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good morning welcome to another episode of mommy in motion so as many people

know and as we have learned first hand kids are like sponges they literally

listen to everything even when we don't think that they hear us I swear they

have like superhero hearing when we don't want them to hear us like when we

want them to listen that's when they don't hear anything that we're saying

and of course the type that we don't expect them to hear some of the times

when we say things like you know bad words around the house which was pretty

evident a few weeks ago when I heard Adrian singing a song the closer I got I

realized what he had said and I asked him to repeat it and he looked at me and

he dropped the f-bomb with a big smile on his face and I it was a horrible

reaction for me on my part because I ended up just laughing because it's a

two-year-old who knows that it's a bad word and he just thought it was the most

hilarious thing to say ever and and this also happened with Austin when he was

little like there was times when he was just like bump his elbow on the wall and

or drop a toy and all of a sudden he was just nonchalantly say oh shit oh shit

you know it's just like wait a second like you're not supposed to be saying

that but it's so funny yeah so lesson learned there we had to be a lot more

careful with the words that we were saying around the kids I swear they're

not even in the room when we say them and they just hear it so with that being

said on a more serious note now there's been a huge lesson I've had to learn for

myself dealing with self-esteem issues growing

up it's so easy to nitpick at ourselves and judge ourselves our physical

appearance and and pick out the things that we don't like especially now with

the beauty standards they're set at such a high bar because of social media so

when it comes to insecurities if it's affecting my adult mind how much more to

my impressionable six-year-old or my two-year-old copycat that's one of the

main role models how good of an influence am I actually if they see me

judging myself and picking out things about how I look that I don't like if

they see me talking about how I don't like my nose or how I feel like my

thighs are ugly they're going to end up looking at themselves and be like well

there must be something wrong with me too and they're gonna start trying to

find their own flaws in themselves I don't know what I would do if my kids

were ever to get bullied and then on top of that they start to believe like

whatever mean things are being said to them or about them

like literally just thinking about that makes me want to cry and also type

somebody in the face and it hasn't even happened they

more than anything and I want them to be strong and confident with who they are

and how they look I want them to really really love themselves children can be

so cruel nowadays and even adults so how do we

you know how do we protect their fragile minds and their fragile like egos like

how can we how can we keep their egos boosted enough so that they know how to

value themselves and the older they get if they get on social media on their own

that's just gonna add even more pressure to be perfect so you guys something has

got to change and it starts at home it starts with us as parents like we have

really got to start speaking more positively about ourselves about how we

look so that our kids can learn how to do that too it won't be perfect if we

all have insecurities we're only human but even just raising self awareness

about how much negative self-talk we do and keeping it at a minimum or keeping

it away from their little ears that'll make a world of a difference I think

they're really good at complimenting my kids and praising them but I think I

need to work on complement to myself more for their sake and truly this could

be like a double benefit or actually a triple benefit number one your child

gains confidence and the meaning of self-love number two

they're now affecting others because they know how to look for and see good

qualities and others and they're not going to be afraid to lift them up

number three positive self-talk will help us feel

more confident experience that's the person we all have what we think our

imperfections or insecurities or flaws but the more positive things we can say

about ourselves the more we actually do start to believe them is just like

thinking of it as positive affirmations before you say something that's positive

the more you start to feel confident the more you start to feel better so I want

you to do something today don't be afraid to look in the mirror and be like

damn look good or I love how the Sun brings out the freckles in my face or

this body may not be the fitness but it isn't getting badass guys if I'm being

completely honest I have days where I'm just like and I really really miss my

pre-baby body like I could eat anything and not look like I'm five months

pregnant again after my meal but then again I have to turn that thought around

and be like wait a second this body has how

three healthy babies it has gone through three major surgeries to birth these

three healthy babies and I'm still alive and I'm still functioning and I'm still

healthy like what the heck am i complaining

about you know like having been able to do that is the superpower and I will

never take for granted so there once we change our mindsets will slowly be able

to change the mindset of those that are closest to us even if it seems like it's

out of your comfort zone to compliment yourself just do it little by little one

complements a date it's gonna make a difference you just got to start and

okay even if you don't do this for yourself at least do it for your babies

I hope this message helps and we can start building up more body positive

self loving and self valuing generation together alright guys if you like this

video please give a thumbs up and don't forget to subscribe and also leave a

comment down below if you started implementing some part of this message

today or if you already knew this and it's old news and you've already been

doing it then you're freaking awesome alright thanks so much for joining and I

will talk to you guys again soon! Bye!

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and how did it all start and why did that happen and how is it that human

consciousness has become so dysfunctional and if you look at human

history and different centuries you can see it almost it looks as if it were

becoming in the 19th century everybody believed in progress it's getting better

better all the time they said they also believed that science had well walls or

had already almost solved all problems that we could possibly ask and then the

20th century came and then they realized how little they knew and they realized

how dysfunctional the collective human mind is the destructiveness that was

unleashed upon humanity via humans on other humans on a vast scale through the

madness of political movements and ideologies and unbelievable suffering

caused by humans to other humans and see if you look at that and if that is not

dysfunctional what is and it's been this has been the worst century of all the

20th in terms of suffering and people killed and this is a very young century

we are in now a very young millennium and already when you watch TV it's a

continuation of the 20th century and if nothing changes in human consciousness

will have another 20th century except it'll get worse because science and

technology continuously increase the effects of human madness the tools

created by through intelligence yes its requires great intelligence to

manufacture these things and very often intelligence in the

service of madness so there is at there is that basic dysfunction in the human

mind and it is so deep it's becoming so obvious now that very unlikely that

human the planet would even survive another hundred years of this same

dysfunction how could it become so destructive why is it how did it all

start and is there a way beyond that I am saying there is a way beyond a new

state of consciousness is already arising but this must not be made into

some new belief it's seeing that a new state of consciousness is already

arising within you while the old state of consciousness perhaps or probably

also is still operating within you so the old state of consciousness to call

it this is that if dysfunctional state is continuing this is what you hear when

you watch the news on television it reports about human madness but at the

same time the new is arising we can only hope that it is arising in sufficiently

large numbers of people and quickly enough before the old consciousness self

destructs so we need also to look at the essence of the dysfunction because if if

it is a dysfunction in the human mind it must operate in each human being and it

must should be possible to locate it in oneself rather than saying the evil is

all out there it's not evil it's simply a form of unconsciousness and what is

that unconsciousness at some point in the evolution of humanity there was the

beginning of thought an incredible evolutionary leap the ability to

conceptualize to think to formulate mental symbols arose this is probably

what the book of Genesis refers to when it speaks of the first humans who ate of

the fruit of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil

suddenly the mind was able to differentiate this is bad

the knowledge of good and evil the knowledge of good and bad generating

ethical shakespeare wrote in one of his plays

nothing is either good or bad but thinking makes it so the arising of

thought was an enormous thing and we cannot say that it was bad it happened

because it had to happen whatever happens has to happen there is

nothing that happens that is not brought about by the totality everything is into

a web of interconnectedness so whatever happens cannot be otherwise this is what

humans most humans don't know because they're against what happens this now

this shouldn't be but it is sort arose and that sudden very quickly humans

became the dominant species before the enormous power of thought and over a

long period of time thought began to operate more and more and then gradually

human sense of identity of self of who I am became bound up with the movement of

thought an image developed in the mind of me humans began to have a

relationship with themselves nothing saw on the planet before ever had a

relationship with itself nor do that to this day the tree doesn't have a

relationship with itself the cat doesn't have a relationship with itself it is

itself and the cat doesn't have a relationship with

itself its life is compared to human life not without challenges but

unproblematic it doesn't carry the happiness of a problematic sense of self

derived from continuous thought activity

and so a cat doesn't need therapy

because it hasn't split itself into two me and myself because now life is

becoming very complex so humans began to walk around with a self-image a

self-concept it took a long time to develop

whereas before life had been so unproblematic and easy they were it just

a human life was one of many ways in which the totality expressed itself as

it still does in nature and then that was one could call that the original

innocence in humans the original innocence that is still there in nature

this is why it's so beautiful to go into nature so beautiful to even watch an

animal even if it kills another animal it's still innocent and so the humans

lost the original innocence that is there when you when you are yourself and

then a phantom self arose that walked with them wherever they went and its

main location is in the head one could say as me and so life became

increasingly problematic because they lost that rootedness in being that a

tree has a flower has an animal has

without knowing it it has it without knowing it it knows itself to be one

with the one so it doesn't live in that neurotic

state of continuous anxiety and tension

just so it an amazing event on this planet this arising of self a mind made

self and so gradually that sense of being rooted in being being one with the

one life I don't want to use words like God

they've been misused for too long being rooted in being one with that and then

gradually they lost that this he became disconnected or still we're connected

but didn't know it anymore so it's as if they were disconnected from life so they

became little entities that felt separate from the totality they had

taken themselves out of the the web said then they say me they say I and when

they say I they refer to a conceptualized sense of self in the head

they refer to their name which is only a thought form a thought or sequence of

sounds John Smith I who are you John Smith that sounds convincing

but is nothing means completely meaningless it means nothing so you have

the illusion that already you know who you are so and then John Smith is going

to tell you if you asked further well who are you

beyond that he says well I am a father of two and an accountant and graduate of

that university and and he may have some longer story to tell

divorced twice and and so he will give you a little story which is the story of

the self and there are other aspects to that self which are not always on the

surface they are certain reactive patterns in the self there are ways in

which that self interprets the universe because it's been conditioned by its

culture in its environment in certain ways it is the content of the mind it is

the emotions that accompany those mind movements so two together the content

the conditioned content of the mind because everybody's gets conditioned by

their surrounding culture the world personal level collective world the

country you live in the culture you living the time you live in the language

is itself a strong form of conditioning your first language the way it is spoken

what it contains it's already a worldview one could say it's already

embodied in the language so at an early age all that happens and gradually it's

the child the first after the child artists his or her name when he's our

she is asked what is your name Tom Smith then that is the easily now other things

will cling to that first concept of self memories experiences knowledge things

said the sense of self gathers around itself to make itself more complete and

for the rest of his life John Smith is going to look for

things to absorb into his sense of self to add to his sense of self because his

sense of self is not sufficient yet has not completed itself yet he doesn't feel

that he's really fully himself yet there is a sense an underlying the sense of

lack of not enough of insufficiency of needs some more something more this

isn't it and this is built into very structure of this mind made sense of

self its discontent lack fear it's always there somewhere because

ultimately it is only a mental formation it conceptualized me in the head and as

such it can never feel complete so it's condemned to seeking to add more to me

in whatever form hence the need the enormous psychological need for future

because it's through future that I can find the more that will complete me that

will make my self complete and that's a deep-seated collective mind pattern

associated with the self the the sense of self that is conceptualized of course

the moment you live in and through a conceptualized sense of self this is the

fate of all humans they have to go through that the moment that arises your

entire reality the world with which you interact becomes a conceptualized

reality in other words you see it through the filter of the conditioning

of the conceptualized me the sense of self so whatever you look upon interact

with is immediately according to its come

auditioning the conditioned self interpreted judged labeled according to

the conditioning so that is what humans have in common the will mentor what

nation what culture they belong to order in the more advanced countries the

dysfunction is also more advanced that's all but they all have the same

dysfunction the way in which things are being labeled varies enormous ly if you

were from a different culture Arabic culture and you walked around Stockholm

you would label things in a different way

the things that you call good and bad would be different and when you go there

what you call good and parrot there would be different from what the locals

call good and bad very different and but of course each person is so identified

with the mind made self and it's mental positions and labels it's almost

impossible to step out of identification identification means deriving your sense

of self from the mental positions and see that other mental positions are just

different mental positions to see that one's own conditioning and mental

position is no more than that and does not contain the truth it is an aspect at

best an aspect of the truth and aspect of the totality in other words all

thought or mental positions are fragments fragmentary relatively true

perhaps they cannot contain the totality so humans don't know this their total

identification with mind movement with a mind create itself and so then they're

the others which are have their form of conditioning are totally identified with

that and they need each other to enhance they're always in sufficient sense of

self so this is why humans love to have enemies and make enemies especially

groups but or even individuals do it unconsciously of course the groups that

have their group ID which is a conceptualized story which

they're telling themselves including patterns of reaction and behavior and

thinking these groups have a strong need to have other groups that are their

enemies because through fighting and being in opposition to others they

strengthen their it illusory sense of self so the boundary around me the more

enemies I have the stronger this boundary which is mind created around me

becomes and the stronger the sense of separateness which is the boundary the

stronger the illusion of self of me whether that self is a predominantly

personal sense of self or whether itself is a predominantly collective sense of

self which is our tribe our religion our nation our group doesn't matter it's the

same principle is at work it is a conceptualized identity and the

conceptualized identity is looking

looking for problems in conflict because it needs that too so that this mental

structure can define itself me not me me ends here and there's the rest of the

world and some of the rest of the world I can actually use to make me a little

bit bigger so I'm reaching out looking for things new things to add to the

content of my mind to identify ways to make the self more complete so

everybody's looking out for self completion to add more to me because I

end here and then other things in the world the

not me world are threatening because there are many things out in this world

that might take away things from me so I'm they attained the world is also a

dangerous place into a promising place at the same time I fear the world and I

desire I want amazing state of consciousness so whether on a collective

or the personal is this great need to complete me through adding more content

mental because even if you want to acquire more possessions in order to

feel a little bit more secure in who you are in order to feel a little bit bigger

because you know you have a big car and a big house and so your sense of self

can expand into the car

not really the car but at the thought form of car it's the car itself is quite

meaningless because it's metal and it will in a few years it'll be reduced to

rust so it's not the car but it is the thought form of car if it's a big one

the thought form of car but the self you identity I identify with the thought

form so that is then added to the collection of thought forms that is me

and for a little while the me fields just grown I'm getting

somewhere because I've added that to me and then it won't be long before the

thought form no longer really fulfills its purpose of completing me and again

it's not quite in half this car and then comes maybe the house and again for a

while it feels the house is the house it's not the fact that you own

the house the whole idea of ownership is a fiction it's to do with a

fictionalized fictitious sense of self what does it mean I own this as you're

telling yourself a story in your head about this house and that story says it

is me I own this house it is mine it means nothing if you were insane and you

said I own half the city of Stockholm and if you were insane you could go

around to the city telling this to people and say okay you better go for

treatment you're insane because nobody agrees with

you if you say I own this huge building and

nobody agrees with you then you're insane if you say I own this building

and everybody else agrees with you and they sign a paper to confirm that they

agree with you and you own it in either case it's a story the only difference is

it's a story that nobody agrees with in which case you're insane or it's a story

with which everybody agrees and you're wealthy but it's a it's a story it's

part of this so ownership is part of the story of me and of course it loves that

it lasts your own and then that's of course you can no matter how much you

add on that level of thought forms the thought form of ownership it don't ever

really be enough so then you have to go on to other things to add more to

complete me other people's opinion of me this is a little bit less tangible than

than heavy material things so that becomes an important thought form if

other people think that you are great you are very important you and then the

the conceptualized self is always looking out for you to get that

recognition thank you you're so great oh oh oh it might say oh

no I'm not really great but it sees how it feels so good and then perhaps the

entire world you might even some people amass great wealth on that level the

wealth of thought forms that you are very important you might become

important in the eyes of the world and so that then the self certainly feels

expanded they might even build they don't do that so much anymore these days

a big monument of me before you died and then that softens you surely I must have

made it now but now you wake up in the middle of the night with the state of

fear and it's not it and you might even at that point look through the delusion

and see what the world is built up around you is a fiction what the

newspapers are saying about you and the glossy pictures about you in case you

are if they say a famous actor or actress and then you suddenly see this

is just a big always like us there's nothing real here they're talking about

some illusory entity they've created this illusory entity which is nothing to

do with me and so at that point perhaps you step beyond when you so much has

been added to you and it hasn't you haven't arrived at that sense of having

made it and then at that point you might begin to go beyond that and this is

usually the point where the spiritual life begins for people it's the

realization that I cannot complete me on that level I've tried and ok so

everybody in a way has tried and failed on that level before the spiritual

dimension Oh up or before the spiritual search begins

you must have failed somehow of course everybody fails except they delude

themselves that it can still work out on the level of story on the level of the

conceptualized

you

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