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Dear first year Duncan, I just want to say how excited for you

I am.

You are about to enter into one of the best

schools in the world, surrounded by some

of the smartest, funniest, and kindhearted people

you'll ever meet.

I know it was hard leaving your best friends from high school

and leaving your family and not living with them.

Right now, you're in this limbo where you haven't quite

made best friends yet.

So it's pretty lonely.

I get that.

Remember that your tribe will come.

Your true friends will reveal themselves.

Everyone won't remain your friend past a week.

But some might.

You're going to be surrounded by the most

incredible, talented, hilarious, driven, most beautiful people.

And you're going to get to call some of those people

lifelong friends.

Your best friends will not be who you think they should be.

The secret to understanding college

is realizing that most things don't go as you anticipate.

You're going to stay up late nights

in your freshman dorm common room playing hours of pool

and ping pong laughing about absolutely nothing.

I promise that four years from now

you'll leave with friendships that

are more unique and fulfilling than you could ever expect.

These friends will enter your life

when you need them the most.

They will care for you in ways that you

forget to care for yourself.

And luckily, they won't only care about you or themselves.

But they'll also care about the world.

Your friends will be the ones that support you

when you fall in love and pick you up

when your heart is broken.

Make sure you cherish these highs and lows and the moments

you have together.

You're going to learn for the first time what it's

like to do poorly on the test.

But trust me-- you're going to live through it.

You're going to fail.

It will begin with your first college exam,

and it will occur many more times during your time here.

I know this may be a new experience for you.

But honestly, these are the moments

you'll learn from and grow from the most.

You're going to make mistakes, and you're

going to fall along the way, but that's completely natural.

Maybe a certain friendship doesn't last.

You say something you wish you could take back.

I wish I could tell you sometimes

you're going to make mistakes and that you shouldn't

beat yourself up for them, as you and I both know you always

do.

Just like the machine that tells us that we're alive, in life

there are ups and downs.

So be present for those downs and learn from them.

Embrace the challenges.

Push through the low points.

And you make the most of the high points.

Sometimes, things can be hard.

You'll miss home.

But no matter what, no one will ever

be able to take away how much you're going to grow,

how much you're going to accomplish here,

and how lucky you are to soon call here a place that

will always be home.

Some days will be simple.

Others will be surreal.

And others you might not be sure if you'll make it through.

But you'll get through them all.

Give the day what you can, and start again tomorrow.

The people you surround yourself will influence this journey.

I hope you understand how valuable it

is to be empathetic, forgiving, a strong communicator, curious,

and always human.

Once you've mastered these skills,

post-grad life isn't going to seem as scary as it once did.

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Emotions, Feelings and Your Immune System-Morning Conversations with Jim Self and Roxane Burnett - Duration: 9:54.

Jim there's a there's a something that we've been bumping around a concept that

we've been talking about over the last couple days that isn't real clear in my

head. It was a it's about emotions and feelings and how it affects the immune

system and I know that thoughts can make you sick but there was something else

another layer to that that I thought would be good to talk about sure here.

Okay so one of the things that we've been talking about the Arch Angelics and

begin to open up concepts of awareness and one of those concepts that people

ask questions about a lot of times is what's the difference between a feeling

and an emotion. And a lot of times there's you know I've never heard really

good answers to that question. But one of the things that has gotten clear is when

the when the the ego the rational mind process of each of us over time was

navigating it's safety levels its engagement do I fit how do I do this.

The rational mind created a aspect of measurement or a sensation or sensing

itself and so it began to create definitions for what am i experiencing.

So that's anger and that's fear and that's judgment. So all of these words

are sound tones and when you start to look at the nature of where we came from

which was not comfortable, more survival. The rational mind created this whole

construct called emotion and so if you think about emotions there's I'm going

to define it this way for simple purposes but it's not completely accurate. Is

there's edges jealousy rage anger resentment those kind of things. The

heart on the other hand functions in feelings

and so appreciation gratitude happy laughter no edges so if we just use that

as a frame of reference for this. One of the things and this is the context of

the conversation is how do people get sick and so we talked too often about

it's really you're happy and then you have a thought wait what's going on this

isn't good and then you have an emotion this isn't good and if you hold that

constructive this isn't good I'm sad I'm beat-up I'm not okay

it eventually drops into the body. But the expanded part is if you really hold

those emotions what they deteriorate is the the endocrine system of the body. The

immune systems. The immune systems. So if you think about vibrations you see color but you only

see a little slice of the color spectrum there's a lot of vibration going on out

here same thing with sound you only hear

certain sounds. So when you begin to have feelings in the body generally using

that definition feelings feel good. I'm happy I'm enjoying myself. Emotions in

this same definition don't feel so good. They have that edge. But if you look at how mechanically we

do things we get insulted in life then we don't know what to do with it and we

hang on to it. So it's that emotion the vibration of the emotion it's like an

earthquake could just simply rattles everything eventually falls apart. So

it's it's this spectrum that we don't pay attention to we just go oh I was

angry yesterday but I'm over it so no you're not. So like there's that spectrum

of colors that we see and there's many others outside of that and also sound

you're saying that's the same thing with emotions there's we experience 10 but

there's really a hundred. Yeah yeah there's a whole wide spectrum and some

of these emotions when you start to look at them energetically be almost like if

you looked at them on a spectroscope. You see some of these

motions the more the further out they get when you look you see a vibration

but then you see the vibration doubling up and so it's as if there begins to be

an awkward emotion and then a another awkward emotion and they start to

compound. And when that compounding happens in a way if you ever had a

caffeine high there's an anxiety there's a there's a shakiness in the body and

you can't quite define it other than well that's a caffeine high. But in the

emotional sense there's the caffeine high as a manner and but then there's

two or three other layers of vibrations that magnetically begin to bind and so

this is a place where I watch people say I'm depressed or I'm unhappy or and you

say well what does that mean? It just doesn't feel right they'll say but we

don't have we don't have a frame of reference say I don't emotion right.

Right. If you said I don't emotion right I'm being funny but it's like oh okay

well what is the emotions that I'm hanging on to but the place where I get

to play in the sleep space I've been doing a lot of work here and you start

to look at how that emotional bandwidth couples electromagnetically the further

away from neutral it gets. And it just begins to wear the immune system it

depends on the nature of the emotion but you'll see it affect the thymus you

see it affect the thyroid affect the adrenals different configurations but

they're beginning to be out very much outside of the word I'm irritated or or

I'm really jealous about this. Well you hold on to jealous and all sudden

there's six other things that begin to and they all eat away at the immune

system. Other words connected to jealousy like competition and fear. Yea it all becomes magnetic it's it's like you look at

people who are maybe arrogant as a definition you see lots of other

vibrational aspects to that person. And they're all sitting there shaking in

their own different vibrational field. But it's the immune system that's really

getting hammered. So then on the other side conversely to be well you focus on

the positive feelings in the heart. Yeah. To change that and continue with well-being. Yeah see that go back to

why why those platforms of words in Mastering Alchemy are really the

foundational piece of information is if you can begin to construct the same kind

of alignments certain happy seniority well-being appreciation. They all

magnetically bind together and they create a presentation and with these

changes that are coming two sides we talked about in another Morning

Conversation where these two earths or two stratas of consciousness if you're

really hanging on to ain't it awful and it's their fault and guilt this is

beginning to magnetize in that strata. This strata of well-being is very

beginning is being amped up and one of the words it's foundational is

permission. You're beginning to have permission to feel good and that

permission is going to start to help heal the body. That make any sense? Yea I'm getting it now. A tool in Level 2

that I still use regularly is the thought strings and that helps me identify the

emotion. Yeah. Or the situation whatever it is even it helps me identify want

what I want to create to as well as what I want to dissolve. And the whole process

of that exercise the process with the pen in my hand and the writing it down

starts to decharge it. Yeah just just the process of drawing those triangles. Yea that

begins to be that 8th ray it's like oh wait I see this this isn't where I want to be

and it all dissolves and so but one of the one of the ways

that you might I'm talking to everybody that you might play with it's really simple

game is you ask yourself what's the picture behind the picture? So I'm angry

okay you're angry but what else goes on when you're angry and then what else

goes on when you're frustrated because you're angry or what else all of a

sudden you really stumble into the word it's like I feel left out. Oh wow. So it

may this may be the emotion but here's the source whatever it may be. So a

really valuable tool you stop in neutral okay something's going on what's

the picture behind picture. Good. So try it out I think you'll find it has great

value.

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Why Self-Discipline is so Hard - Duration: 9:35.

This is Odin, also known as the All-father.

He will become the wisest and most powerful of the Norse gods, but not yet.

For now, he hangs from Yggdrasil, the world tree that holds all nine worlds together,

with a spear lodged in his chest.

He will hang there for nine days, and nine nights, on the border between life and death.

All the while, he peers down into the magical waters of the well below, calling out for

the godly knowledge of the runes.

Satisfied with his sacrifice, they emerge, revealing to him their wisdom and bestowing

him with great power.

Odin had given himself to himself.

Or, more specifically, he sacrificed his present-self for his future-self.

It's no coincidence that he had to perform the greatest sacrifice for the greatest reward.

This story is, at the least, a metaphor for self-sacrifice or self-discipline.

And, it's one that we have been telling for generations.

Humanity has held the virtue of self-control in such high regards that it's a staple in

most religions and the moral of many myths.

In Christianity, the first sin - eating the forbidden fruit - was a lapse in self-control.

In Greek mythology, evil entered the world when Pandora could not control her curiosity

and opened the box.

This myth, in particular, has even entered our everyday language.

If I want you to avoid a temptation, for fear of causing disastrous consequences, I might

warn you against "opening Pandora's box".

The elevation of this virtue to religious and mythic proportions highlights a commonly

held belief: self-discipline plays a huge role in leading you to your best future, as

in the case of Odin, or your worst one, as with Pandora.

If this is true, it seems like it would be great if we could all have some more self-discipline.

But, what is self-discipline?

People often use the term to describe someone who makes "good" long-term decisions by overcoming

short-term temptations and that's reasonable.

But, when you ask them how they overcome these short-term temptations, they often invoke

some sort of *will* or *willpower*.

What *will* actually means isn't really obvious.

But, before we get to that, let's start at the beginning: the decision.

At any point in time, you're making a decision on how to act.

The difficulty arises when you have to make a decision between what's immediately gratifying

versus what is not gratifying now, but will be in the future.

In other words, the difficulty lies in delaying gratification.

But, what causes you to not act impulsively?

The reason for any single decision you make is multivariate: genes, hormones, evolution,

social environment, physical environment, past experience, context of the situation,

and a multitude of other factors all play a role.

But, the most immediate cause of any of your actions can be traced back to your brain activity.

When discussing self-discipline, one of the best places to start is with the neurotransmitter

dopamine.

In his book *Behave*, Robert Sapolsky puts forth an example that clarifies at least one

of the primary roles of dopamine in our brains.

Let's say that I take a monkey and stick him in a cage.

Now, I put a lever in there that, if he pushes it 10 times, rewards him with a raisin.

Next, I turn on a light that comes on before the lever enters the cage.

In other words, the light signals that the lever will be entering the cage which, in

turn, signals that the monkey will be able to get a raisin.

As a result, the monkey learns to associate the cue (a light) with the reward (a raisin).

Interestingly, the monkey will begin to release more dopamine in response to the light than

he does when consuming his reward.

Contrary to popular belief, *dopamine is about anticipation more than it is about reward

[8]*.

Certain cues in our environment hint at a potential reward and dopamine starts to rise

in anticipation.

*Dopamine is what gets us to take action with respect to a goal [8].* So, how does this

relate to self-discipline?

Let's say that you're deciding between an immediate reward and a delayed reward.

When you think about the immediate reward, dopamine is sent to certain parts of the brain

known as limbic targets [8].

When you think of the delayed reward, dopamine is sent to a different part of the brain known

as frontocortical targets [8].

If the part of the brain associated with delayed reward is more stimulated, you're more likely

to delay gratification [8].

Again, dopamine plays a role in *driving* our action.

So, how does your brain decide how much dopamine is sent to each part?

Again, this comes down to several complex factors such as past experiences, genes, hormones,

social environment, physical environment, the context of the situation and so on.

But, pragmatically, the brains decision is affected by how pleasurable the reward is

and how much time it takes to get that reward [8].

Here's an example to help you understand it intuitively.

Let's say that I make you an offer: you can have $100 today or $100 tomorrow.

The reward is the same but the time delay is greater in the second scenario.

You'll probably take the $100 today because there's no point in waiting until tomorrow.

But, what if I said that you could get $100 today or $200 tomorrow?

It's more likely that you'll be willing to wait, if an extra $100 is pleasurable enough.

But, what if I said that if you wait until tomorrow, you could get $101.

You'll probably revert back to taking the $100 today.

Your brain does multiple calculations like this every time you decide.

It creates a sense of wanting or reward seeking based on the speed and size of a reward.

So, how do you end up determining what rewards to seek?

To live life is to have desires.

The world fills you up with needs and wants, inviting you to come and interact with it.

Every time you satisfy a desire, you receive an internal reward and a belief forms about

how you did it.

When that desire re-emerges, your brain activates the corresponding belief circuitry and dopamine

releases, in anticipation of the reward, which motivates you to repeat the same action as

before.

In other words, you begin to form a habit.

With each repetition, the neural pathway strengthens and you solidify the habit's role as the solution

to your desire.

Here's the punchline: habits mediate the relationship between an individual's desires and their

environment.

To change the habit, the individual, the environment, or both have to change, and that's why self-discipline

is so hard.

We have little control over the biology that determines our desires.

According to Sapolsky, individuals with ADHD have abnormal dopamine responses when thinking

about immediate rewards vs delayed ones: they're biased towards impulsive action [8].

Individuals who experience a childhood adversity are more likely to have an underdeveloped

frontal cortex, making delayed gratification more difficult [8].

Eventually, we may be able to change an individuals biology using science, but the morality and

long-term consequences of this are questionable.

There is a part of our biology that *is* more malleable: the brain.

An individual can be changed with education.

As people learn more about the world, they can test out new beliefs and reinforce new

behaviors.

But, this leads me to the heart of the issue.

Self-discipline is much more of an environmental problem than it is an individual one.

While an individual can change their beliefs and behaviors through education, the resources

available for education are presented by the environment.

Furthermore, the habits an individual builds to meet their desires are, in large part,

a product of what's available in the environment.

A study done by neuroscientist Carl Hart found that when meth addicts were given a choice

between $5 and 50mg of meth, the addicts took the $5 half of the time [11].

When he increased the value of the cash reward to $20, they almost never took the drug [11].

He found similar results with crack cocaine addicts [11].

Hart suggests that addicts are actually rational decision makers, and will choose not to take

a drug when there are "alternative reinforcers" [11].

It seems that drug habits are more likely to be formed when individuals are in an environment

that offers no alternative or competing ways to meet their desires.

Bruce Alexander found similar results when he conducted his now-famous study: *Rat Park*

[12].

Prior to Alexander's study, it was commonly believed that addiction was caused primarily

by drugs.

When you take a drug, you get addicted.

That's how the story went.

But, Alexander noticed that most drug-related studies occurring at the time placed rats

in isolation.

He wondered if this played a role in the rats deciding to take the drug.

It turns out that it did [12].

When rats were in isolation, it wouldn't be a surprise to see them consume a drug until

they died.

But, when Alexander constructed a "Rat Park" complete with friends, sexual partners, toys,

and so on, rats were much less likely to take the drugs.

Both of these studies present an interesting idea: addiction is much less likely to occur

when you have greater access to alternative ways to meet your own desires.

In his *Meditations,* Marcus Aurelius said that,

We were born to work together like feet, hands and eyes, like the two rows of teeth, upper

and lower.

To obstruct each other is unnatural.

To feel anger at someone, to turn your back on him: these are unnatural.

People are a product of their environments a lot more than we like to think.

By acknowledging this, we can have more compassion for one another but, more importantly, we

can begin helping one another.

By providing people with as many opportunities as possible for learning and alternative ways

to meet their needs, we can eradicate the problem of self-discipline.

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13 Behaviors That Reveal Someone Has Low Self Esteem - Duration: 6:12.

13 Behaviors That Reveal Someone Has Low Self-Esteem.

People who have low confidence are those who have little to no willingness to live,

because despite so many positive things to do, they choose to side with negativity.

Often times, they think that their life is miserable, useless, and empty.

This result in a clear sign that shows on behavior, body, verbal communication, and

many other things.

These people need an extra boost of help from family and friends.

If you spot one, it is better to help them as much as you can.

So, In this video, I'm going to share with you some behaviors that reveal that someone

has a lack of confidence.

But before we go down to the list, please subscribe, click the bell and watch this video

until the end to know the complete information.

Here are some of the characteristics that reveal someone has low self-esteem, and you

should know it.

That way, you can do accordingly for helping them with life.

#1 - Indecision.

They will always let you or the other people to make decision for them.

It is like their life fully dependent on someone else instead of themselves.

They live in a world without choice, and it is a bad sign because this person cannot enjoy

the life.

#2 - Trouble being alone.

People with low self esteem always have hard time to live alone.

The reason is because they hate themselves, and there's no reason why they have to be

stuck with themselves.

Eventually, they will find other people to validate their feeling.

#3 - Trouble being together.

Unfortunately, being together with friends or families also doesn't help either.

The reason is because their jealousy of others who have higher self-esteem.

If this topic is brought up, these people will be troubled and they will look pale.

#4 - Fear of failure.

They realize that people fail before reaching success.

They can read books and watch motivational videos about that.

However, they don't make any progress and they remain seated in the dark room of failure.

#5 - When they made mistake.

They cannot forgive themselves, and they will regret their action for not doing things properly.

This feeling lasts for days, and when they made multiple mistakes in a single day, it

adds up to the whole months of frustration.

#6 - They cannot say NO.

They always want to be helpful to others, and they are disappointed for this decision

in the future.

The reason is simply because people with low self esteem are having hard time to complete

their tasks because of their motivation.

This can be problematic especially when they are down in the middle of the project.

#7 - They always say sorry.

Even though they only make minuscule mistake that obviously can be tolerated, they will

say sorry because of being incapable.

They then regret, and they usually desperate to continue the job.

#8 - Seeking reassurance.

People with low self esteem typically demand reassurance because they are constantly in

worries.

They don't want to disappoint others, and that's why they ask others whether they

have done a wonderful job.

As a friend or family, it is better to give them some boosts of reassurance even though

it may be slightly not true.

#9 - They think everything is based on luck.

The next clear sign of low self-esteem is when they are appreciated, they will say it

is because of luck.

They also might say that they didn't do anything, but others do the job.

They want to be excluded from success because they think they don't deserve it.

#10 - They buy things to impress others.

Another sign of low self-esteem is to follow the trend just to impress others.

Buying weird-stuffs you don't even like, or buying something just because of some trends

that you don't enjoy, is foolish because you will only make yourself suffer.

#11 - Having a weird habit.

Self-mutilation such as picking eyelashes over and over in public place is a sign of

deep and serious anxiety.

It is a weird habit that people with mental problems such as low self esteem have.

#12 - Inviting all people they know.

People with low self esteem want to get reassurance from others.

Unfortunately, they may also invite wrong people in the party (people they barely know,

or people who potentially hurt their feelings).

This causes them to be humiliated in the process, and it will drastically lower their self-esteem

even more.

#13 - They sleep a lot.

If you find a friend who sleeps a lot – especially in the afternoon – there is a high chance

that the person is having trouble with life because of low self-esteem.

A daytime is designed for people to go out looking for work, food, and friend.

However, these special people prefer sleeping instead.

Well, those are the 13 behaviors that reveal someone has low self-esteem.

So, really cool information isn't it?

I hope you enjoy this short video, if you have something on your mind, please

share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below!

Don't forget to subscribe to our channel and watch all our other amazing videos!.

Thanks for watching.

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Why We Chose a Self Managed Super Fund (SMSF) - Australia | SMSF Community. - Duration: 2:51.

well it was pretty simple actually back in that global financial crisis we lost

a bunch of money in our super and we had what we thought were professionals

looking after our managed fund and quite frankly they weren't they lost a bunch

of money they charged me a bunch of fees I decided that we could do that just as

well so let's go out and and do our own thing and I kind of liken it to paying

someone to go down to the corner store and buy me a paper and they come back

they didn't buy paper they cut themselves as a cream bun they're

eating the cream bun and I don't have my paper so they got paid and I didn't get

anything out of it so I was like now I'm not gonna play that game

actually it was very simple it was we went to our accountant he said yep no

problem we've just got to get a few documents filled them out signed them

and he got us started jeez I think it was only a couple of days. And you

started this in 2012? 2012 we first started yet yeah we then went

along to our financial advisor we happen to have one that was dedicated to

self-managed super which was really really helpful and so we went along to

them and they pointed us in the right direction they knew that we had some

knowledge about a few aspects and they said that's where you should be going

and so that's what we did

actually we've doubled our our funds from the original amount that we had in

there it's now doubled and we make a tidy little sum each week out of that so

it's yeah it's looking very good for us the thing is that you're dedicated to

your money it's not someone sitting in office not really caring too much you

are making those decisions so you are not only going to be in control you're

going to see firsthand what's going on and you are more likely to take faster

steps if something is not quite going right for you

really it's the control that you have the dedication that you can put in there

and see what's going on you can control what investments you you're going to

have and you know just where the direction that you're going to take

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Are You The One? - Cambridge Self Help Food Bank - Duration: 0:49.

Welcome to our garden!

This is 15 thousand square feet at the Rare Charitable Research reserve and on this land

we grow fresh, local, organic produce for the Cambridge Self Help food bank.

Since 2016 myself and Taryn Jarvis have been managing this project and we've been growing

in the neighbourhood of 5 to 6 thousand pounds (of food) each year.

Mostly fresh greens, like lettuce, swiss chard, and kale.

And what we have realized is that's many thousands of plates for members of our community

in need….grown for our community, by our community.

At the Cambridge self help food bank we serve about a thousand people each month

who are food insecure.

And as they are walking through the door, they're going to find fresh produce, that's

grown right here by the community.

Siobhan…..Are you the one?

I am the one!

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