All praise belongs to allah azza wajal we praise
Him seek his head from him and ask for his forgiveness and ask for his guidance
and we asked at last protection against the evils our souls and evils our
actions and whomsoever Allah Azza WA JAL guides there is no miss guidance for him
but whom they were Eliezer which he leads astray there is no guidance for I
bear witness that there is none worthy of worship except allah azzawajal
without any partners and a bear witness that muhammad sallallahu alayhi wasallam
his last and final messenger and his servant buddy brothers and sisters
and my dear children first of all I advise myself and then I advise you all
to have the Quaffle visor widget be conscious of allah azza wajal in public
and also in private many brothers and sisters today due to our lifestyle what
we eat what we do in what we spend time with it's a fake thing of a whole
personality it's affecting who we really are unknowingly we are falling deep deep
and deep into it there are reports coming so many reports establish reports
which raises concern especially about our future generation you my dear
children the study shows that because of children spending much time with the
gadgets children spending much time the social media how it is affecting the
personality subhanAllah our future generation they are falling into
depression loneliness aggressiveness and they are not able to handle the
things so many things amongst them what
they are losing is their self-control the self-restraint they don't know how
to handle if something have licked them they react in a hasty manner subhanAllah
they don't think about the consequence sometimes they harm themselves and they
are also harming others but they don't realize they react to the affliction
they don't know how to respond to the affliction money brothers and sisters
the antidote for this is no secrets
Quran and Sunnah is enriched with the guidance which will build a strong
personality in a human being
which will build the personality by which one can live a purposeful life in
this dunya and preparing for the eternal life for the our Hara and today I'm
going to talk about one such car districts which we have to aspire every
Muslim should aspire to acquire that cat estate and that car district is a hidden
Hill generally translators self-control
self-restraint forbearance
you know Eliza Virgil has beautiful names and beautiful and perfect
attributes and one among the attributes of allah azzawajal is al Halim and this
attribute comes eleven times in the Quran Allah says the Quran o Allah hurry
you know Halim o'connell ah who are Liman Halim allahu wa haroon Helene what
la mouche Akutan honey different different combinations so this Holly
comes from the root word him which has a very deep meaning as all every
attributes of Allah individual and allah azzawajal revealing is attribute so that
we can learn about allah azzawajal also we should acquire those positive katha
States it's very very important for a believer so what does it mean it means
that allah azzawajal all-knowing all-powerful
and he's watching us even though we disobey Him commit sin he is not
punishing us even though we deserve the punishment
he is not punishing us he's being patient he's having his
self-control giving opportunity to his slaves so that he can repent and come
back to him Allahu Allah so the mercy of allah azzawajal and
Halim he knows we deserve the punishment yet he doesn't punish us
solids they say how the quality of him in every individual what it means to
have the quality of self control self restraint they say that it is the
calmness of the soul in the face of matters that instigate anger will be the
situation where we are provoked and get angry and we have every power to respond
to that provocation that opponent is weaker than you you are powerful than
the opponent you can take out your anger but yet you don't take any action
against the perpetrator you don't take you pay with the patient
for what for the sake of allah azzawajal alone seeking the pleasure of allah
azzawajal alone la hoja if no claim rahim allah he
says regarding Allah as mingle hélène he is a forbearing and does not hasten the
punishment for his slave granting him respite so that he may repent comebacks
repent from his sin if a mossad e rahim allah he says in stops eid al Halim is a
one who keeps bestowing blessings both visible and hidden on his creation even
though that is obeying and make many mistakes so he forgives and does not
give the sinners the punishment they deserve he encourages them to repent and
give them time to turn to him Allahu Akbar
the effects of allah azzawajal name al Halim we should affirm we should
overlook the faults of others the faults of others even though we have every
right to become angry you control yourself in a situation where you have
every right to become angry Aslam does not say that you should not become angry
you should become angry for the right reason but how do you respond
that's what him is all about so whenever you're making fly to allah azzawajal
remember al hélène call upon him by his name and ask him to forgive you because
only he can protect you from his anger no one else
remember that prophets Allah Allah Salim said that forbearance the quality of him
is from the Sunnah of the messengers all of the messengers prophets Elohim said
five practices among the Sunnah of the messengers five practices number one
hyah what we call his modesty number to him
forbearance self-control self-restraint number three he Chama hopping number
four sea walk cleaning your teeth and number five eight perfume these five are
the Sunnah of the all of the messengers Albani Ramallah authenticated is headed
so if a Muslim shows self constraint when someone behaves foolish ignorant
irrationally towards him and he tells this for the sake of allah azzawajal
Allah will raise his status with him allahu akbar allahu akbar so we have to
understand the scholars of mashallah clarified
the different levels of self self-restraint the different levels
there are total five levels the first level is about those who have this
quality in Nate they are built with that so panel Allah's bestowed upon them that
they have the ability that when they get angry and they control themselves they
don't harm their own react it's something they have in Fatah the second
level is the one who imposes this quality upon himself he's not born with
it but he wants to implement that so in his heart he's not at peace
he knows he's very angry he want to take revenge but he's practicing controlling
himself for the sake of allah azza wajal and third is a hint of an arrogant which
is arrogance the possessor of which someone harms him and he feels that he
considers who harmed him is not even worth to response he looks down upon him
you don't even what to respond to your ham this is arrogance and fourth level
is showing off the one the possessor of this type of showing of him
he doesn't really do this for the sake of allah azza wajal he acts in front of
people so that people can praise Him o mashallah
look how has self-control he has it does for the appreciation of the people
and finally the helm of humiliation one would abandon the matter which angered
him due to lack of strong will loss of motivation he doesn't have that strong
wheel he doesn't get angry he doesn't have the strong will or motivation Imam
Shafi rahim allah says that if a man he was given the opportunity to get angry
for the right reason and he's not getting angry he's a donkey if it is not
for the right reason still he's not getting angry he's a donkey the
forbearance of rasa's Muslim from the Sirocco socialism para la profe Aslam
has showed as in practice different levels of appearance Allah Akbar
there are plenty of examples we can go on prophet salaallah alayhi salam he
always took the middle path he never used to get angry for
everything that's one extreme nor he's on the negligence that he doesn't get
angry at all if someone attacked him personally if his attacked personally he
would show forgiveness however if someone why elated the limits of Allah
so virgin violated the Sharia he becomes angry and when people cross the line of
decency with him versus lesson always repaid the bad manners with forgiveness
so many examples are they one example during the expedition of data Raqqah
province Ozlem the companions are returning back and they are camping in
stopping so they're usually looking for these shrubs okay with thorny shrubs
whether you take shade so roses lazarum he took a shade shrub it Tony shrub
where he laid his weapon and he slept and the Companions they everyone
they took the shade and they were s T so Jabbar Abdul Allah alone he narrates so
why we were resting suddenly we heard a rustle özlem calling us the different
narrations this relation of Japanese of the Lord Allah WA so we all rented and
we saw there was a Beethoven sitting down near
a socialism and his name was Khalid ib'n a hadith so roses Muslim said as he was
sleeping this man came with the intention of killing murdering the
Selassie he took and she to the sward and placed in front of us was Muslim
while you are sleeping and also let's walk up the sward was dangling in front
of and then he asked are you afraid of me
professor slim he didn't panic he said no then he asked who will protect you
from me now and one narration it says eres la slim
said Allah Allah Allah they put him in drop this one
and a system took that's what and asked him now who's going to protect you
but Russell aslam he had every right it's on self-defense somebody's coming
to kill you huh you don't make him sit and talk to him that was Muslim he did
not take the revenge and he made him sit and he said that man
said I'm really sorry SOLAS l'm said and he said I'm really
sorry please forgive me and as muslim said do you accept that is
none worthy of worship but Allah Azza WA JAL and I'm the Messenger of Allah
the man said no arrows lesson having this wad in his hand a whole army is
another side the man said no I'm not accept but I will not harm you are the
Muslims in future and those last them freed go and this
man went it's mentioned the narrations that he went to his people and he said
that Moll I met the best of mankind this is something you cannot imagine those
days in the desert of Arabia Allahu Akbar another companion by the name a to
fail even a Merrell Dow Z another Allah one he was among the earliest one who
accepted this now he accepted Islam and he went to his people people of DOS and
he invited them and some of his family members accepted but rest of his people
the whole village they rejected rejected and he became so angry with his own
people so it comes to know socialism complaining about them
he said yah Rasool Allah these people they will never listen yeah knows Allah
make dua to allah azzawajal that Allah destroys them destroys them his own
people and when one of the narration he said that ten doses Muslim he folded his
hand and he turned towards the direction of the Kaaba and he was raising his hand
and the people around said the people of those are ruined
Kalash that's it it was doesn't make dua its be accepted and they'll be destroyed
that was lost them me to are and he said yeah Allah guide the people of the house
and bring them to me oh Allah guides the people of the house and bring them to me
subhanAllah this was prophets and Allah listen the earlier prophets when their
people rejected them they used to make the auto allah azzawajal to destroy his
people but prophet Mohamed Salah Salam to the line I mean in short mercy he
showed mercy remember the incident of time when he was stoned out of time he
was bleeding just imagine be in his shoes your beans
out of a city a village a town you're bleeding and the angels there in front
of you Japan Islam saying a prophet
this is the angel of mountain is waiting for your command and the angel of
mountains is yellow so live if you give permission I'll bring down occupy in the
two mountains to crush the people of Makkah just give me your permission so
prophet salaallah alayhi Salam in said no inside said Arabic fiddly call me for
in the whole area double Allah forgive my people because they don't know what
they are doing he had the power to destroy them take
revenge on them but get Auslan slim practice restraint one example like if
there was a Jew his name was xate abla sana say that miss anna he was a rabbi a
scholar of Jew so in the narration he narrates himself ones roses la Salam he
just completed a janazah of an sorry penny
they've just buried him and the slaughter was just sitting down near the
grave leaning on a tree nearby and this Zeta bless Anna this is a time in Medina
where socialism is a president King whatever you call is the leader sitting
there they even asana he comes and he pushes carries the end of the clause of
local socialism pulls him and says o Muhammad when will you pay the loan
which you took from me in a very harsh tone
just imagine in front of everyone the companions are that you just finished
janazah huh I never seen the people of Abdul
Muttalib delaying repaying the loom and who was standing next to problem was
Omar Mohamed your loved one and the narrator himself says Aden asana I could
see America Tom's eye was swollen red with anger and he said well I fight
though if I don't have that fear of not getting into general I have just
beheaded you okay subhanAllah now look at this problem instead
immediately when Authority no responded so harshly to Zeta vasana of course he
deserves that from system said you know a man we didn't expect this from you
what you actually should have told is that you should have told me to repay
the loan in a good manner and you should have counseled him advised him do you
should have as a loan in a good manner oh ha ha ha
so repay the loan and give him 20 saw updates extra so forehand foolish ones
are 20s updates so maha table asking for what now you behave so harshly with him
for that subhanAllah so I'm not a table Tiana Liu he goes along with Zaidan
asana and he's very angry so say the banana is asking yeah oh man you don't
recognize me don't you you said that you know no I don't why you I'm rabbi so
this made I look at them readily even more angry is that you being a scholar
this is the way you behave the prophet of Allah he said no yeah I did it with
the reason I have seen all the signs of prophethood mention in our book but I
want to confirm two points to science and today I got it confirmed what are
the two signs that awaited Prophet his forgiveness will precede his anger
when his right to be angry at that time he will prefer forgiveness over his
anger this one quality and the second when people behave more ignorantly with
them with him he will respond with more forbearing and in a lenient way when
people become more foolishly behaved he will show more of his patients and
leniency and he said I should a la ilaha ill allah why sheikh mohammed
rasoolallah allah hawkman that was our prophet mohammed salah salem and not
only that prophet's la salaam he loved this quality of appearance and he taught
the companions the scholars they say they're all Aslam taught the companions
the quality of forbearance like how you used to him to seek knowledge the same
bureaus Muslim said you should have this quality of for appearance ones Rossler
slim told I shut up the face radiallahu on he said verily in you there are two
qualities that Allah loves one is for parents in self-control self-restraint
the second carefulness deliberateness so in one narration he asked Yanis Ulala is
these two qualities Allah bestowed in me it's an innate in my fitrah or did i
acquire so process l'm said that these two qualities which allah azzawajal
bestowed you with is something allah bestowed you with they said
alhamdulillah all praise be to allah azzawajal who bestowed the qualities
which align is mesengeros Allah so from this hadeeth we can understand that some
people are born blessed with this quality at the same time this cart is
takes you can acquire it something if you don't have you can have it that we
come to know from this hadith a Kulik holy has a was topologically Salomon
Rocker in Orion
hamdulillah salatu was-salam ala rasulillah what le Messiah Janine am i
bad buddy brothers and sisters Hill is a trademark of the prophets is a stamp of
the pious at the way of the intelligent and it is must for every Muslim aspire
to from the notable fruits of him your promised general for that and in this
dunya it can neutralize the conflicts it can remove hatred and enmity you can
turn a foe into a friend if you wish a lot to show us forbearance
we should be forbearing to others but it's our spouses of family members of a
children our parents our friends our colleagues with everyone for the sake of
allah azzawajal we should overlook we should have the self-restraint imam niye
tabu relates a hadith of by the evidence omits radi allahu on that prophet
sallallaahu Leo Selim said should I not inform you of that which Allah grants
honour to one's household Allah honors one's family household here Sierra
Sarala Jerusalem said exhibit him self-restraint towards one who treats
you ignorantly and pardon the one who oppresses you and give to the one who
deprives you and connect the ties with one who severs him those who break the
ties with you wha-ha-ha in another area DS Rozlyn said I can attend tkt be
sheikh al banna rahim allah Oh boohoo a rowdy a loner narrated I heard the
problem saying knowledge is sought by learning there is no shortcut knowledge
is sought by learning and forbearance is sought by forbearing
forbearance is sought by forbearing whoever seeks good he will be granted if
he are sincere in what you want the good thing Allah will grant you give it to
you and who is avoiding evil sincerely he will be protected
he's a statement of prophet mohammed salah salem and it was asked to enough
been hazed he's a tabby though he was alive the
time of roses loves them but he didn't meet roses muslim he was asked who did
you learn and hidden from having these four pins preventatively learn he said
from myself whenever someone did something i
disliked i would never do the same to someone else
my dear brothers and sisters for parents self-restraint can be learned and
cultivated through practice may allah azzawajal makers among those who are
patient and forbidding i mean allahumma salli ala muhammadin wa ala muhammad
commence a little Abraham Ibrahim Mohamed Majid allah wa barik ala
muhammadin wa ala muhammad wa barik ala Ibrahim Ibrahim Mohamed Nasheed
Robin Allah the illumina body laitanan a militant allah subhana rabbika because
it is a phenomenal a muslim al hamdu lillahi rabbil alameen Hakeem Salah
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