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Ladies and gentlemen welcome back my name is Ferenike and this is a channel

for people who don't want to die with regrets and they want to put out the

best version of themselves. I am really excited about this week last week I had

a wedding in the Netherlands my best friend got married yay congratulations

to her and yeah that's why I didn't put any content out. This week on Monday

I started a new role with WGSN some of you already know about it and I had an

incredible week. I've learned so much and I'm just really excited about what's

coming up. Now of course you know when I create those videos I'm always inspired

for my day to day life but I'm always trying to make it relevant for you guys

so we have common experiences and how can we essentially make the most

high-value responses into our day to day life and how to showcase self-respect

self-worth and be confident. What I realised is when you go to a new place in

your working environment, a club, a new community that you don't know many

people you have two feelings and I definitely had those on Monday. The

first feeling is you feel like this nervousness of the unknown what you

don't know that is there like because you have an idea on what to expect but

you don't know exactly what to expect right so you have that nervousness or I

definitely had that nervousness. Then on the other side I felt like

this productive new me or like the news clean slate

new things and the excitement of the opportunity somehow. Does it make sense?

That is healthy so far right! Sometimes though I have realised that we

tend to put more pressure on ourselves that we actually have based on thinking

about other people's opinions and how we appeal to them or

don't appeal to them on whether they like us or not like us or all of those

stuff and it just is human nature. I've been guilty myself when I was younger to be

doing that but now I feel like it's really fundamentally wrong and

irrelevant to try to to be liked - I would rather be respected every day

of the week rather than being like because think about it

when you step in a new environment some people will

automatically be drawn to you and like you and some people will not some people

being indifferent of course. And that is absolutely fine because we shouldn't

place any sort of energy or focus into going out of our way to try to please

anybody because there's no point really there's no point. It is important

to showcase why we're here our skillset our character what we bring to the table

yes and not so much with words rather with actions our vision what we're here

to achieve these things are very important and and that's how you build

respect but to be liked it just irrelevant.

It really is I'd rather spend all of that energy and focus into

building myself my skillset and work hard on what I want to achieve so

yeah I feel like there's nothing to gain from that and I know that traditionally

women have the tendency to be people's pleasers and I just think

it's just a waste of time and we shouldn't go down that

route at all it is important though to be kind of course and be have manners

and and be considerate and be yeah just kind and a nice person of course that is

very important not only when you go to a new place for the first time but

every day any day every day of the week right

just be nice and have manners. However I feel like that lots of

people put lots of weight into other people's opinions and it's very freeing

when you realise that is nothing I can do there's nothing I can do about it

some people will like me in some people will not and when you like yourself that

is more than enough so being authentic being yourself being

who you are unapologetically and also you know

accept those weird things that you have as a person that would help other people

to accept you as well and to you know be comfortable with you if you like

yourself and you're comfortable with who you are people are more likely to be

that way as well. One thing that is weird about me according to other people

and I've heard that before is and some people may know that some

people may notice is that I don't watch any movies at home I don't watch any

series I don't watch any movies. I only watch movies if I go to the movie

theater and that's that specific movie I want to watch I don't do that because I

feel is a waste of time for me I know that how addictive can be I know how

many hours people spend into watching series and movies and all that stuff and

I feel that's nothing for me to gain from that I'd rather spend my free time

doing other things that I love I like watching documentaries YouTube videos so

I can learn from other youtubers or a self-development material I'm reading

lots of books as well so I'm doing things with my time but it's just not

watching movies some people see that as very like they don't understand that

right some people find a watching movies and and series very entertaining and I

hundred percent understand that I understand that it's just a personal

preference. It's like eating meat or being vegetarian you know or

being pescetarian it's just a choice just a preference.

it's just how you're gonna live your life and I yeah I have my own choices

and preferences and I hundred percent approve those and I'm

not so concerned about whether other people approve them or not. I hope

that gives you a different perspective and I hope that make you own your choices and

who you are more. Let me know if you have any specific topics you want me to

address next on my next video and I'll do that for you. If you want to comment

below on the YouTube channel or if you want to send me an email later on

everything is it's fine. Yeah thank you so much for watching guys and I

shall be back with more content like that. Love you!

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`~ Self care ~` Pick a Card - Duration: 11:02.

welcome this is self-care pick a card and today's theme is nothing seems to be

going right so how can you make things right for yourself how can you get out

of this slump and today there are three sets of cards to choose from you can

choose from the number or the crystal in front I'll give you a few moments to

decide which cards will answer you for self-care when things just

aren't going the right way for you if you choose this set of cards here is your

answer your ideas to get out of the slump that you are in at the moment when things

aren't going quite right excuse me and a theme being distracted

and failing to see a magical opportunity taking someone or something for granted

discontentment with life but I'm seeing that you are in a bit of a slump something is

going on that I don't think even you know what it is but it's certainly

distracting you from what's around you the opportunities that are there

feeling of depression perhaps just apathy just can't be bothered this

little cherub down here saying please just notice me I've got the ideas that

you need and someone is someone's knocking at the door someone's leaving

you messages left right and center but you're not picking them up so if you can

get out of the slump and see what's going on there's some brilliant

ideas available to you let's have a look at another action card that you can take

with you see the synchronicity and today's lesson you can journal it or

just take whatever you think is relevant to you today's lesson take note of all

the synchronistic happenings and coincidences that occur on this day I

know that nothing happens by accident your goal to appreciate the divine

details that are woven into every moment of your life so when you can today just

think about what's going on around you just take the note

although even if it's just the color of a flower or to say somebody hey a

really nice day you know they might be the person that's trying to give you

this message that you're just not seeing see what happens and an affirmation

this one first I am welcomed with the joy wherever I am

people love working and being with me as I express my thoughts feelings and ideas

they are welcomed and easily comprehended by others we have lots of

brilliant ideas just need to get out of that slump that you're in that

maybe things are getting boring you just want to put in a bit of oomph a bit of excitement

to your day you know just take lunch outside if you can take a walk instead

of having lunch take your lunch with you you know just do something different

this day and see what occurs

just take a chance do something different and exciting just to get you

out of this slump

okay if you chose this one these are some ideas

to help you

and the energy around you at the moment star look to the future with hope and

optimism the power of faith to move mountains

happy changes that bring relief from challenging times so there's a lot in

your future maybe these things not going right are just testing times perhaps it's

time to just to jiggle around your plans for a little bit to see what's not quite

fitting in and what needs to be expanded on and an action part become better

today's lesson discover one thing that would make you better and more empowered

at what you do and what you are and who you are and make it part of your routine

if this is difficult to identify why becoming better is something you

wouldn't want to do your goal to recognize how and why you sabotage your

empowerment so maybe there are some ideas some new opportunities that you

feel as though you're not qualified for or you're not good enough for I think

you need to journal perhaps and/or ask other people their honest opinions are

you perfect for this job are you the right one to take this on to the next

level so looking at the future with hope and optimism because there are marvelous

opportunities available to you you just need to see yourself worth you have the

skills you are the right one for this particular job this particular set of

skills are the ones that you have and an affirmation to take with you I create

wonderful new beliefs for myself and my consciousness is now being filled with

positive thought patterns that contribute to my health wealth and

loving relationships

so go for it whatever it is waiting for you you are the right person for it

there's no doubt about it take a chance and if you chose this one

this is your reading and the energy around you at the moment release let go

of the past an ending that makes way for new opportunities time to move on

sometimes disappointments from the past especially if it's a disappointment that

has hurt us or discourage us in some way hang around for

a little bit particularly if an another situation is

coming up that is similar but I think the opportunities that are presenting

themselves now are far different to what it was before you've you've

changed you've got new set of skills new experiences to bring into this situation

so if you let go of what happened in the past and see this as a new opportunity

with a fresh start I think it's what will get you out of this rut that

you're in

and today's lesson than action card for you rely on yourself you're the only one

that can change you can't change situations around you necessarily but

you can change your attitude towards them and today's lesson look at the

issues of dependency do you rely upon others to do what you should be doing

for yourself Healing is a solo endeavor and while we all need support during

this process ultimately the task of self empowerment rests with us your goal to

identify and modify the ways in which you release personal responsibility to

others so it's all about letting go of disappointments because this this

opportunity is far different to what the one before was you have new sets of

skills new outlook and an affirmation to take with you I love and accept myself

just the way you are warts and all others do you need to as

well look in the mirror and say I love and accept myself exactly as I am when I

accept all of my self I am whole and healed as hard as that may be this is

the perfect way to see yourself for who you truly are and to know that you have

changed and you can let go of the past and move on new opportunities are

waiting for you

as always take what you need and leave the rest and as always blessings

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Small Town Life: Learn to Fish, Hunt and Bushcraft, Shawn James Childhood - Duration: 4:33.

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How to Raise Your Self Esteem!!! - Duration: 12:29.

I hope you're having an awesome day because today is an awesome day my goal is to

inspire you and become the greatest version of yourself I believe is that if

we all become the greatest versions of ourselves that is how we can make the

world a better place today's video is how to raise

self-esteem I know me personally growing up I wasn't in the most loving situation

or most nurturing family so a lot of that has resulted to me having a low

self-esteem that's something that I've been kind of working with battling if

you will try to increase that I realized when my self-esteem is high everything

my life just seems they come together them likes easy peasy so in this video

I'm gonna give you some tips on how to raise your self-esteem but first the

videos quote to be beautiful means to be yourself you don't need to be accepted

by others you need to be you need to accept yourself and that quote is by

Thich Nhat Hanh Thich Nhat Hanh is someone that really inspires me like his ideas

his quotes I even have his calendar hanging up on my wall couple videos ago

you actually saw the calendar in the video but he's just like a huge

inspiration of my life so let's get with the first point and that is self praised

whatever you need to hear say it to yourself every day a lot of us expect

are waiting for someone else to praise us but the chances that happening is

running literally slim to none we just don't really live in a society that that

really works on praise and other people but

we all expect to be praised ourselves so the best thing I found it is your

affirmations maybe I am statements stuff like that just sing yourself whatever

you need to hear every day maybe like I'm a strong worthy person or I am

awesome I am healthy some other ideas like um I

am health I am well I am abundance whatever you need to hear whatever you

want to hear from somebody else in your life make sure you say it yourself every

day and number two of how to raise your self-esteem is exercise

nothing boosts your confidence your self-esteem like exercising it's it's

just an amazing thing it just once you're done you have all there's no for

me he's another endorphins pumping he's feeling really amazing about yourself

really amazing about your life and it just makes you feel like a million times

better I know at least when I exercise that's how I feel um way number three of

how to raise your self-esteem missed it pursue a passion

we each have a fire in our hearts and if you haven't found your passion yet play

around with different things if you have a hobby here I don't have a hobby we're

really passionate about dive really deep in that a hobby not as much about as we

can and then and then eventually you can work towards finding way to make money

off that hobby like one of my biggest hobbies my life has been

self-development self-improvement and it's just something I've been learning

reading books watching lots videos learning as much as I can about

self-improvement that I possibly can and now I'm creating content to kind of

share with with the world what I'm learning

maybe I'm with hopefully these videos will help other people out

how come for their lives in some way shape or form and help make a world a

better place that's what I think we really need to do is help each other

improve our lives any way we can but I also realize that you can't help someone

that doesn't want to be helped they have to want to help themselves before they

can be helped so take the time if you know your

passion dive into it you don't have to know everything about your passion you

can learn about your value as you going on make self improvement I'm gonna

constantly learning that for the rest of my life I'll never completely know

everything like honestly the more I learn the more I realize that I know

nothing and that's just something that's hit me there on my life pretty hard

actually and I'll never claim to know everything

I might know a little bit about everything but I'll never know

everything and wait number four kind of raise your self-esteem is to take care

of your appearance I know days where I'm specifically down I have trouble taking

care of my parents sometimes I want me to get out of my pajamas or take a

shower in my cat but if you take care of your parents out helping me make you

feel so much better about yourself can we work it out if you like what you see

in the mirror every day it just helps boost your self-confidence your

self-esteem how its boost everything because you know that hey I worked hard

at the body I'll have metal as opposed to not work on yourself everything not

exercising it kind of has the opposite effect because the more your work you do

on yourself typically the better you feel about yourself that's one thing

I've owned and you take care of your pair your appearance

whatever that means to you like curb your hair me I like being clean shaven

I'd like wearing nice clothes and I need to do all that to keep myself going and

keep my self-esteem up it's away number five how to accept compliments I

rephrase your self-esteem it's learn to accept compliments if

somebody gives you a compliment to say thank you even though you might be

fighting inside and you might want to reject their compliment skin the process

of saying at least saying thank you for the compliment and throughout time

you'll get used to get better at receiving compliments and eventually

they'll do more to boost your self-esteem than anything they learn how

to accept the countenance from other people and learn how to give compliments

as well as just like a confident might help make your day you might help make a

stranger's day even in that complan it's just giving them a genuine smile

point number six how to raise your self-esteem is oh the ants now I don't

mean the ants crawling on the ground the scavengers crawling on the ground that

all I ask those guys I mean - automatic negative thoughts we all have them

unless you've done a lot of work like not in meditation work not to work on

her mind chances are you have the automatic negative thoughts and the

problem isn't the thoughts themselves problem is actually being attached to

the thoughts though your meditation may be working out could be your meditation

you can learn to detach from your thoughts and not take them so seriously

because the mind it's like a river it does what at once like a clown this

goddess floats and the thoughts are just gonna float there's no control no

controlling in with it one thing I found you can do though is like the book love

yourself like your life depends on it one the lessons he has in there is to

create your own good doll just part is to create your own memory too because

the mind goes off of past loops that happened in the past so I love myself I

like myself I'm worthy I'm enough whatever you have to tie yourself to

turn that into memory that they can think over and over again that's another

way in killing ants and wait number seven of how to raise your self-esteem

is stop comparing yourself with other people jeordy compare yourself because

you have to remember we're all at different places in our life we all have

different experiences and it we're all at the point our life and we came

through different paths to get to where we're at so if you prepare yourself to

someone you feel like isn't quite where you're at or isn't as good as you at

something or something I get sure here make yourself feel good but that's gonna

be that's extremely shadow and at the same time you can't comparing yourself

you know you'll compare yourself people above you that

better than you at a certain thing or higher than wearing at or got farther

than in young life and all that's gonna do is make you feel bad about yourself

and know yourselves to know just make sure the only person you should ever

compare yourself to it's the person you were interested in and the other

comparison is in my opinion told me me Houston's not not worth it and way

number eight of how to raise your self-esteem is to be coming in generous

be kind generous to other people maybe government compliment a smile something

like that or if someone's being particularly mean to you just kind of

smile and walk away that'll be the way they are and not only should you be kind

generous to other people you sauce to be kind generous to yourself Donald us the

thoughts we think in our head whether we know it or not

chances are we wouldn't go up to a random stranger and say to them what we

think about ourselves we need to stop putting ourselves down with their

thoughts and hitting the thoughts that lift us up and make us better

it's we're not gonna be able to do anything if we're miserable and that

unhappy that's not how we help ourselves and that's not how we help the world I

believe that we all raise our self esteems I've become more positive that

will definitely definitely definitely sending ripples out in the world in out

Ray's like the general populations self-esteem and their past ending novels

in the next way of how to raise your self-esteem is you'd be grateful a

gratitude practice is super super powerful I recently just started

journaling again and started putting that into my journals things I'm

grateful about in my life and I would say whether you journal not every

morning and every night you three things are grateful about in your personal life

great things are grateful about in your businessman and most importantly great

things you're grateful about yourself it could be anything it could be yeah I

talked to that person I thought I was attractive today or could be I got this

done or it could be it's just been a really good day or it could be I did my

meditation practice again today it could be anything that if it makes you feel

good about yourself and just remember nobody is perfect we all have good days

and bad days we all make mistakes just remember that day not to kick yourself

for your mistakes cuz you're not really doing anyone any good doing that

I know I've made a lot of mistakes on my day I didn't even make mistakes in the

calling this video today but it's all fun and games

it's just just keep on keep on keep going when you make your mistakes and I

just want to say thank you very much for watching this video

you totally reek of awesomeness and we have how you raise your self-esteem or ever

atop time to go over let me know maybe be happy and healthy at peace and live

in abundance much love and I challenge you to live your version of an

extraordinary

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Paul Salerni "A Young Woman" from Finding One Self - Duration: 2:03.

That she, which such gifts given,

in the abundance and grace of her youth

and sweetness,

as if in a garden, walking,

in a summer of freshness

and of the wind lifting

and falling in a lavishing of light

and penultimate shadow,

that she should falter at all

through this phase,

pressing, with hand outstretched,

the surface of the future,

as one who is blind presses

the surface of darkness,

of corridor, or wall,

for any assurance at all,

may she be blessed

blessed in this faltering forward.

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Indie Focus: Inventing the self in 'Mary Shelley,' 'The Gospel According To André' and 'Sollers Poin - Duration: 11:17.

Hello! I'm Mark Olsen. Welcome to another edition of your regular field guide to a world of Only Good Movies

Earlier this year at the Sundance Film Festival, one of the most talked-about, most impactful films was "The Tale

" The modern media world being what it is, the film is not heading to theaters but is instead premiering on HBO

Advertisement Written and directed by Jennifer Fox, the story draws from her own experiences as a teenage girl when she entered into what she saw then as a romance with her adult track coach, only to realize years later that the relationship constituted sexual abuse

Fox's film, starring Laura Dern, Jason Ritter and Elizabeth Debicki, is a stirring, disturbing look at trauma and memory

During Sundance, Amy Kaufman interviewed Fox, who talked about revealing these most painful details of herself

"I'm not always comfortable saying, 'This is my story,' but that's what I can offer," Fox said

"Being an artist isn't comfortable. Let me do something meaningful, or else, why? I want to live

And the only way to do that is to risk." Television critic Robert Lloyd reviewed the film for The Times, writing, "Were the film entirely a work of fiction, it would still be an impressive, cohesive piece

A tight script is never far from addressing its themes without ever hectoring the viewer; 'The Tale' is always a drama and never a tract

And yet that it is based in fact does matter, not just for the authenticity 'true story' adds, but because ideas about fiction and nonfiction, truth and lies and the editing of scraps of information — what a documentarian does, after all — are actively addressed

" We'll have some more screening and Q&A events coming up soon. For info and updates, go to events

latimes.com. 'Mary Shelley' Directed by Haifaa al-Mansour and written by Emma Jensen, "Mary Shelley" stars Elle Fanning as the writer Mary Wollstonecraft Godwin and how she met and married Percy Bysshe Shelley and came to write "Frankenstein

" Katie Walsh reviewed the movie for The Times, calling it "beautiful, a richly designed and photographed period piece

" She went on to add, "for such a radical woman leading such a radical life, Al-Mansour and [screenwriter Emma] Jensen have trimmed too much

The reality is much more fascinating and messy than this sanitized version, which tries to stick this complicated and unconventional woman into a staid romantic drama

The film celebrates Mary Shelley for the trailblazing woman that she is, but hews far too close to convention to truly represent her life

" Reviewing for the New York Times, A.O. Scott said the film is "a rarity: a literary biopic with an argument," before adding "rather than smother Mary Shelley — author of 'Frankenstein,' daughter of two eminent writers and wife of another — with soft cushions of antiquarian cultural prestige, Ms

al-Mansour and the screenwriter, Emma Jensen, sharpen the sense of Shelley's modernity

It helps enormously that she is played with alert sensitivity and acute intelligence by Elle Fanning

" At Vulture, Emily Yoshida wrote, "If it wasn't clear already, you're reading a review of a subpar Mary Shelley biopic by a film critic who has happened to spend a lot of time reading and thinking about the author and her cohort, and I understand my expectations and points of reference might be a little different from the average filmgoer

But I have a hard time believing that someone with even a passing knowledge of Shelley would have the patience for such a literal, literary film

" For Vanity Fair, Rebecca Keegan profiled Al-Mansour, the Saudi Arabian filmmaker living in the United States and making her English language debut with "Mary Shelley

" As Al-Mansour said, ""It reminded me of home somehow. … Like when they expect women to be a certain way, their voices are taken for granted

I really connected with Mary Shelley." 'The Gospel According To André' Journalist and tastemaker André Leon Talley is a towering figure in the world of contemporary fashion

Directed by Kate Novack, the documentary "The Gospel According to André" is a both an affectionate portrait and an insightful introduction to the man and his world

Reviewing the film for The Times, Katie Walsh said that the film is "a fascinating look at the self-invented André Leon Talley, a bold, daring creation who never let anything obstruct his passions, curiosities and whims

… It's a rare delight to spend so much time with the inimitable André. This revealing documentary shows the playful, loving and vulnerable side to this towering figure of taste

" Tre'vell Anderson spoke to Talley for The Times. Of his long career, Talley said, "I got here because I had knowledge

As Judge Judy always says, 'They don't keep me here for my looks.' They keep me here for my power

Because knowledge is power." Of the struggles he has faced for acceptance within the fashion world throughout his career, he added, "How did I overcome that kind of racism? I internalized and struggled with it

… It's been through pluck, luck and survival skills." Advertisement At the New York Times, Jon Caramanica said that Talley "is too fixed in the public imagination to be anything other than the stuff of legend, and he is too legendary to be a truly vulnerable subject

" Caramancia added, "'Gospel' presumes that simply filling the screen with Mr. Talley is enough

If anyone could spot the flaw in that thinking — and offer up countless robust ideas on how to elevate it — it would probably be him

" 'Sollers Point' Matthew Porterfield is a pure and rare gem, a filmmaker who makes films of quiet, soul-baring power

His new "Sollers Point" follows a young man, played by McCaul Lomabardi, trying to get his life back on track after being released from prison, even as he seems destined to fall back into the the bad habits of his old neighborhood in Baltimore

The cast also includes Jim Belushi, Marin Ireland and Zazie Beetz. Advertisement In his review for The Times, Robert Able said the film "boasts a cool, classically observational tone marked by Shabier Kirchner's invitingly elegant cinematography that eschews the vogue for artificial shaky-cam edginess, and the naturalistic detail of a lived-in neighborhood populated by at least a dozen instantly memorable characters — by turns stressed, satisfied, curious, weird and sad — just doing their thing

It's the same clear-eyed sympathy that marks Porterfield's previous features about his Baltimore, including the textured gem 'Putty Hill

' With 'Sollers Point,' he's added just enough narrative momentum to make that well-trod subset of crime sagas — the struggle to go straight — feel fresh again

" Reviewing the film for the New York Times, Glenn Kenny called the film "a quietly brutal story," while adding, "Mr

Porterfield's evenhanded direction doesn't try to pull the viewer's sympathies one way or another

" Email me if you have questions, comments or suggestions, and follow me on Twitter @IndieFocus