I have a funny story. Funny okay. I was in the grocery store in the aisle where
they have devices like pots and pans and pressure cookers and things like that
and I there's there these there are these two women that I'm standing next
to and the one says oh I really want that pressure cooker. And the other one
says oh I want it too! Like and they talked about how great it would be. And
then the first one says oh I can't have it. The second one says why not? And the
first one says oh that would be too selfish. Selfish she sounds like my
mother. Selfish. Probably was your mother. Selfish
interesting so this interesting concept selfish. So this is this it's actually
this interesting fits into the dynamics of the world of supposed to. So the world
functions that Third D world functions in structures and concepts -right -and then we
buy into the concept. And so selfish is one of those concepts because obviously
being selfish is a bad thing. But is it really a bad thing so- Well selfish if
you define selfish as being greedy and manipulative and take advantage of other
people and and step on others for you to get more -right that's selfish. Right so if you
said to a hundred people on the street in the store do you think selfish is
okay? They would say no. A hundred people would say no. Yeah. About but see there's really two ends to
that stick selfish. There's the one that nobody likes when you talk about
stepping on others to get ahead but there's a whole other side of selfish
that really is absolutely essential. It's that side of selfish that says I can
have for myself. And in that having you're not stepping on anybody you're
not taking advantage everybody in fact you by not being selfish you are
disempowering yourself and you're disempowering your potential. You used to
tell this story maybe I'll get it uh let's see if I
get it right used to say okay you take off your clothes your jacket you give it
to this person the socks this shirt the pants everything and then there you are
naked on the street with one sock and somebody comes by and likes the
sock and you give the sock to this person. So here you are on the street naked
completely -with nothing -with nothing. And nothing to give -ya -anybody else. See
that's the great healer I have to it's better to give than to receive. See
that's another one those adages about the world this is how the world supposed
to be and everybody falls into supposed to. Right into this regimen well is that
really how it's supposed to be? So what if you back out a 3D and you start
realizing that if I was giving to myself if I was excited about my creation if I
enjoyed my development of possibilities. And let's even go and I make money at it.
I have a business that's working I am now giving to myself. See now you'll have
something to give away you're no longer naked on the street with nothing. And
with nothing you have no potential to really really grow yourself easily into
a state of well-being. Well it's like healers who have the belief I need to
give all of myself to all of my clients all of the time. Giving giving giving. And
because I'm a healer and what happens at the end of the day they're exhausted and
they get sick and so they can't heal anymore. Yeah so that that space of
managing your space giving to yourself having for yourself. See it's like us
with Mastering Alchemy we give a lot of money away in donations we it's that
whole concept we have been successful and now we can give back you know to to
women to hunger to those type of things. Where people can that have nothing you
can have but that process and it doesn't it doesn't come it doesn't take away
from us -well and the only way -in having. The only reason why not the
only reason a reason why Mastering Alchemy has been successful is because
you and I have been conscious of taking care of ourselves. Yes.
You know our exercise program our food our vitamins our health is number one.
Yeah so you give to yourself whether it's money its health its havingness in
terms of material things. But the real piece is it's it's an understanding that
that's a stick in a way and on one end of it
it is depleting on the other end of it it is nourishing and the nourishment and
this is where I think the world gets out of well-being out of balance right now
with the 1% that 1% keeps taking. So having is not taking. There's a real
distinction between taking -right -that's the side over here I'm going to use you to
get ahead. Right. But this end of the havingness is the one that you're seeing people get
into a relatively comfortable place that they define is comfortable and then give
it away. And it's it's really powerful in that space of having and giving. But you
have to give to yourself first before you have anything -but it starts with you - to give
to other people. Starts with you. Yeah. Yeah and in this world that we are
stepping into some of the challenge that we're going to be facing before we step
into that state of well-being is that whole concept of money as maybe this is
another conversation but this concept of money doesn't it creates it creates
individuality with no responsibilities in many cases. Let's save that for another full conversation. Ok so having though -yes
that total space of -and giving to your and being selfish. Being selfish giving to yourself. Yeah. Whether it's
take time for yourself to read a book whether it's take time to go for a walk
take time for a nice meal. Give to yourself a nice meal it's that space of
nurturing yourself even when you don't have a lot.
And step into a space of nurturing yourself. You know it's it's like adding
an extra something you like to the meal that you have and then really
appreciating it it's that appreciating and having -yeah -that basically keeps
everything in motion. When it gets stopped sterile and I can't have it's
just it's just like money if you if you if you hoard it or you can't have it it
stops the motion. Right the flow. And everything begins to break. So having for yourself really a
big deal. And be selfish. Being selfish selfish from the standpoint of exciting
I'm giving to myself it's not taking from others. That's good. Yeah. Did you
explain that to those two ladies? No no I just walked down the other aisle -I see -I didn't want to get into their stuff. I see. Do you want to pressure cooker? Yeah maybe
next time. Have a nice day.


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