hey guys I wanna talk to you today about putting our value in other people
specifically one person I'm not talking about the value we find from you know
family and friends that that's the thing sometimes that keeps us going and keeps us
alive and enjoying life I'm talking about putting our entire self value in
one person let me tell you about me I was very independent as a young girl
unfortunately around the time of pre pre university and the end of high school
hormones finally kicked in and I found myself putting my value in what boys
thought of me and these are not many boys as you know I have not dated or
anything but I would find myself latching on to friends who were boys and
then putting all my value into what they thought of me and how our friendship
would go and I didn't realize that I was doing something wrong here because in my
eyes it was just friendship and I was being a normal girl but I was actually making
their opinion of me so important that supposing and it happened if they left I
found my entire self-worth going with them just a few months ago I sat down with
myself recognized what was happening and made a sort of vow to myself that I
would not put myself in such a situation where I'm depending on any other person
for value God in the Bible whenever he's telling his people to do a certain thing
for him or to be a certain person like say the king of Israel he's not telling
them look your people are gonna love you and you're gonna meet all the right
friends and all the right advisors who are going to support you right to the
end God says most of the time do not be
afraid for I am with you and I will take care of you and I am your God
he's not talking any other individual here we see that
Jesus he appoints disciples two by two into the mission field that's why I'm saying it
is important to have relationships and we do need help we do need society but
this was not for the purpose of value itself such a deep intricate part of our
being that place I believe is for God to give to us it is not for us to find in a
particular individual especially if it's one person if say it's a whole family
that is loving on you and a whole group of friends with whom you are family it's a
different scenario this kind of value is love mainly it's a different thing from
you completely depending on another person for your existence that's where it
gets really scary and like I said most of the time this is unconscious
it happens step by step day by day with the more you share and the more you are depending on
so-and-so to reciprocrate
reciprocate
where was I
reciprocrate
see you also say reciprocrate
whatever it is we're Indians so po
Haa
Indians speak English very well thank you very much
I just disproved my point but okay
so the
point of my video today is to tell you beware if you are finding yourself in a
position that if a particular person goes out of your life you will not be
able to survive and don't allow yourself to completely wrap your value around one
particular person whoever that may be even if you are married to him or her it
is not right for us to give that much of our value away in what a human being
thinks of us and this is for obvious reasons because we all have errors but
also we are not going to be living in this earth for
an infinite period of time or at any time our lives can change completely
unpredictably so if you're in this situation the only thing I can suggest to
you is get your value from the right person and that is God Himself who made
you and his entire Bible is like a love letter to each of us I can just open
this book at random that's what I did my finger was not here to trick you okay I
just opened this Bible and I went to Zephaniah 3 in the verse 16 it says
cheer up Zion don't be afraid for the Lord your God is living among you he is a
mighty Savior he will take delight in you with gladness with his love he will
calm all your fears he will rejoice over you with joyful songs and it goes on to
say a lot of amazing things a lot of promises that by the way does not fail
nothing of what God has promised to me has ever failed why I read this to you
is because it is showing a lot of the things that we look for in other people
we want people to be happy at the sight of us and we want people to tell us that
we are beautiful or to just proclaim their love for us we really need that
but we keep looking for that in people when there is a God who is giving that
to us 24/7 and we are not some of us not at all aware and many of us aware but
not accepting his love for us and it's very sad to me that God is giving all
this love to us but we are going and finding it in the wrong people and the
wrong places it may make us happy for that time when we are with those people
but it is not a flawless love unfortunately and no matter what happens
in your life when you have this God and this love you will find yourself still
standing still going on still moving still breathing you'll not be devastated
because his love can withstand any storm that
comes into your life so hope that helped you I'm Vihan Damaris on serious Sundays
signing off and I'll see you tomorrow on miraculous Monday's feel free to comment below and
tell me your thoughts on these topics share some stories with me and tell me
I'm not the only one experiencing these things and you can even email me in
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