hello everyone The Psalmist is here welcome to today's episode of my answer on Quora
and those who do not know Quora is like a social media platform where people
just ask questions any type of questions and anyone who has like an accountant
Quora can answer that question so I have an account on Quora and the type of you
know questions that I deal with are mostly about family relationship
religion christianity marriage that's the kind of videos that I make for
YouTube so today I have a question that was asked and the question was said the
question weeds how can society enforce universal kindness so this person is
worried about how people are treating one another and how people are behaving
so they want to know how can we make everyone kind was one aligned so I gave
an answer so my answer weeds we cannot force kindness we can only
demonstrate kindness this way others will see how life should be truly lived
the mistake that we make as human basis that we assume a lot of things we assume
that just because a person is an adult they must have all the answers in terms
of of behavior and virtues what we do not consider is that we come from
different backgrounds and because our bank runs are different were most likely
to act differently a child is like a tree in fact the bible does sometimes
refer to people as trees hands John the Baptist said the acts of the Lord is at
the root of all trees because we are trees and not just trees but trees which
must bear food for a chief to bear fruit it must be manured it must be watered
and pruned so that it may bear fruit as is required by the one who has planted a
tree deprived of minerals menu 1 and water cannot bear fruit in
the same vein a child deprived of kindness love compassion grace and mercy
is most likely not to have this various characteristics so if we want to see a
kind compassionate and merciful humanity we need to exude these various
characteristics ourselves God wanted to recreate a human being who had the same
spirit as he does what did God call through the transformation work of his
own spirit in the heart of a human being which is totally we Bayless to him makes
the human being to have the same attitude toward sin and righteousness as
hidden so God teaches us we can teach people to be like us we cannot teach
what we do not know now can we give what we do not have the
devil cannot teach kindness and love because he does not have those
characteristics in closing I would say that if we want a kinder much more
loving and compassionate humanity we have to start showing these things
ourselves in the way that we treat other people in the way that we relate and
interact with other people without that we can form movements upon movements but
if this virtuous virtuous characteristics which are needed by all
human beings are not keeping our hearts that they are as natural as hunger and
thirst it will be no use of even talking about universal kindness yes that is the
answer that I gave on Quora about how can society enforce in whistle kindness
universal kindness of course indeed is true it's needed is needed in terms of
changing the relationships between people is needed in terms of changing
the way the so-called watches people relate to this world you know
unrighteous people we have to exude the character
is that we want in people if we won kindness out of people we have to be
kind if we want love other people we have to be loving if we want forgiveness
out of people we have to be forgiving it's not even about me saying that
that's what the Bible says I'm just saying that we have to look to put in
what we expect out like that I mentioned in terms of example of a HIV Nietzsche
children always reflect the background where they come from they will always
reflect how they were raised some children of God will contradict
hard always because maybe they saw someone that they followed and then that
person changed their lives but in most cases a child always reflect where they
come from so if we want a kind and loving forgiving you know a kind of
emphatic society that most people desire we have to show these things ourselves
but we shouldn't just talk about them on radio stations or on television or on
YouTube we have to demonstrate them ourselves in the way that we live in the
wedding with people we have the same beyond the color of the skin of a person
and seeing a person who wants to be loved who wants to be forgiven who wants
to be seen to be righteous to be holy to be loving and do that the minute we
stopped looking at people in terms of colors and religion and and culture but
just looking at people as human beings that's when all of us will take all
these chips of our shoulders once we put on when we look at people in terms of
their colors and religion and their cultures because the minute you look as
a Christian you look at a Muslim as a Muslim you already put a chip on your
own shoulder because that means you now bring this man said that he is a Muslim
maybe I'm not even supposed to laugh with him maybe I'm not even supposed to
just talk about things I mean we don't even have to talk about religion we can
just talk about normal things like sport or anything the meaning we can speak
about these things that the modesta mean when you start trusting one another
then we can start reasoning to each other
Arkon about visualization is true or not but the tries come from the fact that we
spoke and we spoke the bad things didn't no one said that I cannot speak to a
Muslim what I cannot speak to to a Christian if you look at the bomb you
look at how Christ spoke to everyone prostitute
tax collectors who at the time were looked upon us in were people and that
because he was able to engage in conversation these people it enabled him
to have something to say about the kingdom of God to them because he spoke
to them he didn't look down on them like the Pharisees did because the Pharisees
looked out on anyone who was not Jewish who was not Israelite that they were
worshipping other gods they were idolaters so they were not deserving of
a conversation of a child who belongs to God but the minute we do that the minute
they did that they put like chips on their own shoulders so it meant that
because they never even just got to know a procedure I am saying this because if
you were to see me speaking the process you may probably think that I want to
sleep with them maybe I just want to ask her why she approached me without really
trying to judge or anything just why and if I can get the reason why maybe I can
sort of say that you know what you don't really have evil like that and there's
something that I can do how to stop doing what what she is doing but the
minute you want to isolate yourself from the so-called and righteous and sinful
people you will never win it's in the soul of course we must be careful not to
do the things that this people do but we must also be kind enough to just speak
to them just be human just speak about normal things just speak about what
happened on the boat can speak about election or president speech everybody
watch that and the minute you speak to them like that you're creating a middle
ground for you to be able to say what you want to say the form of sometimes
with preaches is that they just come across as saying God is gonna do this
you know crisis can I charge and I'm obviously people as going to how
not the wrong way have a conversation with people it's like the same thing
that I'm doing on Quora you know if you want people to come to you if you want
be with listen to you establish yourself as the kind of person who has
understanding at the kind of person who listens to everyone
despite the religious background despite who they are a wild black you know green
yellow Koreans Muslims everyone when you do that and when you reason with what is
reality but is where what everyone can relate to just when people want to pay
attention yet you see even on Facebook or ever even when you command command
from a point of understand even when you see the most wicked thing but just
commending such a way the people ask themselves what kind of personal reasons
like that and when people say that you're different that you are a kind of
person who has a different mindset a different mentality they will go to your
Facebook page and try to see on your thumbnail and your timeline of course
was most likely for a man who has a true character reflect the very things that
you commented on in that Facebook post and people want to know more about your
thinking that's how you add people you know you add value to people's lives you
know you can just go to a Christian forum or christian Facebook group and
then just post something know command on what is posted and bring a view there is
Christ like a view that you know attend people you know make people want to
attend what you say and then there's gonna start to want to follow you
that's how even in business I mean even in business you should be doing the same
thing the mistakes that a lot of you know online marketing people may make is
that taking just gonna go and just you know spam you know comments and say I'm
selling this coming back they don't add value didn't add value to people's lives
quote the people help them helping their issues then they gonna start saying that
really you are the kind of person who must have now they will voluntarily
come to you instead ask him for help do you see that you see that's what Jesus
Christ did you see he went to people spoke to people but spoke with such
conviction with such the man said that God had that people who has furnished
that's why some people were saying but you know no one has ever spoken like
this man has spoken so already is seeing that this is a different person this is
not the kind of person that we've known they know the Pharisees they know the
priests but Jesus Christ was different why because of the way he spoke you see
so people make the mistake of saying that you know don't don't speak to
criminals don't speak to gangsters don't speak to prostitute look if you're an
alert you old enough to speak these gangsters and they can't harm you speak
to them just speak and just try to find out their mindset why are they against
us virus and in drugs and don't come from a point of judging just say yeah
it's kind of issue but why do you guys how it works don't you think there is
you know it's not cool for your people you see if they're Mexicans is no good
for the Mexicans if it's their black is not good for black people if they're
wise not good for a people and then they're most likely of course can I be
shocked about it of blah what do you mean I just want to know I'm
just interested you know that and then they can explain it you're gonna find
that sometimes most people don't really like what they're doing you see if it's
evil no one really likes to do evil unless you're the devil you see but most
people that want to do good but they found themselves in a situation where
they no longer believe that they can get out and because they no longer have to
believe that they can get out they just have they have to make the
most of the use I'm going to make the most of what they already doing so they
have to learn to find some kind of happiness and joy in that
do you see that but when you come with a different mindset a different version of
life which can take them away now you're making them think you're showing them
there is a way out and you're helping them and if you really mean what you say
and say what you mean that's how you're gonna change people's
lives people's lives are no changed because
you come then and you throw money at them no most problems are not actually
in financial or material things most problems are personal people go through
a lot people go through a lot of things in their lives but nobody really wants
to listen you see you can find a racist a white person who hates black people
but no one actually asked them what is the root of you hate what is it about
black people that you hate you see so because you think that is racist you
already dismiss them so this thing cannot go away because you're dismissing
him when somebody says something that is not you know it's not all the docs we
say he is crazy he's when you say he's crazy you eliminated him from all people
who are not crazy no one is willing to listen to his craziness where does his
craziness calm you see that's why everybody wants to
shut themselves out of other people because we don't listen to one and we're
not trying to find out why one of my biggest goals in life is to find out why
people do what do you do
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