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This video is about how you become more confident, not just when dealing with women, but in

all areas of your life by ignoring other people.

#00:00:09-7# I really wish someone had told me these things

years ago.

Ignore people who just pull you down.

#00:00:15-6# They're like a piece of lead chained to your

feet, pulling you down and drowning you if you do

not get rid of them fast enough.

Ignore people who tell you that you can't achieve something.

They just tell you that they can't do it themselves and therefore neither want or believe that

you can do it.

#00:00:31-8# Ignore people who do not believe in you.

They do not believe in themselves and simply do not

see the best in you.

#00:00:38-0# Ignore people who laugh when you tell them

about your dreams and goals.

Just because they have abandoned their own dreams and goals

a long time ago, they do not need to talk you out

of yours.

#00:00:46-8# Don't let anybody, no matter who it is, take

away your dreams and goals from you, and defend them with your last breath.

#00:00:52-8# Ignore people who put you down.

They do not respect you because they do not respect

themselves.

They often hide their lack of confidence behind a mask of arrogance while they're

actually weak inside.

#00:01:02-5# Ignore people who treat you badly.

They treat you badly because they are dissatisfied with

themselves and therefore treat themselves badly.

#00:01:10-2# You're too good for their third-class behavior.

You do not need that.

#00:01:15-3# Ignore people who make you feel that you don't

deserve to get what you want in your life.

They only radiate their own lack of self-esteem

on you and project their feelings on others.

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You're worth just as much in life as you think you're worth.

All men are equal and differ only by their thoughts.

#00:01:33-3# Because their thoughts become their words,

their words become their actions, and their actions

become their fate.

#00:01:39-2# Ignore people who do not appreciate you.

They're not worth spending your time with them.

And if they don't recognize what they have in

you, it is their problem, not yours.

#00:01:48-2# Ignore people who do not make you happy.

Your life is much too short to spend it with them.

You only have 28,000 days to live, a great part of which is already over, and you do

not want to waste any of the rest with people who don't

make you happy.

#00:01:59-6# Your life's simply too short for that.

#00:02:02-0# Ignore people who try to keep you where you

are, instead of giving wings on your way to achieving your goals.

#00:02:07-7# It's their selfishness which makes them not

wanting not to see you progressing, while they're

not.

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That's why, with their entire power, they try to hold you back and keep you where you

are.

#00:02:17-7# Get rid of them as soon as possible.

#00:02:20-2# Ignore people who lie to you.

They just make you unhappy, so you save yourself the pain of

having to uncover one lie after another in the future.

#00:02:27-5# They will lie to you again and again, no matter

how often they promise you the opposite.

#00:02:32-0# Ignore people who only get in touch when they

need something from you.

They only use you and are not interested in you, but only in

what you can do for them.

You're not really important to them, no matter how often they tell you

the opposite.

#00:02:44-6# Ignore people who give you the feeling of

worthlessness, even if it's just for a single second.

Nobody forces you to have these people in your life but yourself.

#00:02:53-6# Ignore people who do not listen to you and

do not appreciate your opinions and do not respect

them.

If they do not want to, there's plenty of others who will.

#00:03:00-2# Ignore people who make you cry.

Every tear you shed is just a reminder of how urgently you

have to get rid of them.

#00:03:07-4# I really hope that you liked this video and

that it helped you.

Please rate it positively now and share it with other men to help them.

#00:03:14-2# Now I've question for you: Which people do

you think you should ignore?

#00:03:19-1# Leave a comment under this video and let's

create an incredible list which will help not only you

and me but also all of our friends and let's share them with them.

#00:03:27-5# Alright, let's go.

Let's get started right now.

And if you want to watch more of my videos, you can

find them almost daily on the blog of dating-psychologie.com.

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Morning Conversations with Jim Self and Roxane Burnett - The Power of Hello - Duration: 10:24.

Jim we've been on this roll. We talked about these qualities in the Third Chakra:

power, control, resistance, and judgment. And then last week we talked about being

on the edge and reacting and I know with the mastering alchemy tools there's one

tool, one concept that kind of opens the door to remove the "us versus them" thing.

So let's let's talk about that one word. So this space we've been talking about

for the three weeks now is: there's a transition. This is a Shift, this isn't

going away, this whole structure. And it's creating an off-balance-ness in people.

And the off balance-ness is such that it's creating the "me versus you" and to "them

and us" and the need to tighten up and protect myself. Survival. Survival. All

of it is about closing down and protecting. And the reality is

everybody's the same. Everybody is, has needs, has wants.

Everybody simply wants to be happy. Yeah, I think people are people. People are

people. So when this whole nature of "us and them", walls begin to draw and you've

seen it all through history where it comes and goes, it ebbs and flows, it

tightens down into a Machiavellian type of "we are gonna kill those off because

they're not like us" or-- We've seen it all along. But there's really one word in our

reality, the most important word there is and the word is hello. Hello I see you.

Hello can I be of assistance, hello I'm opening up communication to you. And,

really simple, if you think about how we walk down the street where lots of other

people walking down the street. And nothing's said. People just walk right past

each other, oblivious. But if you play the game of just simply looking at somebody

I mean looking at them and saying, "Hello" you

startled them and they always, virtually always anyway, say hello back. It's a

reaction, hello. And if they don't greet, if they don't respond it's they're still

jarred like, wow someone said hello to me!

Nobody says hello. What do I do? I don't know what to do. So they go into that

again that survival space so, I don't know what to do. But this word hello

provokes communication and when you start to recognize that other person

with the capacity to think differently than you and the potential that what

they have to offer is really pretty exciting. You know it's like only eating

hamburgers and then being introduced to great Italian food or Chinese food and,

you no, no, no, no. It's like whoa, this is really good. Hello. And that's really kind

of how it plays out. This last week I had this experience where total, total

illustration of this: I walk into a clothing store that I'd not been before

beautiful stuff in there. But I walk in and the owner, this woman comes up to me

with no hello and she says oh look at all this great

stuff we have. Here, you would look good in this, you would look in that, how

come you're not picking stuff up? The energy was not hello it was buy my stuff,

buy my stuff. But no recognition of you. Oh, no. You know, it's, I could

have left, and I mean I left and she had no memory of who I was. But but that non

hello was a turn-off. Yeah sure. I had a circumstance like that one time where I--

Where I wasn't even thinking about buying a house but I had the resources and I

didn't have a house and I needed to move but the mindset was: I'll rent something.

That was when I was younger and money didn't make any sense to me. Money still

doesn't make sense to me. But this woman said, "Well why don't you buy a house?" "No."

Remember we had the conversation but you can always go to no but you can't always

go to yes. This is a classic one. And she didn't really hear the no but she kind

of said, "Hello who are you, what are you doing here,

what are you all about, have you ever bought a house?" Now my defensiveness or

my ignorance or my uncertainty was: I'm in communication with somebody and no I

really haven't bought a house for a long time. And she said you know the market's

changed. And also she's informing me but not selling me and by the time we

got done it was like, this is crazy not to buy house. I mean and I wound up

ultimately buying a house. But if I stayed at my no, non-hello, non

communication, okay stop selling me, I'm out of here,

I'd probably still be renting today, Yeah. So that hello, when it's done in a "I see you"

It's even: I see how great you are, let's see who you are as a spirit not as a

human in a body. Now that's an elevated step. It's like, Hello I see you, it's

really, the key to it is you being present. I see you. It starts with an "I", you know

I am right here, hello. That space is an internal alignment it's not just a, "Oh hi,

how you doing?" It's a connection, it's a recognition, it's a validation, it's an

engagement, it's a communication. And I think that's how Mastering Alchemy works

because everything we do, from putting a new item in the store, having a phone

call, everything is based on hello. Hello I see how great you are. Yeah for Mastering

Alchemy, the same point ,which isn't the topic, we literally structured Mastering

Alchemy intentionally in the word 'hello.' And we set it at the color blue which is a

whole nother interesting way of saying hello to somebody, matching their energy.

I see you where you are, and uplifting. But Mastering Alchemy-- there's no

boundary. People come, people go, people bounce off the blue, they bounce off the

hello, they pass right through it, some stay, some leave, there's no sell. Yeah.

It's a "Hello." That's all. This is what's here. Hello.

And it's been remarkably successful because that hello is to the heart. And

it has no strings attached, no agenda. No agenda. And quite often you realize: this

is a person in need. I had an experience just in the last few weeks where I was

at a Whole Foods in the morning and there was a Muslim woman, maybe 50, 60

years old all dressed in her, her, her scarf and clothing. And just looking at

her eyes you could see this woman was confused,

she was uncertain, she was very much in some level of need, but she was very

tight because she didn't know how to ask, she didn't fit in.

And it was really clear she was in need and I literally walked over there and

said, "Can I help you? Are you lost?" And she said very quietly, "I have no food." And it

wasn't like the person with the sign saying you know, anything you can do, this

woman was genuinely a person in need. And it was really easy to reach in my pocket

and pull out the first bill which happened to be a 20, and say, "Here. Go get some food."

Did I miss the 20? No. It was a Hello. Did it make a difference to that woman's face?

Absolutely. That level of saying hello and assisting

is what's going to break down the walls in these divides we've talked about in

the last two weeks. The uncertainty, I'm better than you, you, you threatened me.

This word hello has got to be understood and applied if this transition is going

to be navigated smoothly. And it's not it's not just for the person you're

saying hello to, it feels really good. And it's for you. The hello is opening The. hello

provides the opportunity to buy that house. The hello basically says I see you,

what do we have in common and what don't we have in common and how do you and I

begin to navigate and uplift the world in manners that are empowering to

people? This is a spiritual transition into

well-being and in that fifth dimensional space safety doesn't exist. Trust is not

even a word because there is nothing unsafe and nothing to distrust. Now think

about that. What would that do to you if you had an environment where you are

completely safe? Well you would start to be amused, you would have fun, you would

begin to be open and expanding. Opportunities would be there, not to

argue with but to be absolutely enamored by. What if you lived a life

where everything was like, "Wow this is possible, I can do this,

this is who I am." Starts with hello. Mm-hmm. Really important word. That's all

I know. Hello. Hello I see how great you are. Yes

and I see how wonderful you are. So we'll kind of move on in the next couple of

weeks with different topics, but these three topics that we've just talked

about in the last three weeks are very key to your navigating this journey

through this transition. So enjoy.

you

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4 Common Struggles with Self Worth & How to Heal Them - Duration: 6:57.

When something great happens in your life--you find love, you get a promotion,

something else joyous--do you feel like you don't deserve it? Self-worth is a

serious battle for many of us living with mental illness. You are not alone in

this struggle. Fortunately all of us can take actions to boost our self esteem

and to really feel like we deserve the joyous and wonderful things that life can offer us.

I am not one of those personal development leaders that provides quick

fixes, so I want to be honest with you. This is not going to be an overnight

change and it is going to take some work. Self-worth is something that does

develop over time, but every little step that you take really does make a huge

impact in your life as a whole. So remember that, even though it takes some

time and effort, it is something that you can do. You can improve your self-worth

and you will notice the amazing progress that you make. It's also important that

we're on the same page about what self-worth is and isn't. Self-worth is

about being there for yourself about acknowledging that, no matter what

actions or mistakes or things that you do in life, you are still deserving of

wonderful things. You're still deserving of joy. It doesn't mean that you excuse

your actions or ignore any mistakes that you made. Instead, you hold yourself

accountable for those. But, you also recognize that just because you did a

bad thing it doesn't make you a bad person. No matter what you have done

thought or felt, you're still deserving of love, even if

that particular thing was not exactly a good thing. Building a greater sense of

self-worth only requires a few simple steps. The first is to simply isolate why

you are struggling with self-worth. There are a few common reasons for low

self-worth and, once you know these, you can journey down a road of

self-discovery, something that will help you take the proper actions to improve

your self-worth. The first common cause of low self-worth are messages that society

told us that we started to, over time, believe. They could be things like

"mentally ill people are a burden" or victim-blaming mentalities, or even

unresolved issues that your parents passed on to you. The second is that we

often tell ourselves messages that cause low self-worth. This can happen for a

variety of reasons and every one is normal to experience. There's no shame in

having experienced it. Sometimes we tell ourselves these critical messages

because we want to fit in. For instance maybe we feel like we need to be

prettier because we want to fit in with a group of attractive friends. Other

times we tell ourselves these because of past trauma. If we were in a situation

where we were being abused, for instance, we may have told ourselves that we were

the problem rather than our abuser, because it was just too hard for us to

understand why someone would hurt us. These are all common and yes, quite

complicated, but once you isolate why you're struggling with these critical

messages, you can take empowered action to change it. The third is a very

specific and often overlooked unfavorable coping

mechanism. When something good happens in our life, we often fear that we're going

to lose it and, as a way to cope with the uncertainty of that, we reject the good

thing itself. We push away that love or that joy. We convince ourself that the

worst will happen so, when the worst thing does happen, in case that is the

outcome that occurs, then we're a little bit numb to it.

We've shielded ourselves from it. But, in truth, this just causes us to reject

ourselves and the good experience. The fourth is guilt about your past. When

you believe that your actions dictate who you are as a person and the actions

that you took or unfavorable, you'll see yourself as a bad person.

So really the first all-encompassing step that you need to take is just to

take some time to reflect on this. Discover why self-worth is something

that you really struggle with. Take all the time you need whether that's an hour

after this video, a day, a week, months, whatever you need to really reflect and

dig deep and figure out why self-worth is something that you struggle with. Try

taking notes, journaling, pondering this, maybe even taking some online self-worth

quizzes! Whatever can get you some more insight into what you're struggling with

in self-worth will help you take better and more targeted empowered action

towards changing it. But remember, don't overwhelm yourself by trying to fix

everything at once. Pick one particular issue with self-worth and focus on that

for now. Even these tiny little steps make a huge difference over time and

it's that work, that consistent work, to change little things day by day that

really makes a difference with improving your self-worth. So here are the

solutions to those previous struggles with self-worth that I mentioned earlier.

If you realize that your primary struggle with self-worth is because of

the messages that society tells you, then try to isolate what those messages are.

Start to dispute them. Start to refute them. Write down why they're wrong and

what you should really be believing instead. If your struggle is with your

own inner critic and the messages that you tell yourself, try to figure out why

it's criticizing you. Essentially try to find out why your inner critic is trying

to convince you of something and compassionately guide it towards a new

and healthier perspective. If it's the fear of losing something good that's

causing you to tell yourself messages like you don't deserve good things, then

try to work on accepting the fear of uncertainty. Acknowledge that nothing is

indeed permanent, but, despite this, the joys of life are worth experiencing. We

don't want to pass these wonders up when they're in our life, even if that means

that when something bad happens, we feel it more deeply too.

Essentially, all that you have to do is build up a resilience to that grief.

Recognize that you can feel really deeply when the joys of life are around

and, in case you do lose something, you can survive that grief too. As you build

that emotional resilience you will feel more confident to handle the things in

life and then you will feel brave enough to really experience and honor the joys

that life has to offer you as well. With that confidence you will start to

feel like you deserve great things. If you feel guilty about past actions, I

would really encourage you to look into the difference between guilt and shame.

Shame is when we say, "I was bad for doing this" and guilt is when we say, "This

action was a bad thing to do." Shame just puts us down, whereas guilt inspires

action to fix our mistakes. I would really recommend Brené Brown's work on

shame. She is a fantastic leader out there and has done a ton of research on

this concept. She is a fantastic resource for working through shame and

recognizing that you can still honor yourself as a wonderful person even if

you've made some mistakes in the past. So now I'd encourage you to take some

action: What is one single reason that you can think of right now that you

struggle with self-worth? And what is one action that you can take today to start

to change that? And remember that you are not alone in this struggle, so when

you post a comment below you are inspiring other people as well.

It's something that, as a community, we can help to lift each other up. It would

also mean a ton if you could share this blog out with the world, like with a

loved one or on your favorite social media channel. So if you enjoyed this and

you know someone that could benefit from this video too,

please send it to them. As always there are a ton more resources over at

UncoverYourJoy.com so head on over, check it out, and leave a comment! While you're

there, be sure to subscribe to our email list. You'll receive exclusive monthly

self love letters, weekly blog updates, and free resources I send only to my

email community. Please remember that you are worthy of love. You deserve joy. You

deserve happiness and beauty and all of the wonderful things that life can offer

you. And, with a little work on self-worth, I know that you will come to a place

where you believe that you deserve all of these wonderful things too.

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Self-Verify Your Analyzer! - Duration: 1:32.

Bob McCarthy, a pioneer of FFT analysis in sound system optimization, wrote the

quintessential book on the topic. In it, he's got a whole chapter about

verification. On the second page he says: "Analyzer self-verification ensures

that problems we discover are actually in the sound system, not the diagnostic

tool. In other words, we need to ensure that our analyzer is not coloring our

data in ways we're not aware of. We have to be aware of the frequency response,

dynamic range, and other properties of our analyzer's inputs and other

components. Let's look at one part of this equation. How can we verify that our

analyzer's inputs have matched frequency response? I'll demonstrate this using a

Sound Devices USBPre 2 and Rational Acoustics' Smaart (Version 8), but the

concepts and the procedure apply to other systems and interfaces as well.

First, check your interface settings. Then, with a Y cable, connect a pink noise

generator to the inputs you want to test. I'm using Smaart as my pink noise

generator, so I'll just plug the Y cable into the interface's output. Turn on your

noise generator, and raise the level so that it comes into your analyzer

somewhere around -10dB full scale. Then set up and run a transfer function

that compares the two inputs you're testing. Verify that the magnitude and

phase traces are flat, and you've now verified the response of your analyzer inputs

I've been making a series of videos explaining what FFT analyzers do,

and how they work. Please check it out and subscribe to learn more. See you in the next one!

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Psquare: I was stupid – Paul Okoye blames self over fight with brother|NVS News - Duration: 2:17.

Psquare: I was stupid – Paul Okoye blames self over fight with brother

Paul Okoye, former member of defunct music group, Psquare has apologized for his role in the fight that teared the duo apart.

Featuring on Beats FM, the singer also expressed regrets over the fight that brought an end to the PSquare brand.

The singer, now known as Rudeboy disclosed that he wasn't himself at the time, adding that something came upon him then.

When asked if the group will ever record a song together again, he said: "I don't know.

Speaking further, Paul said, "My fans, take heart.

As e dey break my heart, na so e dey break una heart.

"I think I was very stupid, in that aspect.

Something got into me.

I couldn't stand him.

But what I did, I regretted it.

Please forgive me for that and let me move on.

"Everybody has problems in their families, everyone has issues.