I'll warn you, if you call them up and you ask questions, you're going to call, you're

probably going to get an automated answer.

You're probably going to wait there.

We've got so many accounts with these guys, and I have to wait.

Sort of irritating, but anyway, they're fine.

If you want to buy a passive investment that's not time sensitive, a basic account's going

to take care of you.

If you want to buy into one of Lindsay's projects, that's going to be just

fine.

You're just going to sell a membership interest in an LLC, the custodian's going to want to

see the operating agreement, all the agreements for you, and they'll make the investment.

And that works just fine for a passive investment or something that's not time sensitive.

'Cause they might have a 24-hour funding policy, but it's typically going to take more than

that to get it done.

Figure 48 to 72 hours from the time they get everything for them to make the investment.

With that said, those basic accounts don't work very well if you want to go out and buy

a rental house, or if you're going to be ... I have people that do a lot of hard money stuff,

and they need to have that loan set right now to get a deal funded.

Well, checkbook IRA is what takes care of that.

A checkbook IRA will allow you to manage a property.

So, when we do a checkbook IRA, we still create that custodial account, and then instead of

the custodian making the investment into the ultimate investment, the custodian makes one

investment.

So, if you look at this bubble chart, we're going to take whatever source of funds, and

we can take multiple disqualified parties.

This LLC could include you, an IRA, a 401K plan, your Roth and traditional IRA's.

It could include any combination of things.

Spouses can be in there, a group of people can be in ... Actually one last comment, I

got back, double-backed disqualified parties.

What's really interesting, one, as I said at the beginning, you can transact along with

the disqualified party, you just can't transact between them for the benefit of disqualified

parties.

So, I want to take plan money and personal money to go buy something.

I can do that, like I said at the end of the 1031 class.

If I want to loan my brother money, I can do that.

Siblings are not disqualified parties to one another.

Aunts and uncles are fine.

So, it's just when you look at ascendants, descendants, their spouses

or any that are controlled by that.

It's not ... you can go horizontally.

Siblings are fine, aunts and uncles are fine.

Sort of funny that way.

So, we can take any combination of disqualified parties, we can aggregate different accounts

if we want, move it into the custodial account.

Then instead of the custodian making investment X, the private loan to real estate directly,

we're going to have the custodian make one investment.

That's in the membership interest of the checkbook IRA LLC.

So, we put the LLC together, the operating agreement is all IRA specific.

We do the articles to get the federal tax ID number.

As soon as we've got all that together, we're going to get the information to you, you're

going to go to the bank, open a checking account in the LLC's name and EIN.

You as manager of the LLC are signer on that bank account.

So then, for you to make one of these investments, you just negotiate the purchase in the LLC's

name and EIN, and or name and just write the check for the earnest money and write

the check to close the thing.

For more infomation >> Self-Directed IRA's - Establishing A Self-Directed or Checkbook IRA LLC - Duration: 5:15.

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Krav Maga Minneapolis Teaching Self-Defense Classes For Women Of All Skill Sets - Duration: 3:23.

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AYS Daily Growth Hacks 228 Name Your Former Self - Duration: 8:25.

Today's topic: Name Your Former Self

Hi I'm Doug Holt with Author of Your Own Story and this is your Daily Growth Hack

where each day we give you a tip trick or insight to help you up level what we

call the Five to Thrive that is your mind, your body, your soul, your

relationships and your business I just got off a client call with a client of

mine in the UK and we were talking about 2017 versus where we started from which

was actually at the beginning February of 2017 to where he is today

and where he is to date all areas of his life not just his business although

that's originally why he hired me so when we were talking one of the things

he said is Doug I am just a totally different man I show up as a totally

different husband a totally different father a totally different friend and

person of my community a totally different businessman and a leader with

inside my own company I've taken the reins and controlled them in fact when I

look back at my journals my writings when we first started I'm just a

different person all together now I think that's amazing and hopefully all

of us are different people right we've all grown grown in a positive way life

has thrown things at us and we've taken them in stride what I asked him to do

where I suggested he do is something that I just recommend you try on in this

instance try on actually naming your former self if you feel you've made a

big transition in life name the former you right so in this case the to SAP

2017 version of him and you can do the same thing right

so he picked a funny name right he picked a name that really made sense to

him he called it Wiley and the reason they called it Wiley the former him is

because he felt like he was all over the place

spinning his wheels constantly not getting anywhere yeah he had the tools

the education he had an mba from a very renowned school he was known in his

community to be a very staunch businessperson but underneath it all

widely his 2017 former self was out of control was drinking excessively was

doing drugs just to numb kind of the pain in his life and the holes he was

trying to fill his business was was moving forward but not the capacity that

he could actually serve it at his relationships his relationships were

hallo he lost contacts with most of his friends does this sound familiar to some

of you he also was having what he felt like he said in he with his words were I

was sleeping next to my wife yet we were miles apart from each other how many of

us have had that experience whether it be one night or months or if like Wiley

it actually was six months for him till he was actually able to turn that around

and reignite passion to his life so what I had Wiley of 2017 do is I had a marine

named his current self and he decided to call it his name 2.0 right so the new

version of himself and I won't give his name out but you get the idea now take

this a step further what I'd like you to do is rename yourself your 2017 former

self give it a name give it a funny name whatever you want to do you can call it

Doug 1.0 or or whatever you want and then name yourself today you know Doug

2.0 for example but you can call it anything I've had clients call

themselves King Thor all kinds of names very creative depending on on who they

were and their own personalities as they as they really came out now also what

you want to do is look back and when you're doing excuse me not even look

back but when you're doing actions today when you're faced with a drama or a or

something that's coming up maybe you have anxiety going through ask yourself

is this Wiley or Doug 2.0 and who actually should be taking the reins here

now if you're in a conflict let's say you're in a business situation and the

pressure is high and you've got deadlines to meet you start to get

stressed new maybe you're snapping on your team you're on you know you're on

chat you're on the phone you're sending text messages and it's just stressful

it's a stressful situation I want you to do is take a quick pause and say Who am

I being right now in my power am I being wily or am I being Doug 2.0

and then that clarity right there gives you the option of following the Doug 2.0

method which is actually hey let's clear let's take a couple deep breaths maybe

meditate for five minutes and just really clear yourself and know what is

important what's my 80/20 here where can I

actually move the needle the most with just putting 20% of the efforts in this

gives you the power the power to drive yourself towards the author of your own

story now I use this with my clients we do a much deeper dive of course on this

but this short simple tip can really have an effect and help you move so what

I'm going to ask you to do as your own coach is grab your journal and write out

2017 how would you name yourself what would you give yourself the form are you

yeah you've changed maybe you feel like you're in the same place and I

understand I've been there for - we've had life experiences you've had things

happen to you and for you throughout the 2017 year so let's name that former you

and let's move forward and what do you want what do you want to call you today

is that a hero that you've seen in a movie or read about is that a comic is

it just your name 2.0 what is it for you make it easy but make it something

that's inspiring that way you can ask yourself throughout this year and

throughout today who are you being in this exact moment this gives you control

you know just like an actor or somebody if I I tell you to stand up straight put

up your chest take nice deep diaphragm ik breath you get more power of

confidence and energy just by doing that physiological change conversely if you

get strum shoulders you know shallow breathing you can get depressed quickly

we don't want that we want the shoulders back confident you and that is the same

thing you can do in the psychology of physiology by naming this former you to

the current or future you and living like that person you start to act or be

like that person that's what you put out into the world and that's who you become

it's just repetitive it's just the way it works it's the new you right so I

invite you to do this grab your journal write

the 2017 version of you name the 2018 or present-day version of you and the

person that you're going to become and then ask yourself throughout the day who

are you acting more like and then you have the opportunity to choose the path

that better suits you that's it for me today if you like conversations like

this and you want to go deeper make sure you get over to the author of your own

story university page and make sure you get on that waitlist it is epic growth

and that's where I want for you my mantra for 2018 is epic growth and

adventure and I want you to come on that journey with me and I want to be on the

journey with you also share this with at least three people three people that you

know want to have this conversation and just by you sharing this with them

you're giving them a little gift or saying hey I heard this and you know

this guy was talking this crazy guy and he suggested yeah there might be

something interested for you this will actually spur greater conversations

within you in your world and that's what I want for you a constant continual

growth whether you're in the Author of Your Own Story University or you're just

in our private Facebook group or simply just listening to these and doing the

work and I really hope you're doing the work cuz that's how the magic happens

that's the ingredient right that's the secret sauce you know you don't bake a

cake by putting flour in the oven first and then taking it out and mixing the

eggs know there's a recipe and I want to give you the recipe that I've learned

over decades with mentors and coaches through the author of yours for a

university also go out and just inspire someone by being yourself be your 2.0

today and I guarantee people around you will notice and it'll inspire them and

give them the freedom to step into their own power have a great day I'll see you

tomorrow.

For more infomation >> AYS Daily Growth Hacks 228 Name Your Former Self - Duration: 8:25.

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How to Think Independently and Boost Self Esteem - Australia 360 - Duration: 7:20.

How to Think Independently and Boost Self Esteem

Ive wasted a lot of time thinking about appearances and what others think.

 How will I look with this outfit I have on?  Will the neighbors notice that Ive been fighting with my partner?  Its time to think independently and worry less about what other think.

On more occasions than we realize, we are depending on others to tell us how to live our lives.  This can be  something that is too egocentric.

Shouldnt people have to worry about their own lives and think independently?.

Yes, people do need to worry about their own lives.

  However,  the principal objectives of some people seems to be to maintain an impeccable appearance so that everyone likes them.

A person needs to feel good inside.

It doesnt do us any good to worry about appearances if passing through the threshold of our own home brings us down.

Suddenly, were not a perfect couple, but a marriage on the verge of falling apart.

  Now we dont have a job to boast about, but a boss who we always complain about, doesnt respect us, and doesnt pay us what we are worth.

Nevertheless, in spite of all of this, we  go around with a smile.

  We lie professing things no more than how we would like them to be in reality.

What are we afraid of? What will they say?  This is an enormous waste of energy.  Everyone has problems.

We are imperfect!  We make mistakes, and to learn from them, we have to accept them.

However, instead of this, we try to hide them, living a life full of frustration and unhappiness.

  Do we really want to sacrifice our well being to keep up appearances?.

It doesnt matter if a neighbor judges us or if a member of our family judges us.

  Everyone tends to criticize what they dont know.

  Maybe its because they are seeing reflections of themselves that they dont actually recognize.

Looking for our happiness is what is really important and doing what makes us feel good.  Even though that implies confronting our different fears, value judgements and criticism that have no value.

And, the first step is to think independently.

Let old thoughts go.

Like many things in this life, we are surrounded by beliefs that we cling to and we resist letting them go.

It seems that we are, in fact, what we believe.

Basically, our beliefs define us.  Also, we think that if we dont live up to our beliefs, we are committing a terrible mistake.

We have to begin to prioritize what we want, look out for our well being, and not do what pleases others.

  How can we do all of this? Well, we have to think independently.

Let go of your own demands.

There are certain things that we have learned since we were little children and they have left an important impression on us.

  For example, if we have been reprimanded for talking too much, we probably dont talk much and listen instead.

What did they tell us that we should do in our childhood?  How did we have to present ourselves?  How did we have to be?  Dont laugh too much.

Dont jump around.  Keep your clothes clean.  We had to go places that we didnt want to go.

Why do you have to continue doing all of that?  Before you were under the responsibility of your parents and they told you what to do, but not now.

You can change all of that!.

  Accept what you would like to do in life and they will accept you.

Before getting depressed because everyone judges us or because everyone tries to keep up an impeccable appearance, we have to ask ourselves if we accept what we would like to do or are we limiting ourselves.

For example, I want to get divorced but I dont do it because of what they would say.

  However, its what I want!  I am limiting myself.

  I dont accept my own decision.

  In addition, I dont put what I want in first place.

We have to begin to prioritize our decisions.

  This way we will notice that people dont judge us as much as what we think.

  Who cares if they do!.

Lets start to think independently.

  Give priority to what we want, not to what we should do.

  After all, we are in the drivers seat of our lives.

We cant lead our lives by our beliefs and fears, and much less by those of others.

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