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At some point or another everyone of us is gonna experience an emotional state

that we don't care for some were clear with time and others might just get

worse low self-esteem and a lack of self-love are the issues that most

people commonly put on the backburner since it's so much easier to do that

than to really deal with them that's an easy thing to do considering that we all

have plenty of things going on in our day to day lives and it's easy to

distract ourselves the problem is that topics such as low self-worth and a lack

of self-love our issues that never really go away unless you work on them

instead they persist quietly and if anything can get worse and in the end

they always find their way into whatever part of your life is most important to

you and make it so that you experience loss of confidence find yourself making

bad decisions over analyzing everything that's said and done and in general not

living the kind of life that you could totally be living for all these reasons.

If you're suffering from these issues you want to take responsibility for

yourself and begin to work on them and while I have no therapy mindfulness and

coaching is my world I want to make sure that I say that you need to do whatever

feels right to you to make it so that you heal and find yourself in a better

place if that means doing one particular thing or doing a few and sopia the next

key component is that you follow through not following through is a sign of lack

of commitment on your part I can only end in failure so don't let

that be an option for you that's the biggest trap you could fall into so be

sure to hold yourself accountable and start holding yourself to a higher

standard of self-care do these things and you'll find yourself much more

confident and empowered.

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Diary of a Depressed Donkey: On Self Leadership & the Sphere of Influence - Duration: 3:51.

there are qualities that make someone a good self leader some of these qualities

are self-awareness confidence and efficiency but self leaders the leaders

in general also know themselves they know their values the strengths and

their abilities and what they can get done dear diary in life there are things

you care about and things you don't I don't care about much but not all things

I care about I can control I can't change the weather no matter my

intentions whether it's cloudy or not it will always be cloudy for me there are

other things that I care about and can influence like whether my roommate does

his dishes

he doesn't really seem to listen but I guess I can try there are also things I

care about well at least I kinda care about and I

suppose that I can directly impact if I tried

chemistry hates me this is what we call the sphere of influence there are a lot

of things you care about in life these circles represent those the biggest

circle encompasses things that you can't change even if you want to inside that

are things you can influence but not directly control the smallest circle are

things you care about and can directly control knowing where things fall in the

sphere of influence can help you decide what to work up this view of influence

provides a foundation for understanding and leading others and yourself it helps

explain why efforts might not always be successful or dear diary I tried to

follow the sphere of influence today I finally decided to take a shower and

brush my tail much nicer than the rest of me it's not much of a tail but I'm

sort of attached to it it wasn't raining until I went outside

end of the road no hope of things get

sounds like shorter than moon at long times the nicest thing about the rain is

that it always stops eventually

For more infomation >> Diary of a Depressed Donkey: On Self Leadership & the Sphere of Influence - Duration: 3:51.

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Self Improvement By A Board Certified Behavior Analyst - Duration: 4:44.

I think it's important that you you know don't go outside your scope but I also

think that you should be willing to set deadlines for yourself to learn about

something that's outside your scope not outside the scope of practice but

outside your scope of competence so you you have to kind of push yourself to be

slightly uncomfortable in order to learn and grow so in other words if you want

to be great at doing a VB MAPP down the road you should set a deadline for

yourself that you're going to do a presentation on it

in front of two people or two hundred doesn't matter get consultation from a

Heidi light or somebody Carroll you know like get consultation have a deadline

that you have to be good at something and then you're gonna learn it rapidly

as shit because you know you're gonna be in front of people but then you know

also disclaimer I'm learning you know you tell people as you're going I'm

learning I'm not claiming I'm an expert I just think look I mean I realized life

is hard enough with all kinds of struggles day to day just family shit in

itself but you're at the end of the day you're gonna feel very very empty if

you're giving giving giving to your kids your husband your wife your clients and

then you're not doing something to build your own repertoire just like you're not

doing something to keep yourself healthy which is for you if you're not doing

something to feel like you're learning you're gonna feel at the end of the day

a little bit used up you know what I mean

by all the people you're helping and you have to help yourself

I'm good at helping myself you have to help yourself when it comes to feeding

your own repertoire so that way you feel like you've benefited in and then you

need to make it concrete you should put that down on your resume and really look

at it so that way you don't feel like at the end of the day

you've depleted all of your energy and you didn't learn anything that make

sense I just want you guys to look out for yourselves you know in addition to

looking out for the clients and the people that you mentor and a way to do

that is by setting deadlines to have to talk about something in front of people

I know that I create the deadlines I'm like and my ambitions were a little bit

bigger at the moment and I'm like off I really have to do this you know anything

I'll blast it out to everyone and I'm like I'm not ready but I will be so in

other words you have ambitions create the circumstances around you to have to

learn it and then you're going to slightly leave your comfort zone and

you're gonna feel really great at the end of the day like Joe candor ski went

through a lot of stuff and pushed himself to be uncomfortable was fighting

a medical condition and got in front of 200 people and then I would imagine you

didn't want to do that shit beforehand but then after it all I bet you felt

good how confident you feel and building up your own repertoire at the end of the

day number one that's going to make you better with your clients and number two

it's going to make you happier because you feel that you you're not just

depleted of helping people all day and never learning and growing yourself so I

just think that's really important just like the whole oxygen mask on the

airplane before you put it on someone else that'll I liked I think you guys

should set a day a week for me at Sunday's and I call it

it's weird I have these weird things in my head like I call it my Sundays

between the hours of 7 a.m. to noon or what I call sharpening the saw because

I'm beat down all week by serving people's needs because I'm a servant to

you guys that's all I am I feel that way I want to be every time you need

something I try to respond and I try to get ahead of it I try to get lawyers to

protect you I try to do everything I can so that you guys are comfortable doing

your job and and by Saturday beetman and and then on Sunday I sharpen

the saw so that way I can go into Monday sharper which means Sunday involves

exercise meditation studying some shit that I don't know creating a deadline

for myself that make sense

For more infomation >> Self Improvement By A Board Certified Behavior Analyst - Duration: 4:44.

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The problem with Self Esteem and how to negotiate - Narrated by Jordan Peterson - Duration: 6:33.

there's a problem with the measurement

of self-esteem and that actually matters

because self-esteem is a psychological

concept a scientific concept if you like

and you have to get the measurement

right and you can predict self-esteem

almost perfectly by measuring someone's

extraversion and subtracting from that

their negative emotionality or

neuroticism so it's actually just a

combination of big five traits and so

people who are extroverted who feel a

lot of positive emotion and who are and

who don't feel a lot of negative emotion

score high on scales of self-esteem

you're not going to move people's levels

of neuroticism let's say by trying to

get them to feel good about themselves

okay now having said that that doesn't

mean that you shouldn't encourage people

right now there's this psychologist

named Jerome Kagan who's quite a great

psychologist developmental psychologist

I think he's an emeritus at Harvard at

the at the mall at the moment he studied

temper mentally inhibited children you

can so they're basically kids who are

high in neuroticism probably low in

extraversion and he found that if those

chilled and you can identify them as

early as six months right it's very very

inculcated in their temperament he found

that if you encouraged them in the world

you could shift them into a more stable

personality configuration and what you

basically did was when they were

manifesting signs of distress instead of

encouraging them to withdraw and retreat

which is what they might be attempting

to do you encourage them to go out and

explore so for example if you have a

temper mentally inhibited child and you

go to a playground and there's kids out

there like if you have an extroverted

emotionally stable kid three years old

as you put them on the ground their feet

are already moving right like a puppy

over water and you let them go and they

just run to the to the kids and they're

there and then you have to drag them

away but if you have a temper mentally

inhibited child the child will sort of

stand around your legs and sort of peek

out you know and then what you do is

waited out let them watch encourage them

to move a little bit forward encourage

them to take their steps out into the

unknown and the strange land and don't

let them withdraw like you can do it

yeah they're slower to warm up they'll

warm up they'll habituate and if you

continually expose your inhibited child

to the things that make them anxious in

measured doses then you can transform

their psychophysiological temperament

now you're probably not going to shift

them way the hell out onto the

extroverted emotionally stable land but

you can make a big difference that's

very different than making them feel

good about themselves which is such a

you need to curse you need to curse when

you discuss that concept right so it

isn't the improve their self-esteem it

isn't how you feel about yourself right

it's how you act effectively in the

world and how you're trained to do that

so ok now then you were talking about

negotiation you said something like

don't people who feel good about

themselves aren't they able to negotiate

better but negotiation is actually a

practical issue to some degree like the

first thing is that you have to figure

out what you want because you were

saying well it's not merely rational

it's like yeah yeah that's for sure

you have to bargain from a position of

authority let's say not power

authorities a better word but you don't

have authority unless you know what

you're talking about and unless you can

bring some unless you can bring some

let's say force it's not that's not the

right word you can negotiate without

with anyone unless you can say no and

you can't say no unless you've set

yourself up with alternatives so when

you go to your boss and you negotiate

for a raise you need to have the sort of

CV that enables you to go find another

job and you have to have your CV

prepared and you have to have looked for

another job and you have to be able to

get one because then you can go in there

and say I'm not as productive as I could

be at my current level of remuneration

it's not reflective of what I'm able to

do and I want this and this is what will

happen if you give me this this will be

the good things that will happen and

what do you think of that and the person

is going to know even by the way that

you hold yourself while you're having

the discussion when

you're someone with options and you

can't fake that while you can

but it's not helpful like it just

doesn't work for very many iterations

you have to it's it's it's not

rationally you're preparing yourself for

battle that's what you're doing and you

can't be weak when you prefer to prepare

yourself for battle because if the

person says no I'm not giving you a

raise which is exactly what they should

say because what are they going to do

just like sprinkle the money around you

need to be able to say okay then there

will be consequences

that you don't like and that's what it

means to say no to someone no means if

you continue to push this things will

happen that you don't like now in that

case it'll be all be part and take my

talents with me and if they don't care

well then you're in the wrong business

or you don't have any talents to begin

with right which is so it in in order to

negotiate properly and this is more

difficult for people who are agreeable

for example and because there tend to be

more conflict averse you have to put

yourself in a position where you can you

can push back as hard as you're going to

be pushed on and that means you have to

open your you have to open up your space

of available options because otherwise

the person says no and that's it you're

done well you lose them it's it's as

straightforward as that now with regards

to the self esteem part is practice on

small things because you build the

skills forget about the self esteem it

isn't about being confident or feeling

confident or any of that it's about

knowing bloody well how to negotiate

start with small things you know so

you'll notice that there are things in

your relationships in particular that

aren't the way you want them to be and

that you could see how could be improved

it's like figure out how they can be

improved negotiate with your partner

make the incremental improvement keep

doing that you'll get better and better

at it and then you'll be able to go out

and have a harder negotiation in the

world so it's a set of skills there's an

attitude behind it you know and it's

easier for some people than others but

fundamentally it's a set of skills

you

For more infomation >> The problem with Self Esteem and how to negotiate - Narrated by Jordan Peterson - Duration: 6:33.

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Building Online Business with My Self Publishing Blueprint - Duration: 42:30.

Hey Everyone! I'm Emeka coming at you here and I'm so excited to sit down with

Natasha and Marco the moti knows from from the moti knows from the YouTube

channel the power couple and we are going to talk about well we're going to

talk about their journey on building their online business exactly what

they're gonna be talking about on their channel it's definitely something you

want to check out if you're married if you're in a relationship if you have a

family or you want to find out more what what's this whole family life about

definitely want to stay tuned for this interview hey guys welcome to the

channel great to have you here so I'm Erica it's nice to be back here

it's nice to be here with Natasha - yeah barca your your you're no stranger to

the channel but first time for you so exact excited to have you here I believe

you guys are actually my first couple or first like two people interview that

I've ever done like so yes congratulations thank you yeah yeah no

worries alright so let's dive into it um we well

to start off why don't I want to know how and why you decided to start an

online business because yeah why don't we just start with that so take it from

the beginning what kind of got you into the whole online business world alright

so the initial reason for me was just something different than what I was

doing day-to-day okay so yeah like I didn't want to I want to have like a

side hustle earn income separately from like what we were working on or what I

was working on at the time so that was the initial reason and it was that was

Scott me started but eventually it turned to I want for you okay and and

Mark would always come at me and be like not like there's this new way we can

make money this and that like he'd always find like do different things

that we could do to make more money yeah the Hughes is always just looking for

money chasing so he's chasing money now Markel what

were you doing before you did the before you started the online business okay so

a couple of things so okay I graduated I got a job in my position in the field

what field was it the software development software engineering okay

and so I worked there for a bit I wasn't too satisfied because I'm I'm the type

of guy at least the way that comes to that industry I actually like to go and

write code and solve problems and stuff like that there was a little bit of that

there was a lot more of like just using other people's software they get stuff

done so I wasn't too happy I decided to leave and at the same time I opened up a

different business with my brother he was in roofing yeah he asked me to

partner up with him to run the business side of things and he would just do the

roofing side of things did that for a year at the same time I was working for

a start-up and then that that was probably the toughest year of our life

for sure why is that business-wise like ton of issues very stressful like every

night was a sleepless night lot of money just like a really corrupt industry it

was really yeah and so then I left my brother completely understood yeah

he knew that wasn't my passion he's still running it and for him that they

were doing quite well actually yeah good yeah so no hard feelings nothing like

that so and then at that point that's when I got into the whole

transformational thing changing mindset looking for opportunities that were

separate from what I was doing so still working for the startup but yeah that's

kind of what I was doing prior to this and then so you knew you wanted more

more money or more whatever right how did you find like what made you think oh

well I could probably make money online like Natasha G do you have

experience online or were you you were running your own I also own a dog

grooming salon I have groomers there now so I don't act

presently I don't have to actively be there but yes I had that but at the time

I was pregnant so I was like starting to like being off work Jeff so when he

started looking into the whole online thing I was kind of like there's a you

know a jump for me but I wasn't sure yeah yeah okay so market what may what

led you did the online decision okay so

yeah I want it was somebody had to be separate from what I was doing gray just

cause like overloaded stuff yeah that's a good question why online like that's

yeah I can't really pinpoint exactly I know how I found Kindle publishing that

I can pinpoint and that was from FBA I fear was the first thing I found right

which we tried we tried that yes you did try it good yeah actually it wasn't too

bad yeah it's not like we failed were like dramatically we made some money

very little not a lot yeah but then we decide cuz the expense the upfront was

way more massive it's yeah totally do you have to deal with like China

importing brokers and yes supplies is way more yeah yes so we made the

decision stick to Kindle you took Stefan's course two before mecca's yes

yeah you we probably maybe we met in Barron's right we might have met it I

remember you are the first month I was there I think it was like in May he's

paid monthly you were like student yeah so we might

have even chatted it it'd be funny to go through that like I'm clearly not in the

Facebook group I don't you are either but be cool if we could go back or if it

was watching if you're in Kay Miami masterful disclosure if you could

fine our old posts if you and me like if we talked ever yeah be kind of cool to

see those you know just way back in the day like way back kind of just figuring

out this whole publishing thing I'd be able to see that those first couple

conversations that we had compared to like you know how the relationship that

you know that we have now right that's totally different and be so crazy to see

so yeah alright so then you found the online thing and then you okay so yes so

you started a bit with FBA what was that a joint effort or market where you kind

of like he took the reins on it we can we say what we started with oh yeah

yeah so we started with that fidget cube that it was a cube different sides on it

no and we actually sold quite a few of them but then it died out and we had all

this inventory we had a bow I think 80 left but though the what sold we still

like you made back your money do you still have a retiree of this you know we

got rid of it just get rid of inventory yeah so okay now Natasha were you what

were your initial thoughts when Marco came to you with hey I'm gonna do this

business I'm gonna learn some products from China I'm gonna sell them on Amazon

and we're gonna make a lot of money because I know what Marianas initial

thoughts were but what was it from you because it'd be kind of interesting to

see what what yours was okay so I feel with marker for almost 10

years now and since I've been with him who has hops from like idea to idea yeah

so when he told me about this idea I kind of looked at him I was like okay

like I was supportive but I wasn't supportive you know name yeah yeah yeah

I was kind of you you're being the wife yeah yeah yeah I got you but you want to

start this and I have is your baby cooking like yeah but overall I mean

what am I gonna say I wasn't thrilled I didn't have a passion to do it but I

followed his lead which is kind of what I've been doing for the last ten years

and that led us to the FBA now we're doing Kindle which is it's amazingly him

well I got started but then she well yeah he he was the push I'm not gonna

liable yeah right was the push and he was persistent and he used tactics like

you know you're really good at this so why don't you try doing

I started with the books right it's like hey you know honey you know how to use

Photoshop but what if you helped make covers yeah yeah and that's how I got

started with the children's books is because he was like why don't you just

do that on your spare time that the baby's asleep

thank you start publishing technically before murder my not before no no we

actually we did at the same time we did two books she decided on one book I

decided on one yeah yeah yeah cool my book was a failed by the way this is my

first book enjoy the club alright so then let's fast forward a few months

okay now publishing is starting to work out

your books are not no longer failing you're figuring things out maybe by this

point Marco you're in the blue print we've started working together money

starting to slowly come in thoughts on the business how how did how do things

start looking you know compared to when you first started mm-hmm well when we

first started there's a lot of points where we almost gave up like not working

I don't know if I want to put any more effort yeah but then was this was

publishing or FBA or just publishing there was there's the thoughts of giving

up yeah oh yeah cuz we had books that were doing really well and then other

books that weren't doing well and it was because we weren't following we made

mistakes before we found like your course and yeah and the thing was to

like we had an envision first rate income and we saw all these people

achieve it and we weren't getting there for us and that was that was the biggest

thing for me because I wasn't seeing the results I was expecting right so it was

very like demotivating I guess you could say market why didn't you give up like

why didn't you just throw the towel I don't know I just I I knew I could do it

I just I had to kind of I guess prove it to myself that it was possible and

because I was seeing everybody else doing it I mean if everybody else could

do it there's got to be a way that I can figure it out and then yeah that's when

we ran into your course I think this is an October of last year and actually to

add to that is when he joined your course I noticed like through your

mentorship and everything like he changed like his changed yeah he changed

like he had that support from you and people in the group and he met people

you guys are much different no friends now today but like it changed him

because he had that support and you know there was I noticed that he was way more

confident he wasn't doubting himself as much right which obviously me

a huge huge difference yeah that support system when you start doing this

business or really any business or really anything when you start doing it

with friends it just changes how you do it like it right it just it kind of it

makes it more fun it makes it more enjoyable you know but don't feel like

you're alone right yeah yeah yeah I think before he had me to pick my brain

but like but it's different it's yeah right yeah because you know it's you

know I I explain this like you know when

you know when I went to LA you know Mariana was questioned it's like why do

you got to go early why do you have to stay later you know there's blend time

with family but I'm like they've got understand

I'm going there to connect and hang out with the people that I'm building

businesses with we go there we talk we inspire each other we we are better

together when we hang out right it's just it's it's kind of like a a cheap to

speed things up if if that makes sense yeah right cuz like talking like this

like you know or when we call each other on Facebook you know that's one thing

but like hanging out and having those conversations and that's it's completely

different right so and I think that's what it's like having joining a

community of people who are doing what you're doing online and connecting with

them and you know thinking about how much fast we've all faster we've all

started growing now that we've kind of all connected connected right and we're

talking on a regular basis we have weekly calls on a regular basis now we

all are growing 10 times faster because we're doing this together right cool

okay so now you've been in the blueprint we've started working together you were

believed my longest running student on the accelerator oh yeah yeah

and now okay so then things really start picking up you served in a few ground

with publishing and then you start thinking it's like man I can really

build more from from Amazon right I don't have to just publish I could you

know there's other areas that I see I could do better than what some other

people are doing right same same thing I did with the course right I said you

know what there's some good info but I could do better and so you started doing

that so you built another business um that's what were your thoughts when he

wanted to build that second business

like actually he brought up the idea and within like I want to say 48 hours he

was already like interviewing people to get started well it was very fast yeah

and as soon as he said it I was like yes like let's get this going because I mean

it's just it made sense it made sense based on the industry that we're in yeah

I think I got the idea and then I went to work right away and then I think

maybe a week and a half to two weeks it was like live yeah completely really

this is the urban writer's this is the urban raise yeah yeah I you know agree

that fast idea I didn't know it came together that quickly very fast yeah

yeah I mean I had people already make I needed obviously more writers but I had

writers at the time right that was a whole dilemma was I couldn't use any

other comfort any rating company because my experience with them was just so bad

yeah yeah not so much like it was the writing the written content was okay but

the customer service is horrible if you say it's your fault that there's an

issue ya need an edit for your book and you're not guaranteed that it's not a

good feeling going into it so we wanted to create that through the urban writers

yeah wanted people to trust us to be like okay I'm paying you to find someone

to write my book but I have an issue with it I can come to

you and you're gonna help me with that and that's what we wanted to order me

around yeah yeah that you know it's a lot like Lewbert

eats okay do you guys have we're eating oh yeah you huh that's one thing I'll

miss when they go to Vancouver hopefully they get there together and make oh man

Vancouver mayor you're ever watching this you moron there's together

no he they don't want to we're to come in because you know like not even like

uber itself like uber itself is not even that like take a cab right so convenient

uber is one of the best things to ever happen to the transportation industry

yeah you know and it's just it's so upsetting that you know the cab drivers

because they refuse to change an update and you know clean their cabs that all

of a sudden they're like in a business

so because like I remember marking my first experience and you know I was like

no I want to go through the full process I wonder like place order and like you

know I want to do that and yeah you know just getting the emails knowing you know

yet your orders been received and like okay this that's cool

your your book is being assigned you're right I'm like wait what yeah I remember

getting so surprised every time I got an update your book is finished is being

placed to our editors or whatever that other email is and I was just like I was

blown away at how I was kept in in the loop every single step and the

confidence it gave me to know exactly where my book was versus placing an

order and then in two and a half three weeks boom I got my book but the two and

a half three weeks I'm wondering is like cuz has a writer quit or is it being

written is it finished is it like no or like finding out in two

and a half weeks one of our writers quit we had to assign

like somebody else it'll be two more weeks right like it was just it was a

breath breath breath breath breath fresh air yeah the urban writers so and I'll

have links down below so I mean anybody can check that out okay cool how is how

did things really start changing over the summer now that the other businesses

you know you started another business because you're freaking insane that was

my first reaction was like wait he's doing another thing you know and thing

the difference is is now he's focusing on that one thing before he jumps on to

the next they're not they're not suffering no right and that's good

because yeah but so now you started the third business a stunning change is

still a mess profit formula or is it yeah no no it is okay but we're

rebranding it but now we're actually gonna join it with right okay on the web

page yeah so the ads your ad course yeah you know so you started that and what I

love about those two things they've completely changed the industry you're

you're giving publishers the ability to get phenomenal customer service from a

writing company and get high quality books a really really reasonable price

but then now you're showing them how to successfully run ads to their books so

they could spend a dollar and make three and right and it's just it's been

awesome okay so going through the summer how did your life start changing over

the summer like think back to what was going on as you were growing the

businesses all of a sudden they started getting

busier and they started making more money how did that sort of fact in life

at all actually one thing that happened is you really started to see that the

goals that we we've set the year before last year were achievable with

everything going on and we like our confidence just kept going up and up one

thing that did have to happen is we did slowed down a bit on the publishing side

yeah I mean we released some like books over the summer but we really slowed

down like I haven't looked at publishing like either of us like she's done she

has a book that's complete that's not published yet because she can't focus on

it it's a children's book yeah yeah right you know I got a program that

solves that it's almost ready he's the scene right isn't she she's

almost fully trained so that's one thing we kind of have to slow down on and that

totally makes sense Walt you know like do urban writers it

took some time there was times where we even like we're skeptical about the

urban writers because it took time to pick up as well especially since our

prices were more than our competitors yep all right what have you learned

about pricing you learn you learned that people will pay for quality yeah yeah

being the cheapest is it dumb business exactly yeah you can say yeah great what

I think really transformed us this summer though was when we went to Cancun

always time for your man really yeah because we met like we put a face to

everybody slowly after summer but yeah that was this doesn't really end until

after the mastermind let's let's be real

but that was the the conference that really turned everything for us and

things just took off that what what happened like what what what happened

like what were some of the things well we got to me like a ton of amazing

people connected with them you know God talk a bit about our services their

services and we made that connection that trust connection that's important

in a business and we got to showcase a value that we're bringing and people saw

that and they trusted that and that that's what led to the growth that we

saw after yeah yeah like I think like where we were going with that is that

after that trip because we made all those connections like our business like

took off because people were like they were showcasing our business on their

channels or whatever but yeah you got to know us again don't trust with us which

led to that that jump so okay now fast forward to October 2018 the business out

brings in almost $40,000 u.s. being Canadian

that's like 55 grand or so yeah really $5,000 Canadian I don't know what

the average wage is in Canada but I bet it's less than that a year yeah whatever

you did that in a month twelve funds okay yeah how has that month shifted

your your mindset your beliefs your goals your dreams everything like what

has happened over that 12 months from $300 to you know to 40 grand or so yeah

sometimes it's surreal you know you you don't and then you think about like

things that you couldn't afford before and you're like oh yeah right like we

made you know whatever you know what I mean so we

have to work on that a little bit but it's it's been a crazy journey it has

far like a lot more confident now in terms of money bringing money we don't

really worry about buying stuff like we're just like you want that okay I

will buy it whatever it doesn't it's not like an issue anymore we don't have to

worry about money that's gone that's at a table written it's a complete change

like complete it's so big that it's hard to express right and and and we're just

getting started - that's like the part that's like surreal is that who knows

where we could take this who knows where we could be next year next well six

figures a month yeah and that's the yeah mr. lorry's

like I I know we've we spoken about this you know but doing six figures a month

is is you know kind of like the main goal for for 2019 is to start breaking

six figure months yes right that's yeah and when that happens you know it's

gonna be the same thing like what's the nice is never gonna right and and so

what about your what about some of your goals or dreams how have things shifted

how have things become more clear because I know when when we really

started like I'm staring at my whiteboard and you know it's in the last

48 hours we've made what we made in February it's amazing that's crazy right

now and we you know from from our experience all of a sudden like we want

to go move to Italy for a month that's now possible it's not a matter of like

how can we do that it's just okay well when when should we just put that in our

calendar and buy tickets and go the fact that you know I could go to LA hang with

you guys for a bit I just bought that flight no I don't have flights from

Miami yet but I'm going the atashi you come in as well right tonight yeah right

the fact that I can do that now and just you don't have to think about

it you can just leave oh yeah cool so there's a thing you know San Diego

there's nothing like you go without worry about it has been a big man this

is this is really cool this is what I've always seen other successful people

being able to do and now I'm able to do it yeah yeah have any of your goals or

dreams that you thoughts like oh one day it's now it's like okay when should we

just do it yeah you know what interestingly enough I set a goal when I

when I first started this because I was one one of the things I was taught to do

like after like do reading and all that stuff was to set goals and I set a goal

of making someone's yearly salary monthly which was actually fifty grand

and we just pretty much did that in October and that was pretty crazy cuz I

forgot about that I forgot that I set that it was just one

of those things that I wanted to do when I first got started in all this and now

looking back it's pretty insane how that works yeah yeah so that was that was

pretty cool but now like our goals are totally different I compared to when we

first started Brighton right and I feel like it's always gonna that's always

gonna happen as we grow totem poles are gonna change right things that we want

to accomplish and looking back like five years before if you ask me I'd be doing

this I think you're crazy no way yeah the thing is is like as much work as we

put into it it wasn't as hard as people think it is to get here if you dedicate

time and put in the effort you're gonna you're gonna make it mm-hmm especially

with like all the resources that they have online now through like you know

publishing books affiliate marketing like you don't have to do anything once

it's out there I mean you have to meet you maintain but you're not things yeah

it's like it's definitely a lot easier today to make money it was yeah and it's

only gonna get easier yes that's my belief I think making

money we'll only become easier for people as

technology advances and new opportunities come up and like you know

I mean like there's always always gonna be plenty of opportunity you just have

to be willing to put in the work and the sacrifices and commit you just gotta

I think committing is the hardest thing for people Yeah right and lack of

support right commitment and self belief believing that you can I think that's

what a lot of people struggle struggle with in my opinion that's just what I

see yeah people just don't believe they can do it but you want to before we met

even before we met like you know everyone that we have that's helped us

along the way we had a lot of people who just thought that we were dreamers and

we weren't gonna get to where we were

yeah but that was like the closest closest people to us yeah and I feel

like that's common though cuz that's a story I hear all the time it you know

it'll be interesting I thought a lot of of us when we left Canada really like 50

grand and dad had no money you know weren't really enjoying things when we

go back we're gonna buy a house okay and not like a 200 op like you know like

seventy eight hundred thousand dollar house a nice house you know my parents

haven't had a house since I was three that they owned you know I can by the

way the rage over yeah they could imagine her age overs no she doesn't

have a good taste I have to taste for her by her deranged over yeah I'm you

know yeah so but it'll be hearse there's a whole long-term plan for that it's

like if I get her that vehicle then I the next one right it's like yeah but

like so my close friends and family it'll be really interesting to see right

because none of them are in the online space like a huge job it'll be huge and

it's not like you know I have to go around talking about the income but we

talked about the business and it's doing twenty thirty forty thousand dollars a

month American somebody else course right may this this could be our first

$40,000 months amazing the reigning American like yeah yes kind of like I am

I when market when you say your income report to the group and I saw it I was

like oh that's awesome for him fuck cuz I just feel like I'm the quote-unquote

supposed to be the leader you know what I mean it's like so I just you know and

that's good because that's gonna it's forcing me to step up big time this

month cuz I want to you know yeah a way to

push yourself to 100% we know these it's great healthy competition

we all make more money so but like it'll be really interesting when we go back

you know it's it's uh yeah I'm still Marianna our publishing business

literally does 100 to 120 thousand dollars a year without me looking at one

thing anymore yeah and then I actually got something I wanted to mention that

we haven't touched publishing and we're still bringing about four thousand

dollars right so four thousand so that's what four times twelve forty eight and

that's American and that's slowing Canadian that's close to five grand

so what's 5 times twelve sixty grand so that's a sixty thousand dollar business

Canadian but you don't have to look at and you boom 60 grand

so what somebody's going to work for for forty hours a week for 40 hours a week

50 weeks in a year two weeks holiday they're spending more time with their

work colleagues than they are their own friends and family they're our flesh and

blood you do that you make that without even looking at the business you can

literally do video games all day long your kid and hang out with Natasha yeah

and you're gonna make what they're gonna be making slaving away at a job for

eight hours a day every single day for the entire year

yeah anyone watching this like that needs to be a wake-up call like people

should be like like oh wait there's more to this

so yeah I've often thought about you know what's it gonna be like when I'm

with my friends and family and like life is gonna be different like you know like

things are just you know things are just it's funny I don't wanna get off topic

but it happens but my parents are was like hey you know when you buy a house

you have to do the lawn I just thought like know they have landscaping

companies that will come and do that shit for me right like you know we're

talking about having a live-in nanny I'm like no it's just like why I cook for

yourself if we can just have somebody come and cook and clean and do all that

shit for you yeah and just focus on I just focus on what you care about on

what you care about what you want to do and that's the whole point of making

money so you can live life and not work to pay bills but to work to grow your

family to work to give them the lifestyle that they wanna that you want

to give them so they can you know marry I keep saying it's like I just love

being able to go to store and buy whatever I want in the store of course

within reason but like she can go in buy whatever she wants for the kids and like

she bought a $600 lazy boy recliner a few months ago didn't even ask me and

and she's made it clear it's like god no you cannot spend that type of money

without asking but you know but she didn't have to ask and she's like you

have no idea the confidence I gave me and like it was a drop in the bucket

like it didn't affect anything she knew we could pay for it like yeah that is

just like that is so powerful for families it is it is yeah talking about

that our couple what are you guys gonna be talking about on your channel ah so

the three things that we're gonna focus on is mindset business particularly

online and relationship so how to work with your partner and stuff so like

breaking those three those three things down really really detailed and just

show people how to you know how to do it right I think I like for example I

firmly believe that if I didn't tackle my mindset I wouldn't have achieved

success in anything that I've been doing yeah a hundred percent man hundred

percent cuz you would have looked at community limiting limiting beliefs or

too many reasons why this would have worked not gonna work right yeah yeah

and we we thoroughly enjoy working together I mean there's times where we

don't oh yeah no yeah oh really there are cuz you guys seem like you know

we're not perfect now keep telling Mary I said we need to be more like Marco

Natasha when we like even recording our first video we were going at it for

quite some time wasting time I want to see this in bloopers we need to show

people that it is doable and achievable so and it's so much more fun when you

can do with your partner because then you guys have the same goals and you're

aligned with where you're going in the future right like next year we really

want to do some traveling and it took him some a bit of time to get me on

board on that just because of like the fear of traveling with a baby but really

yeah yeah like I have that I have that fear like what like what what's the fear

or what I think just like based on where we're

going like it's just stupid things that moms worry about it's just like health

care and if we need help like what are we gonna do I spent $40 on 12 juice

boxes of milk that I brought over with me because I was afraid to use the milk

in Mexico it's all good hey you know what Mariana is a lot very similar in

that retrospect she likes to pre check everything and make sure it's like okay

if we're going there you know is this to Giver

you know so I totally relate and so I just the milk thing was definitely a new

thing narrative before you know it's all it's all good to encourage more people

to do things as like a United yeah I love that it like is that I'm super

excited to watch more of your channel and and learn more from me because yeah

like I want Mariana to become more involved in the business and work with

her more you know but we've worked together before when I was running my

like Keiko vector office and she was my receptionist and like you know we kind

of clashed a little bit you know but you know this business is totally different

but so I'm really really excited I'll probably be your biggest fan learning

from you and you know maybe we'll be like a success story what's now that are

working together they're businesses more powerful than ever and you know so well

hey guys thank you so much for for spending some time talking with with

everybody and sharing your story and having some laughs there's been

absolutely make sure you check out all of the links to their companies their

website and their there's channel in the description and if you got any questions

for these guys make sure you just ask away

comments but yeah guys thanks again and congratulations on your massive success

over the last 12 months thank you thank you so much and Mike it was a pleasure

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Robert Crooks, a 67-year old retiree from Las Vegas patrols the US-Mexican border in

the Campo area,north of San Diego.

Crooks has been doing this for about a month now…

every day.

He lives and sleeps in his pick-up truck – AND he patrols, watches, and tracks, what he calls

invaders and enemies of the United States of America.

"They are not coming this way.

And if the do I'll be waiting for them watching.

They're not sneaking in."

Roberts joined the "Minute Men Project" - a group that many describe as a dangerous

militia - in 2005.

He says, even back then he felt he needed to help secure the border and fight off what

he calls an invasion of illegal immigrants.

"It's my country, it's your country, it's our country.

You know, if nobody makes a stand, we wouldn't have a country."

He sees himself as a patriot.

He claimed this hilltop overseeing the border for himself by installing a flag pole.

This is his base.

He named it "Point Patriot".

It is here where - in his view - he serves his country at a critical time.

Where he makes a stand in what he calls the epic battle against illegal immigrants.

"This is a defining moment in history right now.

If we don't do something here today, this, you know right now, this could be, it's got

the ramifications of turning into something very dangerous to our nation.

If we start allowing hoards of thousands and thousands just to cross the border, crush

our cities you know, that's a recipe for disaster you know.

It has to stop here."

For all of the "criminals in Tijuana", as he calls the Caravan migrants from Central

America sheltered on the other side of the border, Robert has this message:

"They have to go back home.

…America is full."

The Federal Agents of the US Border Patrol do NOT necessarily agree with any of Crook's

sentiments.

However, out here in the field they do appreciate him patrolling the area, watching and alerting

them to suspicious movements from the other side.

That's enough of a reward for this Minute man.

"As long as this is going on, I will be involved."

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The Advent Alphabet of Self-Care: C - Duration: 4:41.

Hello there welcome back to the Advent calendar of seasonal self-care - it

takes me a while to get my mouth around those words - and today I'm going to be

talking about C and C stands for Creativity so some of you have been

trying to guess what it's about. I've chosen creativity because it's a really

good way to help us to relax. It gives us a sense of contentment. When we're

creative we're really getting in touch with who we are and what's important to

us and it helps us to switch off from more stressful things. Our creativity

doesn't have to mean that you are artistic many people assume it does and

say that they're not creative because they can't paint or draw for example but

creativity can be expressed in all sorts of different ways so I wonder if any of

these sound like you? Perhaps of someone who enjoys cooking at the end of the day

because it helps you to relax you might be someone who enjoys being out in the

garden and perhaps you love to plant flowers and choose various different

colors that all sort of blend together and make a great show or you might be

someone who enjoys using colors at home and creating a beautiful space in the

home and decorating that's an important way of being creative. You maybe someone who

perhaps none of those things appeal to but what you really love to do is

to listen to music and perhaps you compile playlists or you

take photographs on your phone and perhaps you even make them into movies.

You might be someone who's quite technical and you might like to get your

hands dirty and there's nothing brings you more joy then perhaps rebuilding an

engine or building something or you may be someone who enjoys using tech and

perhaps uses tech to create stuff it might even be just better ways of making

your computer work. These are all really creative activities and you may do

what we tend to think of as creative things like dancing

and singing and acting as well as the more mundane things such as doodling or

coloring a mindful coloring book but all these things are creative. I

think we often overlook the ways that we're creative at work so you may not

consider that you're being creative when you draw people together to have a

discussion you may not realize you're being

creative when you're applying theory to practice and producing results or

perhaps you're synthesizing information and producing a report but all these

things are actually creative endeavours. I think the essential thing about

creativity and why I've included it in the Self-Care Calendar is it helps us to

express ourselves and connect with who we really are. It gives us a sense of

purpose and meaning and as we're creative it helps us to express

our identity. The other thing about creativity it really helps us relax

because it's quite often playful and it's fun. It also gives us a sense of

accomplishment especially if it's not very easy to begin with and we have to

learn and adapt and that's an important thing in helping our brains to be more

flexible. But I guess at this time of year you might be asking where am I

going to find the time to be creative? What I'd like to suggest is in

actual fact you can be creative with the things that you're already doing and I

think it's about shifting your mindset. If you can see the things that you're

doing - the preparations that you're making - not as a chore but as an act of

loving creativity I think it might really change things for you. So let's

see. Are you creating a beautiful Christmas tree? Are you creating

attractively wrapped presents? Are you creating fun? Are you creating a

delicious meal? These are just examples of how you could turn these chores at

Christmas into something that's actually rather a beautiful act of love.

So I'd love to know what you think and I'd love to see how you're being

creative so do post some photos in the comments

section other things that you're doing to be creative. I look forward to seeing

you tomorrow. Bye for now