My number-one problem has always been my self-confidence.
This is the reason why I have missed so much in my life, why I had so many hardships!
I was embarrassed to go to the beach,
I didn't want to go to that club,
I didn't want to compete in the audition for my dream role!
I didn't want to do this, I didn't want to do that!
But NO!
It's not that I didn't want to! I wanted!
But I was scared!
I was scared of being called fat, I was scared of being called ugly,
I was scared of being told that I'm not good enough!
I was scared of being rejected!
I was scared of failing!
Our lack of self-confidence is coming from us not being able to meet other people's expectations of us.
We value our self-worth externally, instead of valuing it internally.
People will always have something negative to say about you!
But they are only do that because they're trying to project their own negative attributes on you!
Because they rather judge you instead of owning it.
Growing up our environment helped shaped our belief system.
And for most of us, who are experienced in low self-esteem,
we have this negative belief that we are not good enough.
And we keep comparing ourselves to others, that we think, that are better than us.
For example:
Being scared to go to that job interview, because you're scared that you're not good enough!
Creating self-confidence is so easy!
That as you continue to listen to the words of this video,
you would have wished that you would have done it sooner.
But it's not too late!
First, start with You!
Our mind controls everything!
You are in charge!
Stop listening to the negative things that people have to say about you!
People tend to overlook the good things and give negative judgment, instead of praises.
You do that yourself!
Every time you look in the mirror, you're looking for flaws.
The first thing that I used to say to myself when I looked in the mirror was:
Oh my G-D I'm so fat
Oh my G-D I don't like my nose
Oh my G-d my lips are too small
I kept complaining about my flaws!
But no!
Look into the mirror, and be grateful for all the things that you love about yourself!
Change your negative self-talk to what Tony Robbins calls, Incantations.
Every time you look in the mirror,
tell yourself and feel how great you are.
I'm beautiful!
I'm special!
I love myself!
Tell that to yourself and believe it and feel it!
Who cares what other people say!!
Their opinion of you needs to stop being your reality.
Trust yourself and love yourself!
Stop comparing yourself to others!
We are all made differently.
We are all unique in our own way.
You want to be like others, but you have particular qualities that I don't have,
and I have particular qualities, that you don't have.
And we can't take it away from each other.
Accept who you are and embrace it.
Love yourself and all your perfect imperfections.
Because just like John Legend says, all of me, loves all of you!
Guys thank you so much for listening!
And just remember, I am here with you!
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My name is Danit, I'm an NLP Master Practitioner and a Life coach




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