Hello again. I hope you took the time and you did the exercise because otherwise if you want to take this
all this course conceptually only in your mind it's not helping.
It's not helping you, it is not helping me.
it is not helping anyone. tTese things.
Maybe you can find them in the Internet.
You'll find them everywhere.
Most of them because you will not have the tools that we will have created in the end of this course.
But if you want to create the tools you have to work you have to work together.
We have to work together upon this.
upon this difficult concept of rejection.
It's a really difficult concept of rejection.
If I ask you and you and you if you maybe you can say to me that about what you think from rejection
that's already present in previous lecture not accepted.
I'm not accepted they do not want me.
That's the first thing.
What's the second thing.
What about emotions
We feel
pain real pain we feel, we feel anger,
we fell fear,
we don't feel happy that's for sure.
Rejection is a really difficult thing.
So there is a why.
Why do we feel that this pain, why do we feel
anger why do we feel fear.
Why aren't we happy that we have been rejected and why many times for many person it is taking so long
to be together in their selves in order to continue their life after a great after a rejection.
which for many seems not tobe so dificcult, with me was not so strong so difficult: from a relationship, from a job, from a friend,
work.
Rejection is always a rejection.
So you have to answer first of all of why and if the feelings that you feel
are logical or they're just because you are not strong enough or everything else all these things that
we say to others.
Oh it's nothing.
Don't don't,
Don't think about it and it will pass.
According to the research
according to neuronscience
rejectionl is causing is affecting the same cells that are affected when we hurt somewhere our finger
our hand
Is causing is creating in our brain the same feeling the same cells are a being affected
pain, real pain.
The problem is that as the research has shown have shown
even after years when we remember the rejection we remember again the same pain the pain the feeling of
pain.
But when we remember after years that we have hurt our hand we don't, we cannot remember anymore the
pain. So rejection is really painful biological painful.
It's not something that we create in our mind.
Moreover we have been rejected and it takes time to overpass, to forget the person tha rejected us
Especially if it is in a relationship, loverelationship, oranother relationship, it actually doesn't matter, rejection is just rejection
Why and we want him and we want to go back again and again and again and again like
we have been rejected that is OK we should go to our road, to continue our trip.
The other person it's trip and it's OK.
But no it's not OK.
We want, we have a desire, we have a deep desire to continue this relationship.
Why? Again what neuronscience has given already the answer because rejection is directly connected.
with the synapsis in our and neurons in our brain that are corellatedd according to the research, with drugs.
X
so we feel the ellipsis that we don't take our drug.
You understand
So I think till now we have created a very basic concept about the biological
aspect
of rejection. See you in the next lecture.
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